Ileta eya kumdala ebethwa kwindawo yokugcina abaguli
Namhlanje ibali lakho ligxume ezindabeni. Umabonwakude, i-intanethi, amaphephandaba, ngaphandle kwemivalo naphakathi kwabahlobo kunye nabantu esisebenza nabo sithetha ngawe, ngendoda endala ehluphekileyo ibethwa kwindawo apho kufuneka bamnakekele. Andithandi ukuthetha ngeli bali kodwa ndifuna ukukubhalela le leta ikwenza ukuba uqonde lonke uthando lwam.
Yibanokholo. Musa ukoyika kwaye ungalahli ithemba. Asingawo onke amadoda afana nqwa nophatha kakubi. Uninzi ngabantu abalungileyo, abanothando ngabalupheleyo, abakulungeleyo ukunceda abanye. Mhlawumbi sele udanile kancinane ngobomi kukuba kwinqanaba elithile kuye kwafuneka ushiye ikhaya lakho waphila iminyaka kwaye uye kuhlala kwikhaya elinye. Abakho abantwana abaxakekileyo bakuphathise abanye. Ushiywe wedwa, ulahlekelwe ngumfazi wakho oshiye obu bomi.
Sukuba nexhala, yiba nokholo. Ubomi ngelishwa sisiseko esinzima kwaye emva kokubandezeleka okungaka uphethwe kakubi. Ndingakuxelela ntoni, utat'omkhulu, njengendoda namhlanje ndiziva ndikhathazekile, phantse ndinomsindo. Kodwa jonga phambili, nokuba ubomi bakho buhlala kuphela usuku olunye, jonga phambili.
Phambi kwakho kukho abantu abaninzi abakuthanda. Kukho amavolontiya aselula, abazukulwana bakho, izihlobo, abahlali abasebenzela intlalontle abenza umsebenzi wabo kakuhle nangothando. Kukho abantwana bakho abangazange bakulahle kodwa bakubeke kule ndawo ukuze ungaphoswa nantoni na, ukuphathwa, kukugcina ukunye.
Ungaphoxeki, ungalahli ithemba umntu obekwe ezintanjeni zobomi ukhuphe ingqumbo yakhe kuwe. Inene tata uyandixolela. Wena owaziyo ubomi kwaye usifundise iinqobo ezisemgangathweni zobomi bakho bonke bokuzinikela uxoleleni lo mntu kwaye usinike imfundiso engaphezulu enokuthi umntu osele aluphele, aluphele, kodwa unjingalwazi ngobomi kunye nomonde.
Kwaye kuthini ngawe. Ukuwola, ukuthandaza, umngxunya kumgama okude. Ubomi abukubeki ezintanjeni, ubomi abukugwebi. Unamava elinye kuphela, nangona belilibi, kodwa sisiqephu esinye kuphela kunye namava omnye ukongeza kwelinye iwaka esele lenziwe. Awusebenzi. Uyintliziyo, ungumphefumlo, ukubetha kanaphakade nokuba umzimba wakho wehle kwaye ugula siyawuhlonipha. Umzimba wakho uye wabeleka, unike umsebenzi, udale izizukulwana, umzimba wakho, namhlanje wehla, usishiya nemfundiso ngonaphakade.
Namhlanje umntu uyabetha. Namhlanje udibene nomntu ongalunganga. Ndiyakuqinisekisa namhlanje ukuba kukho iwaka labanye abantu abakulungele ukukunika i-caress, ikulungele ukukunika imoto, ikulungele ukuqaphela ixabiso lakho njengomdala, ukulungele ukulwela wena, ukukhusela, ukulungele ukukukhathalela.
Silapha. Singamadoda sikulungele ukuba kufutshane nawe. Ukuncuma.
EKUGQIBELENI KULO MTHETHO NDIFUNA UKWENZA IZIBONELELO ZESITHATHU:
LOKUQALA
Bantwana abathandekayo, ninokuzibophelela okuninzi kakhulu. Kodwa ngaba ucinga ukuba ukunyamekela i-genotore esele ikhulile kukuzibophelela kwinqanaba lesibini? Ke ukuba awukwazi ukugcina abazali abadala ekhaya, ubabeke kwiindawo zokugcina abantwana kodwa sihamba yonke imihla ukuze sibacinezele njengaxa, emva kosuku lomsebenzi omde, befika ekhaya basinike indawo yokuziqhelanisa nathi thina sibancinci.
ISIBINI
Wena obetha umdala, yiva kum "zibeke esipilini uzibetha ngokwakho. Ke wenza umbono ongcono. "
I-TERZO
Wena oqala ngentsasa ukuya ebusuku wenze ishishini, uzuze, udale umsebenzi kunye neshishini, ufumane umzuzu wokunika i-caress kumntu okhulileyo, umntwana, wenze umsebenzi wesisa. Mhlawumbi ekupheleni kwemini phakathi kweenkomo ezahlukeneyo ozakuziqonda, ngokuhlwa, xa ubeke intloko yakho phezu komqamelo, eyona nto intle uyenzileyo kukuba wenze izinto ezintle kwabanye.
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