Umsonto obomvu
Kuya kufuneka sonke ngaxesha lithile kubomi bethu ukuba siqonde ukuba buyintoni na ubomi. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ubuza lo mbuzo ngendlela engathethekiyo, abanye endaweni yoko bangena nzulu kodwa ngoku kwimigca embalwa ndizama ukukunika isiluleko ngokuqinisekileyo esifanele ukholo, mhlawumbi ngenxa yamava aqokelelweyo okanye ngobabalo lukaThixo kodwa ngaphambili Ukubhala into endinayo kukunika ingqondo yokwenyani kule nto uyifundayo ngoku.
Buphi ubomi?
Okokuqala ndinokukuxelela ukuba ubomi bunamandla ahlukeneyo kodwa ngoku ndiyakuchaza ongafanelekanga.
Ubomi ngumtya obomvu kwaye njengazo zonke iimpahla zelaphu unemvelaphi kunye nesiphelo kunye nokuqhubeka phakathi kwezi zinto zimbini.
Kubukho bakho akufuneki uyilibale imvelaphi yakho apho uvela khona. Iya kukwenza ube ngcono kwimeko yakho yangoku okanye uziphucule kwimeko yakho okanye ukuthobe, isidima sabomeleleyo.
Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba kule ntambo ibomvu, ibizelwe ukucacisa ukuba akukho nto yenzeka ngamabona-ndenzile kodwa yonke idityaniswe kunye, izinto zenzekile zibalulekile ukukwenza ukuba ubazise abo bakungqongileyo.
Kule ntambo ebomvu uya kufumana zonke izithako.
Uya kuchitha amaxesha entlupheko xa sele uphile kakuhle kwezoqoqosho kuya kufuneka uyibonge kwaye uncede abantu abahluphekileyo odibana nabo endleleni yakho.
Uya kuchitha amaxesha okugula ke xa uphilile kufuneka umxabise kwaye uncede isigulana odibana naye endleleni yakho.
Uya kuchitha amaxesha angonwabanga ngoko xa wonwabile kufuneka ubonge kwaye uncede abo bafumana iingxaki kunye nokudibana kwindlela yakho.
Ubomi ngumtya obomvu, unemvelaphi, indlela, isiphelo. Kule nkqubo uya kwenza onke amava afunekayo ekufuneka uyenzile kwaye baya kudibana bonke kwaye nawe ngokwakho uyaqonda ukuba amava omnye akhokelela kwelinye kwaye ukuba wenze elinye elinye akunakuphinda kwenzeke. Ngamafutshane, yonke into edibeneyo yokwenza ukuba uxabise wonke umntu kunye nobomi uqobo.
Ke xa ufikelela kwincopho yobomi bakho kwaye ubone iinkcukacha ngale ntambo ibomvu, ke imvelaphi yakho, amava akho kunye nesiphelo sobomi uqobo ke uya kuthi uqonde ukuba akukho sipho sixabiseke ngakumbi kunale, ekubeni uqondile umbono wokuba yindoda nokuba uzalwe.
Ngapha koko, ukuba uya nzulu uyaqonda ukuba ubomi bakho bukhokelwe ngabo bakudalayo kwaye ngale ndlela kuphela uya kuthi unike intsingiselo yokwenyani kukholo lwakho kuThixo.
Msinga obomvu " Ungalibali la magama alula. Ukuba wenza ukucamngca kwakho kwemisonto ebomvu imihla ngemihla uya kwenza izinto ezintathu ezibalulekileyo: ukuqonda ubomi, uhlala usendaweni yokukhanyisela, ube yindoda yokholo. Ezi zinto zintathu ziya kukwenza ukuba unike ixabiso eliphezulu kubomi bakho uqobo, enkosi kwintambo ebomvu.
Ibhalwe nguPaolo Tescione