Ukungcatshwa: ziziphi iziphumo zokuziphatha kunye nezingezizo zokuziphatha
Singathini malunga ne ukungcatsha? Umtshato namhlanje awusengomthetho umiselweyo njengakwiminyaka edlulileyo. Ukuba nabantwana akusengomsebenzi kwaye mhlawumbi ayisengomsebenzi wokuba ngumfazi. Kodwa kufuneka sivume ukuba namhlanje sitshatela uthando kwaye phantse kancinci ngenxa yomdla. Ngamanye amaxesha kuyenzeka ukuba into ebalulekileyo kubudlelwane bomtshato ithathelwa phantsi: uxanduva! Kwaye kukho ezinye iziphumo!
Dal Umbono wezomthetho ukungcatsha umbuso akunakuthathwa njengezenzo zoluntu okanye isenzo solwaphulo-mthetho. Ngale nto asinakuthi sibaleke nayo kuba isabandakanya iziphumo ezingade zithathelwe ingqalelo njengezimbi zinempembelelo kuyo.
Ke ngoko, ukungcatsha yinto enye ubudlelwane nomntu otshatileyo ngaphandle kweqabane lakho. Kubonakala ngathi bayinxalenye yokungcatsha ubudlelwane beplato okanye ubudlelwane kwi-intanethi. Senza umahluko phakathi kokungcatsha nokukrexeza ngokomthetho welizwe. Ukungcatsha kubonisa oko kubizwa ngokuba "ubaleke" kunyeukukrexeza lwenziwe kwimeko yokwenene yobudlelwane kuzo zombini iimeko zohlwaywa ngesohlwayo semali.
Kodwa ukusukela umbono wokuziphatha Ayinamsebenzi into yokuba abo babiza malini kwiindleko zabo, ibalulekile into yoqhawulo-mtshato kunye nexabiso elincinci lomtshato omtsha. Ukungcatsha kuhlwaywa ngo ILevitikus Bible 18.20 "Awuyi kuba neentlobano zokwazana nomfazi wommelwane wakho ukuba uzenze inqambi ngaye". Ukukrexeza kugwetywa ngumthetho kaThixo, kumaxesha amandulo kwakusetyenziswa isohlwayo sokufa, kwanakwabo babedlile ngobudlelwane ngaphambi komtshato.
Ukungcatsha, liziphatha njani ibandla?
Ku Icawa yamaKatolika umtshato kushiyeke omnye yobomi bonke, ngaphandle kokuba omnye wabafazi ababini uswelekile. Akulindeleke ukuba ushiye iiturikhi kodwa akunakwenzeka ukuba uthathe inxaxheba etafileni yeNkosi okanye ubambe iindima zoomama. A Ngaphandle kokuncinci yenziwa ukuba ibe yiCawe okanye kunokwenzeka ukuba uphelise umtshato ngenkundla yecawa ukuba kuyaboniswa ukuba ububi babukho ngaphambi komtshato.