UJelena waseMedjugorje: indlela iNenekazi lethu elisifundise ngayo ukuthandaza
UJelena: "indlela iNenekazi lethu elisifundise ukuthandaza" - udliwanondlebe ngo-12.8.98
Le yindlela uJelena Vasilj athethe ngayo nabahambi base-Itali nabaseFrance ngo-Agasti ka-12 '98: "Olona hambo luxabisekileyo silwenzileyo kunye neNkosikazi yethu yayiliqela lomthandazo. UMaria ubamemele abantu abatsha kule parali kwaye waye wazinikela njengesikhokelo. Ekuqaleni wayethetha ngeminyaka emine, emva koko asazi ukuba sahlukane njani, kwaye ke saqhubeka eminye iminyaka emine. Ndicinga ukuba abo bathandazayo banokufumana oko uYesu wayefuna ukukuthetha kuYohane xa wayenikezela uMama kuye. Ngapha koko, kolu hambo, iNenekazi lethu lisinike ubomi kwaye saba nguMama wethu emthandazweni; ngenxa yesi sizathu sihlala sivumela ukuba sihanjiswe nawe.Uthini ngomthandazo? Izinto ezilula kakhulu, kuba besingenazo ezinye iimbekiselo zokomoya. Andizange khe ndifunde iSt. Njengenyathelo lokuqala kukho ukuvuleleka kuThixo, ngakumbi ngokuguqula. Sikhulule intliziyo kuko nakuphi na ukuthinteleka ukuze uhlangane noThixo. Ke nantsi indima yomthandazo: ukuqhubeka nokuguqula kwaye ube njengoKristu.
Ixesha lokuqala ukuba yingelosi eyayithetha nam indixelela ukuba ndishiye isono kwaye, ngomthandazo wokulahla, ukufuna uxolo lwentliziyo. Uxolo lwentliziyo kuqala kukuphelisa zonke ezizinto zingumqobo wokudibana noThixo .. Inenekazi lethu lisixelele ukuba kuphela kolu xolo nenkululeko yenhliziyo esinokuthi siqale ukuthandaza. Lo mthandazo okwakukwimo yomoya oqinisekileyo, ubizwa ngokuba kukukhumbula kwakhona. Kubalulekile ukuqonda, nangona kunjalo, ukuba injongo ayisiyoxolo kuphela, ukuthula, kodwa ukudibana noThixo. Kodwa emthandazweni, nangona kunjalo, asinakukwazi ukuthetha ngezigaba, kuba konke oku kuyafezekiswa nangona ngoku Ndenza uhlalutyo. Andinakutsho ukuba uxolo, ukudibana noThixo kuza ngomzuzu onjalo, kodwa ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba ufune uxolo. Xa sizikhulule, kufuneka into isizalise, eneneni uThixo akafuni ukuba sihlale siyinkedama emthandazweni, kodwa usizalisa ngoMoya wakhe oyiNgcwele, ngobomi bakhe. Ngale nto sifunda iZibhalo, koku ikakhulu sithandaza kwiRosary eNgcwele.
Kubantu abaninzi iRosary ibonakala ngathi iyangqubana nomthandazo weziqhamo, kodwa iNenekazi lethu lasifundisa ukuba ungakanani lo mthandazo ucinga. Uyintoni umthandazo ukuba ayisiyiyo lentywiliselo eqhubekayo kubomi bukaThixo? I-Rosary isivumela ukuba singene kwimfihlakalo yokuBala, ukuTshintsha, ukuFa noVuko lukaKristu. Ukuphindaphinda kuluncedo kuba imeko yethu yomntu ifuna le ukuzala amandla. Musa ukoyika ukuphindaphinda, nokuba kukho umngcipheko wokuba umthandazo uza kuba ngaphandle. ISt. Augustine isifundisa ukuba okukhona siphinda-phinda, kokukhona sithandaza, kokukhona iya kukhula intliziyo yethu. Ke xa unyanzelisa umthandazo wakho, uthembekile kwaye ungenzi nto ngaphandle kokumema ubabalo lukaThixo ebomini bakho: yonke into ixhomekeke kwinkululeko nakwilungu lethu. Kwaye ke Inenekazi lethu lasifundisa ukuba singalibali ukuba umthandazo luhlobo lokubulela olusisimo sangaphakathi sokwenza umbulelo kuThixo ngazo zonke izinto ezintle azenzileyo. Lo mbulelo ukwangumqondiso wobunzulu bokholo lwethu. Ke iNenekazi lethu lasimema ukuba lisikelele lonke ixesha, ngokuqinisekileyo andithethi ngentsikelelo yababingeleli, kodwa malunga nesimemo sokuzibeka phambi koThixo kuyo yonke imeko yobomi bethu. Ukusikelela kuthetha ukuba uphile njengoElizabhete owayebuqonda ubukho bukaThixo kuMariya: ke kufanele ukuba amehlo ethu abe njalo; Ndicinga ukuba esi sisiqhamo esikhulu emthandazweni, kuba zonke izinto zigcwele kuThixo kwaye okukhona sithandazayo, kokukhona amehlo ethu ephiliswa ukuba aqondwe. Isishwankathelo, yindlela esenze ngayo amava omthandazo ".
Umbuzo: Ndivile ukuba iNenekazi lethu linelizwi le-mandolin.
Impendulo: Ayizukulunga ezinye izixhobo! Andikwazi ukuphawula ngale nto, kuba andiva lizwi langaphandle.
Umbuzo: Ngaba ukudimazeka yinto yomntu okanye ngaba kunokubakho kongendawo?
Impendulo: Inokuba sisilingo esikhulu esinxulunyaniswa nekratshi lethu, xa singathembeli kubugqirha kunye nakwisicwangciso anokuthi uThixo asenzele sona. Ngale ndlela sihlala siphulukana nomonde kuThixo kwaye ke nethemba lethu. Njengokutsho kukaSt. Paul, unyamezelo luvelisa ithemba, jonga inyani ebomini bakho njengendlela.
Kuya kufuneka unyamezele wena, kodwa nabanye. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho isidingo sonyango olukhethekileyo kwaye uncedo oluthe kratya luyafuneka. Ndicinga, nangona kunjalo, ukuba kubomi bokomoya umntu kufuneka aqhelane nale nto yokuziva lusizi lokwenyani ngezono zethu; kodwa oku akunakuba sisihlandlo sokuphelelwa lithemba. Ukuba sinexhala ngenxa yezono zethu okanye izono zabanye, luphawu lokuba asiziphathanga kuThixo .. USathana uyazi ukuba obu buthathaka bethu, ke loo nto ke kusihendela kuye. Isidingo seqela kunye nesikhokelo sokomoya
Umbuzo: Ungasixelela ntoni ukuba silandele ekhondweni elinye?
Impendulo: Ngaphambi kokuba ucinge ngemini yomthandazo, cinga ngeqela lomthandazo, ngakumbi ulutsha. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba siphile ngokomoya ukuba singabi kuphela kumda othe nkqo, kodwa nakwindlela ethe tye. Oku kukhokelela ekunyanisekeni kwesiqu semihla ngemihla. Ngokumncinci nomdala, Inenekazi lethu licebisa ukuba andazi ukuba mangakanani amaxesha athandazayo kusapho. Ngamanye amaxesha xa sithandaza usenza ukuba sithandaze kwiintsapho, kuba ubona isisombululo seengxaki ezininzi kumthandazo wosapho. Usapho liqela lokuqala lomthandazo kwaye ngenxa yesi sizathu iye yacebisa ukuba siqale usuku lwethu ngokuthandaza kusapho, kuba lowo wenza umanyano phakathi kwamalungu osapho nguKristu kuphela. Emva koko ucebisa iMisa yemihla ngemihla; kwaye ukuba ngenxa yesidingo umthandazo utsaliwe, yiya ubuncinci kwi-Mass eNgcwele, kuba lowo ngowona mthandazo mkhulu kwaye unika intsingiselo kuyo yonke eminye imithandazo. Zonke iigrace zivela kwi-Ekaristi kwaye xa sithandaza sodwa, sisondliwa ziimilozo esizifumana kuMthendeleko oNgcwele. Ukongeza kwi-Mass, iNenekazi lethu lancomela ukuthandaza kaninzi ngexesha lasemini, lithathe nemizuzu eli-10-15 ukungena kumoya wokuthandaza. Kungakuhle ukuba ungahlala kancinci uthe cwaka, uncamathele kancinane. Inenekazi lethu lathi sithandaze iiyure ezintathu; Ufundo lokomoya lubandakanyiwe kwezi yure zibaluleke kakhulu kuba ikhumbula ubomi bokomoya beCawe iphela.
Umbuzo: Phambi kokuba ube nendawo apho ubunjani umthandazo wakho?
Impendulo: Ndithandazile njengabaninzi kuni abeza apha, ubomi obulungileyo, ndaya eMisa ngeCawa, ndithandaze ngaphambi kokuba nditye kwaye ngexesha lomthendeleko othile ndaye ndathandaza kakhulu, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo kwakungekho bumazi uThixo.Emva koko kwafika isimemo yomelele ngokumanyene noThixo emthandazweni. UThixo akasimemi ukuba sithandaze ukuze asilungiselele: mhlawumbi ndenza izinto ezininzi, ndiyanelisa abantu abaninzi kwaye naye ke uThixo usibize ukuba sibenobomi obuqhelekileyo kunye naye kwaye oku kuyenzeka uninzi lomthandazo.
Umbuzo: Uqonde njani ukuba la mabinzana akaveli kongendawo?
Impendulo: Ngokusebenzisa ubumbano, uBawo uTomislav Vlasic, omaziyo ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuqonda izipho kubalulekile kubomi bokomoya.
Umbuzo: Yayinjani inguquko yakho yokomoya kunye nendawo?
Impendulo: Kunqabile kum ukuba ndingathethi ngayo kuba ndandineminyaka eli-10 ukuqala kwezindawo kwaye ke uThixo uguqula yonke imihla. Umntu ukuphela kwendalo engapheliyo; Ukuba sinika inkululeko yethu kuThixo, siyagqibelela kwaye lolu hambo luhlala ubomi bonke, ngenxa yoko nam ndedwa eluhambeni.
Umbuzo: Ngaba woyika ekuqaleni?
Impendulo: Musa ukoyika, kodwa mhlawumbi udidekile, kukungaqiniseki okuncinci.
Q. Xa sisenza izigqibo zokomoya, singakubona njani ukuqonda okwenyani?
Impendulo: Ndicinga ukuba sihlala sifuna uThixo kuphela xa kufuneka sithathe isigqibo okanye sinqwenela ukwazi ukuba yintoni ekufuneka siyenzile ebomini bethu kwaye silindele impendulo engummangaliso, ephantse yangummangaliso. UThixo akakwenzi oku. Ukusombulula iingxaki kufuneka sibe ngamadoda nabafazi bomthandazo; Kuya kufuneka siqhele ukumamela ilizwi lakhe kwaye oku kuyakusivumela ukuba simazi. Kuba uThixo akayona i-jukebox apho ubeka khona ingqekembe kunye noko ufuna ukukuva kuphuma; nangayiphi na imeko, ukuba lukhetho olubalulekileyo, ndingacebisa ngoncedo lombingeleli, isikhokelo sokomoya esithe rhoqo.
Umbuzo: Ngaba ukhe wazibona iintlango zokomoya?
R. Ukuya eAfrika simahla! Ewe, kunjalo, kulungile kakhulu ukuhlala kwiintlango kwaye ndicinga ukuba iNenekazi lethu lithumela ubushushu eMedjugorje, ke uyayiqhela! Ayikho enye indlela yokuhlambulula ubuntu bethu kwizinto ezininzi ezimbi, kodwa uyazi ukuba kukwakho neenkqantosi enkqantosi: ngoku ke asisoyiki. Ubomi obunxunguphalisayo, obuphithizelayo luphawu lokuba sizama ukubaleka kule ntlango kuba kule ntlango kufuneka sizijonge ngayo, kodwa kuba kaloku uThixo akoyiki ukusijonga, singazibona ngamehlo akhe.
Ndicinga ukuba isikhokelo somoya siluncedo kakhulu kule meko, sikhuthazwe, kuba ndihlala ndibona ukuba abantu bayadinwa, balibale uthando lwabo lokuqala. Izilingo zomelele kwaye neqela lomthandazo linganceda kakhulu; le yinxalenye yohambo.
Umbuzo: Ngaba unawo amabinzana noYesu?
Impendulo: Kwakhona.
Umbuzo: Ngaba ukhe walifumana ithuba lokucebisa okanye lokuxela into othile ngokukodwa kumabinzana?
Impendulo: Lixesha elincinci, kuba iNenekazi lethu alinikanga sipho ngale ngqondo. Ngamanye amaxesha iNenekazi lethu liye lakhuthaza abantu abathile ngeendawo, kodwa kunqabile.
Umbuzo: Kwimiyalezo ethunyelwa yiNenekazi lethu, ngaba ikhona into awakhe wayithetha kuwe kubantu abancinci kwaye ngokukodwa kubafazi abancinci?
Impendulo: Inenekazi lethu limema abantu abancinci kwaye bathi abantu abancinci lithemba lakhe, kodwa imiyalezo yeyomntu wonke.
Umbuzo: Inenekazi lethu lithethile ngamaqela emithandazweni. Zeziphi iimpawu ekufuneka zinazo la maqela, kufuneka zenze ntoni?
Ngokubhekisele kwiqela labantu abatsha, ngaphezulu kwako konke kufuneka sithandaze kwaye siphile ubuhlobo obufumaneka ngale nto intle eqhelekileyo enguThixo. Kulwalamano olunje alikho igumbi lomona; Ukuba umnika umntu umntu onguThixo, awuthathi nantoni na kuye, ngokuchasene noko, ungowakho nangakumbi. Njengabantu abancinci, funa impendulo ebomini bakho. Sisonke sifunde uninzi lweZibhalo Ezingcwele, sicamngca ngazo kwaye sixoxa kakhulu, ngoba kubalulekile ukuba udibane noThixo kwinqanaba lokuqonda. Kuya kufuneka wazi ukuba ulutsha olungabakaKrestu, kungenjalo ihlabathi liza kukukhipha kuThixo.Bukho intetho eninzi ezintlanganisweni, kodwa ngaphezulu kwayo sithandaze kunye, mhlawumbi kwiPodbrdo okanye eKrizevac. Sithandazile kwaye sicamngca ethe cwaka kwaye sikunye neRosary. Enye into ebisoloko iyimithandazo eyenzekileyo, ibalulekile ekuhlaleni. Sasihlangana kathathu ngomthandazo kathathu ngeveki.
Umbuzo: Ungathini kubazali abafuna ukunika abantwana babo uThixo, kodwa bayala?
Impendulo: Nam ndiyintombi kwaye ndinabazali abafuna ukwenza into efanayo. Abazali kufuneka bayiqonde indima yabo. Utata usoloko endixelela ukuba: “Kufuneka ndikubize, kuba uThixo uya kundiphendula ngento endiyenzileyo ebantwaneni bam”. Asilokhetho ukunika abantwana ubomi bokwenyama kuphela, kuba, njengoko uYesu esitsho, isonka asanelanga ukuze siphile, kodwa kubalulekile ukubanika ubomi bomntu bokomoya. Ukuba bayala, mhlawumbi uYehova unecebo nalapho, unedinga lakhe nomntu wonke. Ngoko ke, ukuba kunzima ukuphethukela kubantwana bakho, buyela kuThixo kwakhona, kuba “ukuba andikwazi ukuthetha nabanye ngoThixo, ndiyakwazi ukuthetha noThixo ngaye abanye”. Ndingatsho ukuba silumke kakhulu ngenzondelelo: amaxesha amaninzi asikakhuli kwaye sifuna ukuguqula wonke umntu. Andithethi oku kugxeka, kodwa eli lithuba lokukhula ngakumbi elukholweni lwenu, kuba andikholelwa ukuba abantwana baya kuhlala bengenandaba nobungcwele benu. Zibeke ezandleni zikaMariya, kuba naye ungumama kwaye uya kubazisa kuKristu. Ukuba nithetha nabantwana benu ngenyaniso, sondelani ngothando nothando, kuba inyaniso, ngaphandle kothando, iya kutshabalalisa. Kodwa xa simemela abanye kuThixo, siyakulumkela ukuba singagwebi