I-Medjugorje: umbono we-Ivan uthetha ngendlela iNenekazi lethu elifuna ukuba iintsapho ziziphathe ngayo
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Ukusuka kwincoko ka-Ivan ngu-P. Livio Fanzaga-3.01.89 ngu-Alberto Bonifacio
Abantwana kufuneka bahlale beziva bethandwa kwaye belandelwa ngabazali babo
Kumyalezo wonyaka wabantu abatsha (nge-15 ka-Agasti ka-88), iNenekazi lethu lithethe ngomzuzu onzima wabantu abancinci, ekufuneka sibathandazele..nokuthetha nabo…. Siyazi kakuhle into ebonelelwa lihlabathi ngabantu abancinci: iziyobisi, utywala kunye nezinye izinto ezininzi. Ndicinga ukuba eyona ngqwalaselo iphambili kufuneka ibe yeyabazali. Ngelishwa, abanye abazali bazimisele ngakumbi kwizinto ezibonakalayo kunakwimfundo yabantwana…. Ubudlelwane kunye nabantwana kufuneka bube:
Into yokuqala: Abazali kufuneka bachithe ixesha elininzi nabantwana babo namhlanje.
Okwesibini: Namhlanje abazali kufuneka banike abantwana babo uthando olungakumbi. Ingxaki yindlela yokubapha uthando. Namhlanje abantwana kufuneka banikwe uthando lwenene lukamama kunye nolwasemzini, ingelulo uthando oluquka ukubapha izinto ezidlulayo.
Okwesithathu: Kufuneka sizibuze ukuba bangaphi abazali kusapho abathandazayo nabantwana babo namhlanje ngendlela abathandaza ngayo.
Okwesine: Bangaphi abazali namhlanje banamhlanje nabantwana babo kusapho lokuthetha kunye nokubonakalisa amava abo? Omnye uyazibuza ukuba yintoni umanyano, evumayo, olawula namhlanje phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Ayisiyiyo le kuphela, kodwa nangokuthi yeyiphi imanyano kunye nekhonkco phakathi kwabazali, umyeni nenkosikazi; kwaye ke luluphi ulwalamano phakathi kwabazali nabantwana naphakathi kwabantwana nabazali. Kwaye abazali bakhule njani ngokwabo, baba ngabantu abaqolileyo? Kwaye emva koko abazali bafuna ukunika abantwana babo. Indlela abazali abalawula ngayo ukulawula inkululeko yabantwana namhlanje. Uninzi lwabazali luyeke konke kuqhubeke kwaye kuqhubeke kunika abantwana babo imali kunye nemali!
Lo ngumkhondo kuphela wabazali abafuna ukuhlanganisa iintsapho zabo ...
Abazali kufuneka bahambe nabantwana babo kwaye babafundise elukholweni, babafundise ukuthandaza nokubakhanyisela kuzo zonke izinto zobomi. Kuyadingeka ukwalathisa umntwana ngalo lonke inyathelo ukuze akwazi ukubona into engalunganga, kuyimfuneko ukumqala ebomini kwaye umncede azifumane, umntwana akanakho ukukhula okukuko ukuze aziqaphele, abazali banamava, kufuneka bathethe nabancinci babo. Ngamazwi, ubukho babazali ecaleni kwabantwana babo yeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu.
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