Ukugcina ukholo nokuba lolona hlobo lubi kakhulu lwezono
Kulula ukuphelelwa lithemba xa iindaba zesinye izehlo zokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo zifika, kodwa ukholo lwethu ludlula kwisono.
Ngokukhawuleza ndaziva ndamkelekile kwiYunivesithi yaseMichigan State. Iinjingalwazi zam zobuntatheli zandinika izixhobo endizifunayo ukuze ndiphumelele kulo msebenzi wam kwaye ndenza abahlobo abakhulu. Ndade ndafumana icawe entle yamaKatolika kumgama wokuhamba ikhampasi- iSt. Ndikonwabele ukuya eMass rhoqo ngeempelaveki ukuya kuphumla engqondweni ngokwam.
Kodwa ikratshi lam le-Spartan lehla xa efunda ngezono ezibi ezenziwa nguLarry Nassar, owayengugqirha wamathambo we-MSU nowayengugqirha weqela lesizwe laseMelika lokuzivocavoca. U-Nassar udonsa isigwebo seminyaka engama-60 sesejele sokugcina imifanekiso engamanyala. Waye wagwetywa iminyaka eli-175 entolongweni yaseburhulumenteni ngokuhlukumeza amantombazana amancinci angama-300, kubandakanya nemidlalo yezolonwabo ekumdlalo weOlimpiki, ngenxa yezenzo zakhe zokunyanga kwangoko ngonyaka ka-1992. yomama womphefumlo wam babehambelana nezenzo zikaNassar kwaye banegalelo ekulimaleni abantu abangamakhulu.
Kwaye ndakhathazeka nangakumbi xa ndafumanisa ukuba uNassar ukwangumfundisi weCawa yaseSan Giovanni, indawo apho mna namanye amaKatolika eSpartan siya khona siziva sikhuselekile kwaye sokondliwa ngokomoya e-East Lansing.
U-Larry Nassar usebenze ngokwazi umzimba oxabisekileyo negazi lika-Kristu kumarhamente. Ayisiyiyo kwaphela loo nto, wayekwangumfundi wekatata wesikolo esiphakathi kwiparitha ekufutshane yeSt. Thomas Aquinas.
Andinakuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba mna noNassar sawela iindlela eSt. John, kodwa kukho ithuba elihle esilenzileyo.
Ngelishwa, ayiloxesha lokuqala lokudibana nokuphathwa gadalala ecaweni. Ndazenzela ubuhlobo nomnye umntu kwicawa endandiye kuyo njengomfundi kwiDyunivesithi yaseValparaiso emva kokuba ndidibene necawa yokurhoxa ndaza ndathatha izifundo ezimbalwa kunye. Oko kukuthi, ndade ndafumanisa ukuba ubanjiwe ngokuhlukumeza umzala wakhe. Ndaziva umsindo ofanayo kunye nezothe ngoko. Kwaye ndiyazi ngehlazo lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo eliye lahlasela iSonto lamaKatolika. Kwaye ke ndiyaqhubeka nokuya kubuninzi kunye nokuseka ubudlelwane namanye amarhamente.
Kutheni le nto amaKatolika eqhubeka elandela ukholo kunye nengxelo nganye yezono ezenziwa ngababingeleli kunye namarhamente?
Siya kwisininzi ukuya kubhiyozela uMthendeleko kunye noxolelo lwezono, intliziyo yokholo lwethu. Umbhiyozo awuzinikeleli ngasese, kodwa kukho into eyabelwana ngayo noluntu lwethu lwamaKatolika. UYesu akakho kuphela emzimbeni wakhe nasegazini esilisebenzisayo ngexesha le-Eucharist, kodwa kwilizwi likaThixo elidlula sonke. Yiyo le nto sibuhlungu xa sisiva ukuba umntu othile kwindawo yethu akayinanzi ngabom intsingiselo yayo waza wona ngaphandle kokuguquka.
Ndiyavuma ukuba ukholo lwam lubuthathaka ngamanye amaxesha kwaye ndiziva ndikhathazekile xa ndifunda amatyala amatsha okuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo. Kodwa ndiyakhuthazeka ngabantu nemibutho engenelelayo ukuxhasa abasindileyo nokukhusela izehlo zokuphathwa gadalala kwixa elizayo. Umzekelo, idayosisi yaseBrooklyn yasungula iOfisi yoNcedo lwaBaxhoba, ebonelela ngamaqela enkxaso, iingcebiso kunye nokuhanjiswa kwezonyango kumaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala ngokwesondo. UNicholas DiMarzio, ubhishophu wedayosisi yaseBrooklyn, ubhiyozela ubunzima bethemba kunye nokuphilisa nawuphina umntu olixhoba lokuxhatshazwa ngokwesondo rhoqo ngenyanga ka-Epreli, iNyanga yeSizwe yokuThintela ukuXhatshazwa kwabantwana.
INgqungquthela yoBhishophu baseMelika inoluhlu lwabaququzeleli boncedo lwamaxhoba, ulwazi lwabo loqhakamshelwano kunye nedayosisi abayimele kwi-Intanethi. Oobhishophu baseMelika bacebisa abazali bamaxhoba ukuba babize amapolisa endawo okanye isebe lenkonzo. Baqinisekise ukuba umntwana wakho akenzanga nto imbi kwaye wenze into elungileyo ngokukuxelela,
Esikhundleni sokungena phantsi kwintlungu yethu malunga nemiba yokuxhatshazwa, iiparishi kufuneka zihlangane ukuze zixhase abantu abaye baxhatshazwa ngokwesondo. Yenza iqela leveki lokuxhasa amaxhoba; ukumilisela imigaqo-nkqubo yokhuselo lwabantwana kunye noqeqesho lokufundisa ngokhuseleko ezikolweni kunye neenkqubo zeparishi ezigqitha kwizikhokelo ezimiselwe yi-USCCB yabantwana nolutsha; yenza i-fundraiser yeekhamera zokhuseleko eziza kufakelwa ebandleni lakho; usasaza iincwadana ezinolwazi malunga nezixhobo ezikhoyo okanye uzifake kwibhulethini yecawa yecawa; qalisa ingxoxo phakathi kwamarhamente ajongana nemibuzo kunye neenkxalabo; nikela ngemali kwimibutho exhasa amaxhoba obundlobongela obuphathelele kwezesondo kwindawo ohlala kuyo; qinisekisa amaxhoba ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo bayenzileyo kwaye bawaxhasa ngentliziyo epheleleyo ngenkqubo yokunyanga. Uluhlu lwamathuba luyaqhubeka.
Ndiyayithanda iMSU, kodwa ekugqibeleni ndithembekile kuKristu ngaphambi kwesizwe sakwaSpartan. Ndisajonge isidanga senkosi yam ndinesimo sokufezekisa, ngaphandle kwengcinezelo embi ethe yazuzwa yi-MSU kweziinyanga ezili-18 zidlulileyo. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyazi ukuba uKrestu ufuna ukuba ndityhalele amandla am kwimicimbi ebaluleke ngakumbi, enjengale endinokuyenza ukunceda ukwenza umhlaba ube yindawo engcono nokwakha unxibelelwano olomeleleyo noThixo.I-Lent yeza ngexesha elililo. Ukuzibonakalisa kunye nokuqonda.
Iya kuba zi-40 ixesha elide kodwa zibaluleke kakhulu.