U-Ivan waseMedjugorje: UMama wethu usixelela ukuba bayaphi abantu abatsha banamhlanje
Ngaba nawe unomsebenzi othile?
Ndikunye neqela lokuthandazelwa, uthumo oluphathiswe liNkosikazi yethu kukusebenza kunye nabantu abancinci. Ukuthandazela ulutsha kukwathetha ukuba neliso kwiintsapho kunye nababingeleli abancinci kunye nabantu abangcwalisiweyo.
Ulutsha luya phi namhlanje?
Esi sisihloko esihle. Kuya kubakho okuninzi ukuthetha, kodwa kuninzi kakhulu ekufuneka kwenziwe kwaye uthandaze. Isidingo sokuba iNenekazi lethu lithethe kaninzi kwimiyalezo kukubuyisa umthandazo kwiintsapho. Iintsapho ezingcwele ziyafuneka. Uninzi, kwelinye icala, lusondela emtshatweni ngaphandle kokulungiselela iziseko zomanyano lwazo. Ubomi banamhlanje ngokuqinisekileyo abunoncedo, kunye neziphazamiso, ngenxa yoxinzelelo lomsebenzi oncomekayo ongakukhuthazi ukubonakalisa into oyenzayo, apho uya khona, okanye izithembiso ezingeyonyani zokuba kukho ubom ekulula ukufikelela kubo. efanelekileyo kunye nokuthanda izinto eziphathekayo. Zizo zonke ezi zibuko zeelaphu ezingaphandle kosapho eziphelisa ukutshabalalisa uninzi, ukuchitha ubudlelwane.
Ngelishwa, namhlanje iintsapho zifumana iintshaba, kunokuba zincede, nkqu esikolweni kunye nabahlobo babantwana babo, okanye kwindawo yabazali zabasebenzi. Nazi iintshaba ezinolunya zosapho: iziyobisi, utywala, rhoqo amaphephandaba, umabonwakude kunye nemidlalo bhanyabhanya.
Singaba ngamangqina njani kubantu abancinci?
Ukunikela ubungqina kungumsebenzi, kodwa ngokubhekisele kulowo ufuna ukufikelela kuye, ngokubhekisele kwiminyaka yobudala nendlela athetha ngayo, ungubani kwaye uvelaphi. Ngamanye amaxesha siyakhawuleza, kwaye sinyanzelisa isazela, sizibeka esichengeni sokunyanzelisa umbono wethu wezinto kwabanye. Endaweni yoko, kufuneka sifunde ukuba yimizekelo elungileyo kwaye sicebise ukuvuthwa kwethu ngokuthe ngcembe. Kukho ixesha ngaphambi kwesivuno ekufuneka lithathelwe ingqalelo.
Umzekelo undixhalabisa ngokuthe ngqo. Inenekazi lethu lisimema ukuba sithandaze iiyure ezintathu ngosuku: abaninzi bathi "kuninzi", kwaye nabantu abaninzi abancinci, uninzi lwabantwana bethu bacinga njalo. Ndazahlula ngeli xesha phakathi kwentsasa kunye nemini kunye ngokuhlwa-kubandakanya iMass, iRose, iSibhalo esingcwele kunye nokucamngca ngeli xesha-kwaye ndafika kwisigqibo sokuba ayikho kakhulu.
Kodwa abantwana bam banokucinga ngokwahlukileyo, kwaye banokujonga isithsaba seRosary ngumthambo wokuzimisela. Kule meko, ukuba ndifuna ukubasondeza emthandazweni nakuMariya, kuya kufuneka ndibacacisele ukuba yintoni iRosary kwaye, kwangaxeshanye ndibabonise ngobomi bam indlela ebaluleke kwaye esempilweni kum; kodwa ndiya kukuthintela ukumnyanzela kuye, ukulinda umthandazo ukuba ukhule ngaphakathi kwabo. Ke ngoko, ekuqalekeni, ndiya kubanika indlela eyahlukileyo yokuthandaza, siya kuxhomekeka kwezinye iifomula, ezilungele imeko yabo yangoku yokukhula, kwindlela yabo yokuphila nokucinga.
Kuba xa sithandaza, bona kunye nathi, ubungakanani bungabalulekanga, ukuba umgangatho usilela. Umthandazo osemgangathweni udibanisa amalungu osapho, uvelisa ukunamathela okuqinisekileyo elukholweni nakuThixo.
Uninzi lwabantu abancinci baziva bodwa, belahliwe, bengathandwa: unokubanceda njani? Ewe kuyinyani: ingxaki yintsapho egulayo evelisa abantwana abagulayo. Kodwa umbuzo wakho awunakucaciswa kwimigca embalwa: inkwenkwe ethatha iziyobisi yahlukile kwinkwenkwe eye yawa koxinzelelo; okanye inkwenkwe edandathekileyo mhlawumbi ithatha iziyobisi. Umntu ngamnye kufuneka esondelwe ngendlela eyiyo kwaye akukho ndlela iresiphi enye, ngaphandle komthandazo nothando ekufuneka ulufake kwinkonzo yakho kubo.