UJelena waseMedjugorje: uthandaza njani xa uxakeke kakhulu?
UJelena uthi: ubudlelwane obusondeleyo noYesu 'noMariya ngaphezulu' kunokulungisa iithayimthebhile kunye neendlela.
Kulula ukunikezela kumbono osemthethweni wokuwukwenza, ukuwenza ixesha, ubuninzi, kwiifom ezifanelekileyo, kwaye ngaloo ndlela uyakholelwa ukuba ulufezile uxanduva lwakho, kodwa ngaphandle kokudibana noThixo; okanye uhlale udanile yimeko yethu kwaye uyilahle. Nantsi indlela uJelena (iminyaka eli-16) aphendula ngayo kwiqela elivela eLecco.
UJelena: Bendingatsho ukuba uthandaza kakuhle kuphela xa kusiba luvuyo ukuthandaza, kodwa kufuneka uthandaze naxa uphazamisekile, kodwa kwangaxeshanye uziva unqwenela ukuya apho udibane neNkosi, kuba uMama wethu uthi umthandazo awuyonto ngaphandle kokuhlangana kakhulu neNkosi: ayizukucengceleza nje ukwenza imisebenzi kabani ngale ndlela. Uthi ngale ndlela sinokuqonda ngakumbi nangakumbi ... Ukuba umntu uphazamiseka, oko kuthetha ukuba akanamyolelo; endaweni yoko kunyanzelekile ukuba ube nalo myolelo, kwaye uthandazelwe. Emva koko iNenekazi lethu lithi kufuneka sihlale sishiyelwe eNkosini kuyo yonke into esiyenzayo, emsebenzini, ekufundeni, ebantwini, emva koko kube lula ukuthetha noThixo, kuba asinamatheli kuzo zonke ezi zinto.
Umbuzo: Ndineminyaka elishumi elinesithandathu ubudala, kunzima ukuba ndithandaze; Ndiyathandaza kodwa kubonakala ngathi andifikeleli. ungaze ube ngowona uphezulu kwaye kufuneka wenze ngakumbi nangaphezulu.
UJelena: kubalulekile ukuba le minqweno yakho kunye nezigulo zakho uziyekele kwiNkosi, kuba uYesu uthi: "Ndifuna wena unjengawe ', kuba ukuba sasifezekile ngekhe samfuna uYesu. nceda sithandaze ngcono nangcono, kuba kufuneka siqonde ukuba bonke ubomi luluhambo kwaye kufuneka siqhubeke ngalo lonke ixesha.
Umbuzo: Ungumfundi ohambahambayo, njengabantu bethu abaninzi abatsha ekufuneka bekhwele ibhasi, endaweni yokuxinana, bafike esikolweni bediniwe, emva koko batye balinde elona xesha lifanelekileyo ngokomoya lokuthandaza….
UJelena: kuyenzeka kum ukuba iNenekazi lethu lasifundisa ukuba singalinganisi ixesha kwaye umthandazo uyinto eyenzeka ngokuzenzekelayo. Ngaphezulu kwako konke, ndizamile ukuqonda iNenekazi lethu njengonina ongumama wokwenyani, noYesu njengomntakwethu oyinyaniso, hayi ngokufumana nje ixesha elimisiweyo lokuthandaza kwaye mhlawumbi ungabi nakho ukuthandaza. Ndizamile ukuqonda ukuba ngoyena mntu ufuna ukundinceda njalo .. Ngamaxesha onke xa ndiziva ndidiniwe ndizama ukuthandaza, ukukubiza ngokwenene, kuba bendisazi ukuba xa ungandincedi, ngubani omnye onokundinceda? Kungenxa yesi sizathu sokuba iNenekazi lethu lisondele kuthi kubunzima kunye nokubandezeleka.
Umbuzo: Ngaba uthandaze kangakanani ngosuku olunye?
UJelena: Kuxhomekeke ngokwenene kwiintsuku. Ngamanye amaxesha iiyure ezimbini okanye ezintathu ziyathandazwa, amaxesha amaninzi ngaphezulu, ngamanye amaxesha zincinci. Ukuba ndinazo iiyure ezininzi zesikolo namhlanje, uya kufumana ixesha lokwenza okungakumbi ngomso. Sisoloko sithandaza ekuseni, ngokuhlwa, kwaye nasemini xa sinexesha.
Umbuzo: Ithini ifuthe malunga neengxolo zesikolo sakho? Ngaba bayahlekisa ngawe, okanye ngaba babezokudibana nawe?
UJelena: Kuba ke thina zeecawa ezahlukeneyo kwisikolo sam, ngoko ke asinamdla ungako. Kodwa xa bebuza ndiphendula le bayibuzayo. Abazange bandihlekise. Ukuba ke, sithetha nje ngezi zinto, uyabona ukuba indlela inzima, oko asingekhe sinyanzele ukuba sithethe, ngokuxela: sikhetha ukuthandaza kwaye simisela umzekelo kangangoko kunokwenzeka.