Isono Sokukrexeza - Ngaba Ndingaxolelwa NguThixo?
Q. Ndiyindoda etshatileyo enamakhoboka okukhangela abanye abantu basetyhini kunye nokukrexeza rhoqo. Ndiye ndanyaniseka kakhulu emfazini wam nangona ndisiya kuvuma izono. Amaxesha amaninzi ndenza impazamo efanayo ngenxa yokuba likhoboka. Ndingasindiswa nguThixo ngokushiya obu bomi bunesono ndibuyele kwiNkosi yam? Nceda PHENDULA.
Lo ngumbuzo ophendulwe ngokufanelekileyo kwicawe yakho ngokuthetha nomfundisi wakho okanye nomcebisi olungileyo wamaKatolika. Kunzima ukusondela kule foram ngokuchanekileyo. Kodwa nazi iingcinga ezimbalwa ezimfutshane kubalulekile ukuba uziqonde ukukunceda ukukhomba kwicala elifanelekileyo.
Okokuqala, inceba kaThixo igqibelele kwaye igqibelele kangangokuba inqwenela ukukhulula kuso sonke isono. Ukukrexeza sisono kwaye unokuba likhoboka laso. Xa oku kusenzeka, ukuvuma izono kubalulekile. Kodwa rhoqo ubabalo lokuVuma lusebenza kakuhle xa umlutha ujongene nezinye iindlela ngokunjalo. Zama ukwenza idinga nomfundisi wakho okanye ujonge umcebisi olungileyo. Yiba nethemba kwaye ukhuthalele ukufuna inkululeko.
Okwesibini, ukukrexeza kubangela umonakalo omkhulu emtshatweni. Nangona uThixo exolela ngokulula xa uvuma kuye ngokunyanisekileyo, ungalindeli ukuba inxeba kubudlelwane bakho neqabane lakho kunye namanye amalungu osapho liza kuphiliswa kwangoko. Olu lulindelo olungafanelekanga kubo. Ukunyanga kunokwenzeka ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye uxolelwaniso kufuneka lufunwe kwaye lube nethemba, kodwa kuya kuthatha ixesha, umonde, inceba, uxolelo kunye nokuguquka. Sukuvumela le nto ukuba ikongamele, yiba nethemba kwaye uzibophelele ekwenzeni nantoni na ukuze uphilise kwaye ubuyise ukuzithemba. Kungathatha iiveki, iinyanga, okanye neminyaka, kodwa ukufuna olu xolelwaniso olunyanisekileyo kubalulekile.
Yibanokholo! Kwaye musa ukusebenzisa umlutha njengesizathu. Kunganzima ukwamkela, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba uthathe uxanduva ngezenzo zakho. Yenze kwimeko yenceba kaThixo kunye namandla angenamda wokuzikhulula kuso sonke isono. Mthembe kwaye unike ubomi bakho kuye yonke imihla. Ukuba wenjenjalo, iNkosi iyakukuyeka.