Ukukhetha igama lesiHebhere emntwaneni wakho
Ukuzisa umntu omtsha emhlabeni ngamava atshintsha ubomi. Zininzi izinto ekufuneka zifundwe kunye nezigqibo ezininzi ekufuneka uzenzile- kubandakanya, ukuba ungamthiya njani igama umntwana wakho. Awunguwo umsebenzi olula ukuqaphela nokuba uya kuyiphatha le moniker nabo ubomi bakhe bonke.
Apha ngezantsi kukho intshayelelo emfutshane yokukhetha igama lesiHebhere lomntwana wakho, ukuba kutheni igama lesiHeberu libalulekile, kwiinkcukacha zendlela elinokuthi likhethwe ngayo elo gama, ukuya kuthiwe umntwana ubizwa njani ngokwesiko.
Indima yamagama kubomi bamaYuda
Amagama adlala indima ebalulekileyo kubuYuda. Ukusukela oko umntwana enikwa igama ngexesha le-Milah yase-Bhritane (amakhwenkwe) okanye umsitho wokuqamba amagama (amantombazana), nge-Bar Mitzvah okanye iBat Mitzvah, ukuya kuthi ga kumtshato wabo kunye nomngcwabo, igama labo lesiHebhere liya kubachonga ngokukodwa kuluntu lwamaYuda. Ukongeza kwiziganeko eziphambili zobomi, igama lomntu lesiHebhere lisetyenziswa ukuba abahlali bathandaza kubo naxa bekhunjulwa emva kokusasazwa kweYahrzeit yabo.
Xa igama lesiHebhere lomntu lisetyenziswa njengenxalenye yesiko okanye umthandazo wesiHebhere, uhlala ulandelwa ligama likatata okanye umama. Ke inkwenkwe yayiza kubizwa ngokuba "nguDavid [igama lonyana] ben [unyana] kaBharuki [igama likabawo]" kwaye intombazana iya kubizwa ngokuba "nguSara [igama lentombi] ilulwane [intombi] kaRakeli [igama likamama].
Ukukhethwa kwegama lesiHebhere
Zininzi izithethe ezinxulumene nokukhetha igama lesiHebhere lomntwana. Kuluntu lwaseAshkenazi, umzekelo, kuqhelekile ukubiza umntwana njengesihlobo esiswelekileyo. Ngokwenkolelo edumileyo ka-Ashkenazi, igama lomntu kunye nomphefumlo wakhe zinxibelelene ngokusondeleyo, ke ngelishwa ukubiza umntwana njengomntu ophilayo kuba oku kunganciphisa ixesha lokuphila lomntu osele ekhulile. Uluntu lwaseSephardi aluyamkeli le nkolelo kwaye ke yinto eqhelekileyo ukubiza umntwana njengesihlobo esiphilayo. Nangona ezi zithethe zimbini zichasene ngokuthe ngqo, babelana ngento efanayo: kuzo zombini ezi meko, abazali bathiya abantwana babo njengesihlobo esithandwayo nesithandwayo.
Ewe kunjalo, uninzi lwabazali abangamaJuda bakhetha ukungababizi abantwana babo njengesihlobo. Kule meko, abazali bahlala besiya eBhayibhileni ukuze bakhuthazwe, bekhangela abalinganiswa beBhayibhile abanobuntu okanye amabali ahambelana nabo. Kuqhelekile ukubiza umntwana ngokusekwe kuhlobo oluthile lomlinganiswa, emva kwezinto ezifumaneka kwindalo okanye emva kweminqweno, abanokuba nayo abazali kumntwana wabo. Umzekelo, "u-Eitan" uthetha "owomeleleyo", "uMaya" uthetha "amanzi" kunye no "Uziel" uthetha "uThixo ungamandla am".
Kwa-Israyeli, abazali bahlala benika umntwana igama elilesiHebhere kwaye eli gama lisetyenziswa kubomi babo basemhlabeni nasezinkolweni. Ngaphandle kwa-Israyeli, kuqhelekile ukuba abazali banike umntwana igama lakhe lokuzisebenzisa mihla le kunye negama lesiHebhere elisetyenziswa kuluntu lwamaJuda.
Konke oku kungasentla kukuthi, akukho mthetho unzima kwaye ukhawulezayo xa kufikwa ekunikezeleni umntwana wakho igama lesiHebhere. Khetha igama elinentsingiselo kuwe ocinga ukuba liya kulungela umntwana wakho.
Uqeshwa nini umntwana ongumJuda?
Ngokwesiko usana lubizwa njengenxalenye yeBritish Milah, ekwabizwa ngokuba yiBris. Lo msitho wenzeka kwiintsuku ezisibhozo emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe kwaye wenzelwe ukubonisa umnqophiso womfana ongumYuda noThixo.Emva kokuba umntwana esikelelwe waluswa ngumoluli (umntu oqeqeshiweyo oqhele ukuba ngugqirha) unikwa igama lakhe lesiHebhere. Kuyisiko ukuba ungalixeli igama lomntwana kude kube leli xesha.
Amantombazana ahlala ekhankanywa kwindlu yesikhungu ngexesha lenkonzo yokuqala yeSabbat emva kokuzalwa kwabo. I-minyan (amadoda amadala angama-XNUMX angamaYuda) iyafuneka ukwenza lo msitho. Utata unikwa i-aliyah, apho ibimah iphakama kwaye ifunde kwiTora. Emva koko, intombazana encinci inikwa igama layo. Ngokuka-Rabbi u-Alfred Koltach, "ukubizwa ngamagama kunokwenzeka kwakhona kwinkonzo yasekuseni ngeMivulo, ngoLwesine okanye eRosh Chodesh njengoko iTora ifundwa nakwezi zihlandlo."