Iimpawu ezibalaseleyo zobulumko kunye nokuba kuthetha ntoni
Ubulumko yenye yeempawu ezine eziphambili zekhadinali. Njengabanye abathathu, sisidima esinokwenziwa nangubani na; ngokungafaniyo nezidima zenkolo, iimpawu ezintle azizizo, ngokwazo, izipho zikaThixo ngobabalo kodwa kukwandiswa komkhwa. Nangona kunjalo, amaKristu anokukhula kwiimpawu ezintle ngokubabazekayo kobabalo, kwaye ke ubulumko bunokuthatha ubungaphezulu kwendalo kunye nobukhulu bendalo.
Yintoni engekho ingqiqo
AmaKatolika amaninzi acinga ukuba ukuqonda kubhekisela nje ekusebenziseni imigaqo yokuziphatha. Bathetha, umzekelo, ngesigqibo sokuya emfazweni "njengesigwebo sobulumko", becebisa ukuba abantu abanengqiqo banokungavumelani kwiimeko ezinjalo ekusebenziseni imigaqo yokuziphatha kwaye, ngenxa yoko, ezo zigwebo zinokubuzwa kodwa azange zichazwe ngokungachanekanga. Oku kukungaqondi kakuhle kobulumko, njengoFr. UJohn A. Hardon uphawula kwisichazi-magama sakhe sanamhlanje samaKatolika, "lulwazi oluchanekileyo lwezinto ekufuneka zenziwe okanye, ngokubanzi, ulwazi lwezinto ekufuneka zenziwe kunye nezinto ekufuneka zithintelwe."
"Isizathu esifanelekileyo sisetyenzisiwe"
Njengokuba i-Catholic Encyclopedia isitsho, u-Aristotle wachaza ubulumko njenge-recta ratio agibilium, "isizathu esisiso sokwenza oku". Ugxininiso "ekunene" lubalulekile. Asinakwenza isigqibo ngokulula kwaye sisichaze "njengesigqibo esinobulumko". Ubulumko bufuna ukuba sahlule phakathi kokulungileyo nokungalunganga. Yiloo nto ke, njengoko uBawo uHardon ebhalayo, "Sisidima sobukrelekrele apho umntu aqonda kuyo yonke into eselungelweni lokulungileyo nokubi". Ukuba sidibanisa ububi ngokulungileyo, asisebenzisi bulumko, endaweni yoko, sibonisa ukungabikho kwako.
Ubulumko kubomi bemihla ngemihla
Ke sazi njani xa sisebenzisa ukuqonda naxa sinikezela kwiminqweno yethu? Ubawo uHardon uqaphele amanqanaba amathathu esenzo sobulumko:
"Thatha ingcebiso ngononophelo kuwe nakwabanye"
"Ukugweba ngokuchanekileyo ngesiseko sobungqina obukhoyo"
"Liqhube lonke ishishini lakhe ngokuhambelana nemigaqo emiselweyo emva kokuba kwenziwe isigqibo sobulumko."
Ukutyeshela ingcebiso okanye izilumkiso zabanye abagwebayo abangahambelani nezethu luphawu lokungakhathali. Kungenzeka ukuba silungile kwaye abanye baphosakele; kodwa okungafaniyo kunokuba yinyani, ngakumbi ukuba asivumelani nabo abo imigaqo yabo yokuziphatha ichanekile ngokubanzi.
Ezinye zeengcinga zokugqibela ngobulumko
Kuba ubulumko bunokuthatha ubukhulu becala ngesipho sobabalo, kufuneka siqwalasele ngononophelo iingcebiso esizifumana kwabanye sinoluvo. Xa, umzekelo, oopopu bevakalisa isigwebo sabo kubulungisa bemfazwe ethile, kufanelekile ukuba siyixabise ngaphezulu kwengcebiso, yithi, yomntu oya kuthi azuze lukhulu emfazweni.
Kwaye kufuneka sihlale sikhumbula ukuba inkcazo yobulumko ifuna ukuba sigwebe ngokuchanekileyo. Ukuba isigwebo sethu singqinisisiwe emva kokuba inyani ibingalunganga, emva koko asenzanga "sigqibo sobulumko" kodwa esingakhange sibenangqiqo, ekunokufuneka silungise oko.