Uyifezekisa njani imvumelwano yesini esikhulu emtshatweni wakho

Le nxalenye yothando lomlingane kufuneka ikhuliswe, njengobomi bomthandazo.
Ngaphandle komyalezo othunyelwa luluntu lwethu, impilo yethu yesondo ishiya okuninzi ukuba kungafuneki. UNathalie Loevenbruck, umcebisi ngemitshato ojolise kwizibini ezingamaKristu uthi: "Kungokwemvelo ukuba abantu abatshatileyo badibane neengxaki kule ndawo, njengakwezinye iindawo. “Ewe kunjalo, kukho amaxesha apho amaqabane abanaxesha elinzima lokulungisa isantya kunye neminqweno. Kodwa isondo kufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo kakhulu, ”utshilo.
Umanyano phakathi kwababini abatshatileyo lubandakanya ubudlelwane obunzulu kunamazwi. Ukulahla isini, endaweni yokusombulula ingxaki kunye, kuya kuwabeka kude amaqabane amabini kwaye kuphikisane nobizo lwabo lokuba "banyama-nye" (Mk 10: 8). Ukungabikho kothando kunye nokusondelelana kuya kufuneka kuhlawulwe kwenye indawo. Ngaphandle kokukrexeza, ukungathembeki kunokuzibonakalisa ngokusebenza kade, ukutyala imali ngokugqithileyo kubusebenzisi boluntu, okanye nokuba likhoboka. Kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu onokukwazi ukufezekisa olu lwalamano kunye. Ubomi besini esitshatileyo lutyalo-mali olufuna zombini izakhono kunye nomnqweno. Ukwabelana ngesondo kufuneka kuhlakulwe rhoqo kwaye kuhlanjululwe njengobomi bomthandazo.

Iingxaki ezenza ukuba intliziyo ibandezeleke
U-Loevenbruck unyanzelisa ngamandla ukubaluleka kwendlela ethembekileyo nenobulali yokumamela kunye nokuchonga iingxaki. Ukungabikho komdla kunokuba nezizathu ezahlukeneyo zengqondo kunye nezengqondo: ukungazithembi, ukungaqondi ngesini, ukonzakala komntwana, iingxaki zempilo, njl. Ukuba akukho nto isebenza, zihlala zikho ezinye iindlela zokubonisa uthando kunye nokuthantamisa. Akufanele sinikezele.

“Kuba thina maKristu sinethuba elihle lokwazi Lowo uhamba nathi kwindlela eya kwinkululeko, u-Loevenbruck uyangqina, esalatha kwimisebenzi emininzi yeCawa yamaKatolika. Kukho, umzekelo, imibhalo ka-St. John Paul II, eyanceda ukususa izithintelo zezizukulwane zabanquli, ukukrokrela zonke izinto "zesondo".
Xa konke kusilele, uLoevenbruck ubuza abalingane ukuba baqwalasele ukuba ubunzima abahlangabezana nabo bubenza babandezeleke njani. Oku kubavumela ukuba bakhulise kwaye babonakalise uvelwano omnye komnye. "Ukwamkela ngokuthobeka iingxaki kunye nothando omnye nomnye ngaphandle kwazo ziqhubela phambili kuhlobo olonwabisayo lothando lomonde, ukuzincama nokwamkela," utshilo. Sisenzo esithobekileyo sokulahlwa. Kodwa komelezwa kukuthembela okukhulayo kwabanye nakuThixo, okunokunceda ukufezekisa ukuvumelana ngokwesondo.