Indlela eya phambili yokwenza ukhetho lokuziphatha ebomini bakho
Ke yintoni ukhetho lokuziphatha? Mhlawumbi lo ngumbuzo wefilosofi ogqithileyo, kodwa ibalulekile kunye neempembelelo zokwenyani nezisebenzayo. Ngokuqonda iimpawu ezisisiseko zokukhetha ngokuziphatha, kunokwenzeka ukuba senze ukhetho oluchanekileyo ebomini bethu.
Ikhatheknoloji ifundisa ukuba kukho izinto ezintathu ezisisiseko zokuziphatha komntu. Siza kuzihlola ngononophelo ezi mithombo zintathu kuba kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba iCawa ifundisa ntoni apha.
Isimilo sokuziphatha komntu siquka:
- into ekhethiweyo;
-Isiphelo ngokubonakalayo okanye ngenjongo;
-Iimeko zentshukumo.
Injongo, injongo kunye neemeko zenza "imithombo", okanye izinto zomthetho, zokuziphatha kwezenzo zabantu. (# 1750)
Sukulahleka kulwimi. Sikwahlulahlula nganye into enento yokwenza nokuziphatha ukuze siqonde ngakumbi izenzo zakho kunye nokuziphatha okubuzwayo. Oku kuya kuba luncedo ngakumbi kamva apha encwadini xa siphendukela kwimicimbi ethile yokuziphatha.
Into ekhethiweyo: "into ekhethiweyo" ibhekisa "kwinto" ethile esikhetha ukuyenza. Ezinye izinto esizikhethayo zihlala zingalunganga. Ezi zinto sizibiza ngokuba "zingendawo". Umzekelo, ukubulala (ukuthatha ngabom ubomi obungenatyala) kuhlala kungalunganga. Eminye imizekelo inokuba zizinto ezifana nokunyelisa nokukrexeza. Akukho sizathu sokuziphatha esifanelekileyo ngesenzo esibi esivela kwimvelo.
Ngokukwanjalo, ezinye iintshukumo zinokuthi zihlale zithathwa njengezilungile ngokokuziphatha kwazo. Umzekelo, isenzo esinento yenceba okanye uxolelo sinokuhlala silungile.
Kodwa ayizizo zonke izenzo zabantu, ewe, zizenzo zokuziphatha. Umzekelo, ukuphosa ibhola kukungathathi hlangothi ngokokuziphatha ngaphandle kokuba iimeko (njengoko siza kubona ngezantsi) zinje ngokuba uyiphosa ibhola kwiwindows yommelwane wakho ngenjongo yokophula ifestile. Kodwa isenzo sokuphosa ibhola asilunganga okanye sibi, yiyo loo nto kufuneka siqwalasele injongo kunye nemeko.
Ezona zinto zibalulekileyo ekufuneka uziqwalasele kwaye uzenze, ngenxa yoko, ezinye izinto ngaphakathi kwaye zingendawo ngokwasemphefumlweni kwaye azifanele zenziwe. Eminye ilungile, njengezenzo zokholo, ithemba kunye nothando. Kwaye iintshukumo ezithile, ezizezona zininzi zokwenza, kukungakhathali ngokokuziphatha.
Injongo: Injongo ekhuthaza isenzo idlala indima ebalulekileyo ekumiseleni ukulunga kokuziphatha okanye ububi besenzo. Injongo engeyiyo inokutshintsha into ebonakala ngathi sisenzo esilungileyo sibe sesimbi. Umzekelo, masithi umntu unikela ngemali kwikhaya lomntwana. Oku kuya kubonakala njengesenzo esihle. Kodwa ukuba loo mnikelo wanikwa ngusopolitiki ukuba afumane inkxaso kunye nodumo loluntu, isenzo esilungileyo siya kuthi, emva koqwalaselo lokuziphatha, siguqulwe sibe sisenzo sokuzingca, esingalunganga nesesono.
Ngapha koko, into enobubi obungaphakathi ngaphakathi ayinakuze iguqulwe ibe yinto elungileyo esekwe kwinjongo elungileyo yomenzi. Umzekelo, ukuxoka ngokuthe ngqo kukhetha into embi. Isiphelo esihle asikaze sifezekiswe ngokukhetha into embi. Ukuxoka, nokuba kwenziwe ngenjongo ebonakala intle, kusisono. "Isiphelo asithetheleli iindlela."
Iimeko: Iimeko ezijikeleze isenzo sokuziphatha nazo zibalulekile. Iimeko zizodwa azinakwenza senzo silungileyo okanye sibi, kodwa zinokuchaphazela uxanduva lokuziphatha kwalowo wenza into. Umzekelo, ukuba umntu uyaxoka, esi sisenzo esingalunganga. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba boyika kakhulu kwaye baxoka ukuze basindise ubomi babo, ngekhe babenoxanduva lokuziphatha ngobuxoki bomntu oxoke ngaphandle kwesizathu. Uloyiko olugqithisileyo kunye neemeko ezifanayo azenzi ukuba ukuxoka kulunge okanye kungathathi cala. Iimeko azitshintshi umxholo wesenzo. Kodwa iimeko zinokuchaphazela uxanduva lwesenzo.
Nangona kunjalo, iimeko azinciphisi ukuba netyala. Banokuba negalelo ekulungeni kwesenzo. Umzekelo, thatha uthethe inyani. Yithi umntu woyika kakhulu kwaye, nangona esoyika, basathetha inyani ngendlela entle nesibindi. Esi senzo senyaniso siba nesidima ngakumbi ngenxa yeemeko ezinzima.
Kuyathenjwa ukuba oku kujonga ngokufutshane kwimithombo emithathu yokuziphatha kuya kunceda ekuqondeni ngcono izigqibo zokuziphatha. Ukuba usajongeka edidekile, ungakhathazeki. Okwangoku, zama ukuqonda imigaqo esisiseko.