Umama uyala ukukhupha isisu kwaye intombi izalwe iphila: "Ngummangaliso"
Meghan wazalwa eyimfama enezintso ezintathu kwaye unesifo sokuxhuzula kunye nesifo seswekile insipidus kwaye oogqirha babengakholelwa ukuba angakwazi ukuthetha. Ingcebiso yayikukukhupha isisu, ukukhulelwa kwakungahambelani nobomi kodwa umama wayesichasile.
Ukhuphe isisu? Hayi intombi iyazalwa kwaye ngummangaliso
IsiScottish Cassy Grey, oneminyaka engama-36 ubudala, wafumana icebiso ekwakunzima ukulamkela ngoxa wayekhulelwe. Oogqirha bathi intombi yakhe inethuba le-3% lokuba izalwe iphila kwaye bacebisa ukuphelisa ukukhulelwa. UCassy wayiphika lento wagcina ukukhulelwa. Ngokutsho koogqirha, ukukhulelwa "kwakungahambelani nobomi".
UMeghan wafunyaniswa ene-semilobar holoprosencephaly, ukukhubazeka komntwana kwindawo yengqondo elawula ukucinga, iimvakalelo kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zemoto. Ngokutsho kwabazali, ubomi bomntwana ongekazalwa abufanele buxhomekeke kukhetho oluthile kodwa kukuthanda kukaThixo.
“Andingomnini wobomi bentombi yam okanye ukufa kwayo. Sakhawuleza sagqiba kwelokuba ukuqhomfa kwakungeyondlela yokukhetha. Ngummangaliso,” utshilo uGrey a Ilanga. “Ndandimfuna ngenene umntwana kwaye ndaye ndagqiba kwelokuba ndimshiye ezandleni zikaThixo, ndiyayibulela kakhulu loo nto,” uxelele le IRekhodi Yemihla.
UGrey wabonisa ukuba wayeyoyika ukuba intombi yakhe iya kuba njani emva kokuzalwa. “Ekuzalweni kwakhe, ndandisoyika ukumjonga ngenxa yomfanekiso ababewuzoba. Ndandisazi ukuba ndiza kumthanda, kodwa ndandingazi ukuba ndingayithanda na inkangeleko yakhe. Kodwa nje ukuzalwa kwakhe, ndikhumbula ndisithi kuyise, 'Akukho nto imbi kuye'… Uncumile nangona yonke into kwaye yinkawu encinci enezidlele,” umama wakhe uxelele iThe Herald.
UCassy wabelana ngeefoto zikaMegan kumajelo asekuhlaleni, kwaye imifanekiso ibonisa intombazana eyonwabileyo, encumayo. Wazalwa eyimfama enezintso ezintathu kwaye unesifo sokuxhuzula kunye nesifo seswekile insipidus kwaye oogqirha babengakholelwa ukuba angakwazi ukuthetha. Kwiinyanga ze-18, uMeghan waphinda wadlula ukuxela kwangaphambili kwaye wathetha igama lakhe lokuqala: "Mama".