Ukucamngca namhlanje: intuthuzelo kumoni oguqukileyo
Intuthuzelo kumoni oguqukileyo: Le yintsabelo yonyana othembekileyo kumzekeliso wonyana wolahleko. Siyakhumbula ukuba emva kokuchitha ifa lakhe, unyana wolahleko ubuyela ekhaya ehlazekile kwaye ehlwempuzekile, ebuza utata wakhe ukuba angambuyisa na amphathe ngokungathi ungumntu onenceba.
Kodwa utata uyamothusa kwaye amenzele itheko elikhulu unyana wakhe ukubhiyozela ukubuya kwakhe. Kodwa omnye unyana katata wakhe, oye wahlala naye kule minyaka idlulileyo, khange ajoyine imibhiyozo. “Uyabona, ndikukhonze yonke le minyaka, akukhange kube nakanye ndingayithobeli imiyalelo yakho; Ukanti akuzange undinike netakane lebhokhwe ukuze ndonwabe ngabahlobo bam. Kodwa xa unyana wakho ebuya eginye impahla yakho noonongogo, umxhelele ithole elityetyisiweyo ”. ULuka 15: 22–24
Ngaba yayilungile into yokuba utata abulale ithole elityetyisiweyo kwaye waququzelela eli theko lihle ukubhiyozela ukubuya konyana wakhe ophambukayo? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba lo tata angazange anike unyana wakhe othembekileyo itakane lebhokhwe ukuba atye nabahlobo bakhe? Impendulo eyiyo kukuba lo ngumbuzo ongalunganga.
Kulula kuthi ukuba siphile ngendlela yokuba sihlale sifuna ukuba izinto zibe "zilungile". Kwaye xa siqonda ukuba omnye ufumana ngaphezulu kunathi, sinokuba nomsindo kwaye sicaphuke. Kodwa ukubuza ukuba oku kulungile okanye akunjalo ayingombuzo olungileyo. Xa kufikwa kwinceba kaThixo, isisa sikaThixo nokulunga kwakhe kugqwese kakhulu oko kubonwa kulungile. Kwaye ukuba sifuna ukwabelana ngenceba kaThixo, nathi kufuneka sifunde ukuyivuyela inceba yakhe.
Kweli bali, isenzo senceba esinikwe unyana ophambukayo yayiyile nto kanye yayifuneka ngunyana. Kwakudingeka azi ukuba nokuba wenza ntoni ngaphambili, utata wakhe wayemthanda kwaye wayevuya kukubuya kwakhe. Ke ngoko, lo nyana wayefuna inceba eninzi, ngokuyinxenye ukumqinisekisa ngothando lukayise. Wayefuna le ntuthuzelo yongezelelekileyo ukuze aziqinisekise ukuba wenze ukhetho olufanelekileyo ngokubuya.
Omnye unyana, owahlala ethembekile kule minyaka idlulileyo, akazange aphathwe kakuhle. Endaweni yokuba, ukungoneliseki kwakhe kubangelwe kukuba naye wayengenazo inceba ezifanayo ezazikho entliziyweni kayise. Uye wasilela ukumthanda umntakwabo ngendlela efanayo, ke ngoko, khange abone sidingo sokunikezela ngale ntuthuzelo kumninawa wakhe njengendlela yokumnceda aqonde ukuba uxolelwe kwaye wamkelekile kwakhona. Pha nenceba Inzima kakhulu kwaye iyodlula lee into ekuboneni kokuqala esinokubona ukuba inengqiqo kwaye ilungile. Kodwa ukuba sinqwenela ukufumana inceba ngobuninzi, kufuneka sikulungele kwaye sikulungele ukuyinika abo bayidinga kakhulu.
Intuthuzelo kumoni oguqukileyo: Cinga namhlanje ngendlela onenceba ngayo
Cinga namhlanje ngendlela onenceba nesisa ngayo, ngokukodwa kwabo kubonakala ngathi abakufanelanga. Zikhumbuze ukuba ubomi bobabalo abulolungisa; imalunga nokuba nesisa ngendlela eyothusayo. Zibandakanye kolu bunzulu besisa kubo bonke kwaye ujonge iindlela zokuthuthuzela intliziyo yomnye ngenceba kaThixo.Ukuba uyakwenza oko, olo thando lwesisa luyakusikelela nentliziyo yakho ngobuninzi.
Nkosi yam enesisa, unemfesane ngaphaya kokuba ndicinga. Inceba yakho nokulunga kwakho kungaphezulu kokufanele thina ngabanye. Ndincede ukuba ndibulele ngonaphakade ukulunga kwakho kwaye undincede ndinikezele ngobunzulu benceba kwabo bafuna kakhulu. UYesu ndiyakholelwa kuwe.