Ukucamngca ngoJuni 26 "Ubuhlobo bokwenene, obugqibeleleyo nobungunaphakade"

Kuyinyani, ubuhlobo obugqibeleleyo nobungunaphakade
isipili esihle nesizukileyo sobuhlobo bokwenene! Into emangalisayo! Ukumkani waba nomsindo ngakumkhonzi kwaye waxhokonxa uhlanga luphela nxamnye naye, ngokungathi ungumlawuli wobukumkani. Utyhola ababingeleli ngokungcatsha umbuso, ubabulele omnye umrhanelwa. Izula emahlathini, ingena ezintlanjeni, inqumla iintaba namawa anamaqela axhobileyo. Wonke umntu uthembisa ukuba ngumphindezeli wengqumbo yokumkani. NguYonatan kuphela, ekuphela kwakhe onokuthi, ngelungelo elikhulu, amzisele umona, oziva ukuba kufuneka achasane nokumkani, athande umhlobo wakhe, amnike iingcebiso phakathi kweembandezelo ezininzi kwaye, ekhetha ubuhlobo kubukumkani, uthi: " Uya kuba ngukumkani kwaye ndiza kuba sesibini emva kwakho ».
Kwaye ujonge indlela utata walomfana awuvuse ngayo umona wakhe kumhlobo wakhe, wanyanzelisa nge-invect, emoyikisa ngezisongelo zokuhlutha ubukumkani, emkhumbuza ukuba uya kuhluthwa imbeko.
Emva kokuba evakalise isigwebo sokufa nxamnye noDavide, uJonathan akazange amlahle umhlobo wakhe. «Kutheni uDavid eza kufa? Wenze ntoni, wenza ntoni? Wabubeka esichengeni ubomi bakhe, wawa phantsi umFilistiya, navuya; Yini na ukuba afe? (1Sam 20,32; 19,3). Ngala mazwi, ukumkani, evutha ngumsindo, wazama ukugqobhoza eludongeni ngomkhonto wakhe, kwaye, esongeza i-invect kunye nezisongelo, wenza lo msindo: Unyana womfazi onesidima. Ndiyazi ukuba umthanda ngenxa yokuhlazeka kwakho nehlazo likanyoko oneentloni (cf. 1 Sam 20,30:1). Emva koko wahlanza yonke ityhefu ebusweni balo mfana, kodwa akazange awatyeshele amazwi okuvuselela umnqweno wakhe, ukukhulisa umona wakhe nokumenza abe nomona nobukrakra. Ngalo lonke ixesha lokuphila konyana kaJese, wathi, ubukumkani bakho abunakukhuseleka (cf. 20,31 Sam. XNUMX:XNUMX). Ngubani ongakhange othuke ngala mazwi, ngubani ongayi kubaselwa yintiyo? Ngaba oku ngekwakungangcolisi, kunciphise kwaye kurhoxise naluphi na uthando, nayiphi na imbeko kunye nobuhlobo? Endaweni yokuba laa mfana uthanda kakhulu, egcina amanqwanqwa obuhlobo, omelele xa ujamelene nezisongelo, unyamezelo ebusweni be-invect, edelela ubukumkani ngokunyaniseka kumhlobo wakhe, elibele ngozuko, kodwa ekhumbula imbeko, uthe: yiba ngukumkani kwaye ndiza kuba sesibini emva kwakho ».
Oku kuyinyani, ubuhlobo obugqibeleleyo, obuzinzileyo nobungunaphakade, obungachaphazeli umona, ukukrokrela akupheli, amabhongo akanakuphula. Evavanyiwe, akazange agungqe, xa wayejolise kuye akazange awe, wabethwa zizithuko ezininzi wahlala engaguquki, ecaphukiswa zizithuko ezininzi wahlala engagungqi. "Hamba ke, wenze kwangoku ngokwakho" (uLk 10,37:XNUMX).