Umthandazo ekufuneka wenziwe ngabazali ngenxa yabantwana babo
Umthandazo womzali ngomntwana wakhe okwishumi elivisayo unokuba neempawu ezininzi. Ulutsha lujongana nemiqobo emininzi kunye nezilingo imihla ngemihla. Bafunda ngakumbi ngehlabathi labantu abadala kwaye bathabatha amanyathelo amaninzi ukuhlala apho. Uninzi lwabazali luzibuza ukuba kwenzeka njani ukuba inkwenkwe encinci ibabambe ezandleni zabo izolo sele iyindoda okanye umfazi ngokupheleleyo. UThixo unika abazali uxanduva lokukhulisa amadoda kunye nabafazi abaza kumhlonipha ebomini babo. Nanku umthandazo wokuba ngumzali onokuthi xa ujongene nemibuzo ukuba ubengumzali olungileyo usenzela umntwana wakho ngokwaneleyo okanye ukuba ubanqwenelela okuhle kodwa.
Umzekelo womthandazo wokuba abazali bathandaze
Nkosi enkosi ngazo zonke iintsikelelo ondinike zona. Ngaphezu kwako konke, enkosi ngalo mntwana umangalisayo wandifundisa okungakumbi ngawe kunayo nayiphi na into oyenzileyo ebomini bam. Ndiwabonile akhula kuwe ukusukela ngala mhla wawusikelela ngawo ubomi bam kunye nawo. Ndikubone ngamehlo abo, kwizenzo zabo nakumazwi abawathethayo. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ngcono uthando lwakho kuthi ngamnye wethu, olo thando olungenamiqathango olukuzisela ulonwabo olukhulu xa sikunika imbeko kunye nentlungu enkulu xa siphoxekile. Ngoku ndifumana idini lokunyaniseka lo Nyana wakho osweleke emnqamlezweni wezono zethu.
Ke namhlanje, Nkosi, ndikunyusela nyana wam ngenxa yeentsikelelo zakho kunye nokukhokelwa. Uyazi ukuba ulutsha akusoloko kulula. Kukho amaxesha apho bandicel'umngeni wokuba ngumntu omdala abacinga ukuba kunjalo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba aliloxesha. Akhona ngamanye amaxesha apho ndikufumanisa kunzima ukubanika inkululeko yokuphila, ukukhula nokufunda kuba konke endikukhumbulayo kukuba bekuyizolo kuphela apho ndibeka uncedo lwebhendi kwimingxunya kunye nokuxhoma kunye nokuncancisa kwakwanele ukwenza Ubusuku.
Mhlekazi, zininzi iindlela emhlabeni ezandoyikisa njengoko zingena zodwa. Kukho ububi obucacileyo abenziwe abanye abantu. Isoyikiso sokulimala ngokwasemzimbeni kwabo sibabona kwiindaba rhoqo ebusuku. Ndiyakucela ukuba ubakhusele koko, kodwa ndiyakucela ukuba ubakhusele kumonakalo ongokweemvakalelo ozibonakalisa kule minyaka yeemvakalelo ezinkulu. Ndiyazi ukuba kukho ubudlelwane kunye nobuhlobo obuza kubakho kwaye buhambe, kwaye ndiyakucela ukuba ukhusele iintliziyo zabo kwizinto ezizakubenza bakrakra. Ndicela ukuba ubancede bathathe izigqibo ezilungileyo kwaye bakhumbule izinto endizame ukubafundisa zona mihla le ngendlela abanokukuhlonipha ngayo.
Ndiyacela, Nkosi, ukuba ukhokele amanyathelo abo njengoko behamba bodwa. Ndicela ukuba babe namandla akho ngelixa oontanga bethu bezama ukubakhokelela kwiindlela zentshabalalo. Ndicela ukuba babe nelizwi lakho kokubini entlokweni nakwilizwi lakho njengoko bethetha ukuze bakwenzele imbeko kuyo yonke into abayenzayo nabayithethayo. Ndicela ukuba baziva bomelele ukholo lwabo njengoko abanye bezama ukubaxelela ukuba awunguye wokwenyani okanye awukufanelanga ukulandela. Nkosi, nceda bavumele bakubone njengeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo kwaye ukuba, ngaphandle kobunzima, ukholo lwabo luya komelela.
Kwaye Nkosi, ndicela ukuba unyamezelo lube ngumzekelo olungileyo kunyana wam ngexesha baya kuthi bavavanye onke amalungu am. Nkosi ndincede ukuba ndingaphelelwa ngumonde, ndinike amandla okuhlala ndiqinile xa ndifuna kwaye ndiyeke xa ilixesha. Khokela amazwi am kunye nezenzo zam ukukhokela unyana wam indlela yakho. Makhe ndikunike ingcebiso elungileyo kwaye usete imigaqo elungileyo kunyana wam ukuze umncede abe ngumntu kaThixo omfunayo.
Ngegama lakho elingcwele, Amen.