Amanqanaba amathathu omthandazo

Umthandazo unamanqanaba amathathu.
Eyokuqala yile: dibana noThixo.
Owesibini yile: mamela uThixo.
Eyesithathu yile: phendula kuThixo.

Ukuba udlulela kula manqanaba mathathu, uza kumthandazo onzulu.
Inokwenzeka ukuba awukafikeleli kwinqanaba lokuqala, lokuhlangana kaThixo.

1. Ukuhlangana noThixo njengomntwana
Ukufunyanwa ngokutsha ngokutsha kweyona ndlela inkulu yokuthandaza kuyafuneka.
Kwincwadi ethi "uNovo Millenio Ineunte", uPopu John Paul II waphakamisa ialam, esithi "kubalulekile ukufunda ukuthandaza". Kutheni usitsho nje?
Kuba sithandaza kancinane, sithandaza kakubi, abaninzi abathandazi.
Ndothuka, kwiintsuku ezimbalwa ezidlulileyo, ngumfundisi wecawa engcwele, owathi kum: “Ndiyabona ukuba abantu bam bayathandaza, kodwa abakwazi ukuthetha neNkosi; Utsho emithandazweni, kodwa engakwazi ukunxibelelana neNkosi ... ".
Nditshilo eRosari ngale ntsasa.
Kwimfihlakalo yesithathu ndivuke ndazixelela ngokwam: “Sele uyimfihlo yesithathu, kodwa sowuyithethile iNenekazi lethu? Sele utshilo ukuba ngu25 Thamsanqa uMarys kwaye awukatsho ukuba uyamthanda, awukathethi kuye!
Sithandaza, kodwa asazi ukuba mandithini na eNkosini. Oku kubuhlungu!
Kwinkulungwane yeminyaka uNovo u-Volite u-Apapa uthi:
..
Isifundo emthandazweni kufuneka, ngandlela thile, sibe yindawo efanelekayo kuyo yonke inkqubo yaBelusi ... ".
Liliphi inyathelo lokuqala lokufunda ukuthandaza?
Inyathelo lokuqala yile: kukufuna ngokwenene ukuthandaza, ukuqonda ngokucacileyo ukuba yintoni umxholo womthandazo, ukuzabalaza ukufika apho kwaye uthathe imikhwa emitsha, rhoqo kunye nzulu yomthandazo oyinyani.
Ke eyona nto iphambili ekufuneka uyenzile kukungafundi izinto ezingalunganga.
Omnye umkhwa esinawo ukususela ebuntwaneni ngumkhwa wokuthetha igama, umkhwa wokuphazamiseka othandazayo wezwi.
Ukuphazamiseka amaxesha ngamaxesha kuyinto eqhelekileyo.
Kodwa ukuphazanyiswa ekhaya akuqhelekanga.
Cinga ngeeRosari ezithile, zezinye iingoma ezingekhoyo!
U-St. Augustine wabhala: "UThixo ukhetha ukubekelwa inja ngaphandle kokucula!"
Asinalo uqeqesho olwaneleyo loqeqesho.
UDon Divo Baaotti, utitshala omangalisayo kunye nomthandazeli womhla wethu, wabhala: "Sidla ngokuhlaselwa kwaye silawulwa ziingcinga zonke, ngelixa singasetyenziselwa ukubalawula".
Obu bubi bukhulu bokomoya: asisetyenziselwa ukuthula.
Kukuthi cwaka okudala imeko yobunzulu bomthandazo.
Kukuthi cwaka okuncedayo ukunxibelelana nathi.
Kuthule oko kuvula ukumamela.
Ukuthula akukho cwaka.
Ukuthula kukumamela.
Kufuneka sithande ukuthula kuba sithanda iLizwi.
Ukuthula kudala ucwangco, ukucaca, ukucaca.
Ndithi kubantu abatsha: “Ukuba awufikeleli kumthandazo wokuthula, soze ufike kumthandazo oyinyaniso, kuba ngekhe ungene kwisazela sakho. Kuza kufuneka uqikelele ukuthula, ukuthanda ukuthula, ukuqeqesha ukuthula ... "
Asizilolongi ngoxinzelelo.
Ukuba asizilolongi ngoxinzelelo, siya kuba nomthandazo ongahambeli entliziyweni.
Ndifumane unxibelelwano lwangaphakathi kunye noThixo kwaye ndiqhubeke ndakhe olu nxibelelwano kwakhona.
Umthandazo usoloko usoyikisela ukuntywila kwimonologue emsulwa.
Endaweni yoko, kufuneka ibe nodliwanondlebe, kufuneka ingxoxo.
Ukusuka ekukhumbuleni yonke into ixhomekeke.
Akukho nzame zichithwayo ngenxa yale njongo kwaye nokuba lonke ixesha lomthandazo lidlula kuphela ufuna ukukhumbula kwakhona, iya kuba ngumthandazo otyebileyo, kuba ukuqokelela kuthetha ukuba uphaphile.
Kwaye umntu, emthandazweni, kufuneka aphaphame, kufuneka abekhona.
Kungxamisekile ukutyala izimvo ezisisiseko zomthandazo entlokweni nasentliziyweni.
Umthandazo ayisiyemisebenzi emininzi yemini.
Ngumphefumlo wosuku lonke, kuba ulwalamano noThixo ngumphefumlo wosuku lonke nazo zonke izenzo.
Umthandazo ayisixanduva, kodwa sisidingo, sisidingo, sisipho, uyolo, kuphumla.
Ukuba andifiki apha, andizanga kuthandaza, andiyiqondi.
Xa uYesu wayefundisa umthandazo, wathetha into ebaluleke ngakumbi: "... Xa uthandaza, yithi: Bawo ...".
UYesu wachaza ukuba ukuthandaza kukungena kulwalamano olunothando noThixo, ukuba abantwana.
Ukuba umntu akangeni ebudlelwaneni noThixo, omnye akathandazi.

Inyathelo lokuqala lomthandazo kukuhlangana noThixo, ukuba ungene kulwalamano lothando kunye nolwalamano.
Eli linqaku ekufuneka silwe ngamandla ethu onke, kuba kulapho kudlalwa khona umthandazo.
Ukuthandaza kukuhlangana noThixo ngentliziyo efudumeleyo, kukuhlangana noThixo njengabantwana.

"... Xa uthandaza, yithi: Bawo ...".