Umama ongenamalungu uzilela unyana wakhe owabulawa kukuxhatshazwa
Il ukuxhaphaza sisibetho sentlalo esineziphumo ezibi kubomi babo bachaphazelekayo, ingakumbi ukuba aba bantu babuthathaka.
Ukuthintela kunye nokulwa nayo, kubalulekile ukuphakamisa ulwazi kuluntu kunye nokudala indawo ekhuselekileyo neyamkelekileyo kumntu wonke. Kodwa ngaphezu kwako konke kubalulekile ukubonelela ngenkxaso kumaxhoba kwaye uwancede aqhubekisele phambili umonzakalo awufumeneyo.
Maninzi kakhulu amabali oomama ababhujelwa ngabantwana ngenxa yabantu ababathobileyo, babagculela, bade baphelelwe sisidima, bazive bebodwa, ngamanye amaxesha bade baphelelwe sisidima. umfazi efile.
Eli libali lika Allison Lapper, umama onesibindi owenza konke okusemandleni akhe ukukhulisa unyana wakhe aze amkhusele kubungendawo behlabathi langaphandle. Kodwa ngelishwa ubomi bonyana wakhe uParis baphela eneminyaka eyi-19 kuphela.
Ibali likaAllison
UAllison wayenjalo ilahliwe ngabazali bakhe ekuzalweni kwakhe, ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwakhe. Intombazana yazalwa ingenawo amalungu aphezulu nangaphantsi. UAllison ke ukhulela kwiziko, kwaye ngaphakathi 1999 emva kokuphunyelwa zizisu izihlandlo ezininzi, uyakwazi ukuzalisekisa iphupha lakhe lokuba ngumama ngokuzala umntwana IiParys. Ngo-2003 lo mfazi wathweswa isidanga kwiYunivesithi yaseBrighton, kwaye kwiminyaka emibini kamva wabhala incwadi " Ubomi bam ezandleni zam" epapashwe ngu Guardian, apho abonisa khona lonke uvuyo ngokuzalwa konyana wakhe.
Umama kunye nendodana babenobudlelwane obuhle kunye nobunzulu kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi babo. Ngelishwa, njengoko ixesha lihamba, ngenxa yokuxhatshazwa kunye nokutshutshiswa kwakhe ngabafundi afunda nabo, iParis yaqala ukutshintsha.
Abantwana babehlala behlekisa ngaye kwaye behlekisa ngaye ngenxa kamama wakhe okhubazekileyo.
Iimpawu zokuqala ze unxunguphalo kunye noxinzelelode, ukuba kude nehlabathi, inkwenkwe yaqalisa ukusebenzisa iziyobisi. Allison, xa unyana wakhe wajika 16 iminyaka wanyanzelwa ukuba amvalele eluvalelweni. Ngoku kuye kwakunzima ukujongana nayo.
UParys inkwenkwe ebuthathaka ixhoba lokungcungcuthekiswa
Iphephandaba Umgcini udize ukuba, esemncinci oneminyaka eli-19 ubudala, uParys wafunyanwa eswelekile ngenxa yokugqithisa ngempazamo.
Ku-Allison, intlungu idityaniswa nentliziyo ebuhlungu ngayo yonke into awayeyiva unyana wakhe ngenxa yokukhubazeka kwakhe. Akukho mntu wayenokuyithelekelela indlela le nkwenkwana ecekethekileyo eyayichatshazelwe ngayo kukungcungcuthekiswa ngabo wayefunda nabo.
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Ku-Allison, kubalulekile ukwenza abantu baqonde ukuba uParys wayengelokhoboka leziyobisi kwaye akafuni ukuba akhunjulwe ngolo hlobo. UParys wayeyinkwenkwe nje eethe-ethe engakwaziyo ukulwa nehlabathi elinobutshaba.