Isenzo esichukumisayo somzalwana ocheba intloko yakhe kudade wabo oneminyaka emi-3 ubudala onomhlaza
Namhlanje sikuxelela ibali labazalwana ababini, uhayi umntwana ngomphefumlo ohloniphekileyo kunye nentombazana encinci eneminyaka emi-3 kuphela enomhlaza. L'uthando obophelela abazalwana ababini luqhina olukhethekileyo nolukhethekileyo olwadalwa ukususela ekuzalweni. Olu nxibelelwano lubonakaliswa yimvakalelo enamandla yothando, ukukhuselwa kunye nokwabelana ngokulinganayo.
Bazalwana zikhula kunye, yabelana nge amava ebomini, bayazana kwaye bayaxhasana. Phezu kwazo nje iingxabano ezingenakuphepheka nobuntu obahlukeneyo, iqhina lobuzalwana lihlala lomelele. La maqumrhu mabini adityaniswe ngobomi ancedana kuzo zonke iimeko, ayaxhasana amaxesha anzima kwaye sonwabele amaxesha olonwabo kunye.
Eli bali limalunga ne Ukwabelana ngamaxesha anzima. Khoen ngumkhuluwa wentombazana encinci 3 iminyaka Isigulana somhlaza othi, emva kwechemotherapy yeshumi elinesibini, aphulukane nazo zonke iinwele zakhe kwaye ke uyacheba ukumxhasa ngexesha elide lokuchacha.
A Lula Beth wafunyaniswa umhlaza wezintso kwiminyaka emi-3 ubudala. Pha Bowden usapho wathi akuva ezo ndaba wawela kwi-spiral of ukungakhululeki kunye neentlungu, kodwa uye wagqiba kwelokuba anganikezeli aze alwe ngokumanyeneyo. Kuba kufanele kube njalo usapho, iyunithi ngexesha lesidingo.
Kwaye uKhoen uyayazi into ngayo, kuba ibinguye owenze lo msebenzi umqondiso womanyano mkhulu. Nangona emncinci kakhulu uye wabonisa ubudlelwane obunzulu obubophelela kudadewabo.
UKristin Bowden ngumfoti, umama wabantwana ababini abamangalisayo. ULula Beth, oyena mncinane wayegcwele impilo ukuya kuthi ga Matshi kunyaka ophelileyo. Ngelo xesha ke wagula ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kodwa phezu kwako nje oko utyelelo kunye noxilongo, akukho bani wayenokumxelela ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba undonakele phi. UKristin kunye noDakota kodwa abazange banikezele, babezimisele ukuyazi inyaniso. Kwaye inyaniso yazityhila kuye ngendlela yomhlaza ubungakanani bebhola ekhatywayo, al intso yasekhohlo.
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ukuba Ulungelelwaniso olufanelekileyo ULula Beth wamkelwa kwi-l Isibhedlele saBantwana saseSalt Lake City apho watyandwa khona ukususa umhlaza kwaye ngelishwa kwanezintso. Emva kotyando lwaqala ubunzima be ichemotherapy. Abazali, bakubona ukuwohloka nendlela umntwana wabo awayevakalelwa ngayo emva konyango, babekulungele okona kubi.
Kodwa uLula Beth omncinci wayengenanjongo yokunikezela kwaye ajongane njengeqhawekazi lokwenyani 11 imijikelo yekhemo. Xa abazali bacacisela uKhoen omncinci okwenzekayo, ngelo xesha uLula Beth omncinci kwafuneka achebe iinwele zakhe, ngoku eyancipha ngenxa ye-chiemio, wagqiba ekubeni zisike naye, ukuze amxhase kwaye angamenzi azive ngokwahlukileyo.
ULula Beth ekupheleni kokusikwa uye wandanga wamanga Ndiyabulela mntakabawo ngowonwabela naloo mzuzu unzima. Kwangobo busuku, lo bawo namanye amalungu entsapho nabo bagqiba kwelokuba balandele ekhondweni baze bachebe. Namhlanje uLula Beth unaye 4 iminyaka kwaye ugqibe umjikelo wakhe wokugqibela wechemo kwaye unjalo uphiliswe ngokusemthethweni.