Ummangaliso kamama uSpartanza wenzeka eMonza

Ummangaliso eMonza: Eli libali lomntwana owazalelwa eMonza nge-2 kaJulayi, 1998. Le nkwenkwana ibizwa ngokuba nguFrancesco Maria, othi emva kweentsuku ezingamashumi amane aphuhlise ukungabekezeleli ubisi, oluthi ngokuthe ngcembe lufikelele kuko konke okunye ukutya. Izibhedlele ezininzi, iintlungu kunye neentlungu ziqala. Nentlungu yabazali. Kude kube ngumhla,, ngamathuba, umama weva intetho kumabonwakude wengcwele yoThando lweNceba kaMan Speranza, eCollevalenza, apho kuthiwa amanzi ahamba esuka kwipropathi enkulu ye-thaumat mbele. Elo phulo sisiqalo sothotho lweemeko eziya kuthi zikhokelele uFrancesco Maria kummangaliso wokuphiliswa; ngummangaliso oya kuthi, owamkelwe yicawa, oya kuvumela ukubethwa kukaMama Speranza di Gesù, owaziwa ngokuba nguMaria Joseph Alhama Valera (1893 - 1983). Inkqubo yesizathu yaphela ngommiselo wokubetha, watyikitywa ngemvume kaPapa uFrancis nge-5 kaJulayi 2013, kwaye kungqinwa kuphela komhla womsitho. Ukusuka kumbulelo ngokwenzekileyo, abazali bakaFranceso Maria benze ikhaya lentsapho labantwana abangabakhulisi. Nazi iinyani zalo mmangaliso, ukusuka kudliwanondlebe olwenziwe "yiMedjugorie, ubukho bukaMariya" kumama kaFrancesco Maria, uNksk Elena.
Nks. Elena, ungasixelela ukuba baliqala njani eli bali?
Sasihlala kufutshane neVigevano, kodwa ugqirha wam wezifo zesibeleko wayevela eMonza kwaye ngenxa yokuba sasithanda isibhedlele isixeko, sayikhetha ukuba sizale umntwana. Xa wazalwa uFrancesco Maria saqala ukumondla ngefomyula yeentsana, kodwa ke kungekudala waqala waba neengxaki zokungabi namdla wokutya kunye nokunganyamezeli ubisi. Ngokuqhelekileyo wayeqala ukuba nengxaki yesondlo. Akakwazanga ukugaya ... emva koko satshintsha iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zobisi, izilwanyana zokuqala, emva koko imifuno, emva koko iikhemikhali ... Kodwa ezi zifo ziye zisiba mandundu kwaye unyana wam waqala ukuqokelela inani elithile lokungena kwigumbi likaxakeka. Malunga neenyanga ezine zobomi, obu bunzima ekuthatheni izakhamzimba buya kufikelela nakwezinye iindawo eziqhelekileyo zokutya xa ulumkile.
Ngaba yayisisifo esaziwayo?
Yayiyaziwa ngombono wokuba ukunganyamezeli kokutya yinto eyaziwayo. Bekusoloko kukho abantwana abangakwaziyo ukuthatha ubisi, kodwa ngokwesiqhelo, ukunganyamezeli kuthintelwe kukutya, ngoko ke uthatha indawo leyo, uyabalwela, kodwa ke izinto ziya kulungiswa. Endaweni yokuba uFrancesco, ekugqibeleni, wayengenakutya kunye nenyama, inkukhu, intlanzi ... Okokuqala ukutsho ukuba angatya ntoni.
Yintoni anokuyithatha?
Ekupheleni konyaka wasela iti satya salungiselela umama wenza umgubo okhethekileyo kunye noshukela kanye ngeveki emva koko, samnika umvundla we-homogenized: hayi kuba eyigaye kakuhle, kodwa kuba imenzakalise kancinane kune okunye ukutya.
Uye wayifumana njani le ngxaki? Khawufane ucinge ngenkxalabo, yintlungu ...
Ilizwi elichanekileyo lusizi. Sasikhathazeke kakhulu ngempilo yomntwana, nangokukhathala kwakhe emzimbeni, kuba wayekhala, ene-colic. Kwaye ke kwabakho neywethu, yokudinwa ... Waye ngaphezu kwayo yonke into ekhala ukukhala. Malunga nonyaka omnye, uFrancesco ubunzima obumalunga nesithandathu, iikhilomitha ezisixhenxe. Wayesitya ukutya okumbalwa. Sasingenathemba lingako, xa ngenye imini, kwiveki nje engaphambi kokuba uFrancesco abe nonyaka ubudala, ndeva ngoMama uSperanza kwinkqubo yeTV, iTV yayisegumbini lokuhlala kwaye ndisekhitshini. I-perte yokuqala yothumelo ayikhange ibambe umdla wam, kodwa kwinxalenye yesibini, kwathiwa umama ka-Speranza wayakha le ndawo ingcwele apho kukho khona amanzi aphilisa izifo ezange isayensi ingakwazi ukunyanga ...
Ngaba yayingusasazo lwasemva kwemini?
Ewe basasaza kwisiteshi sesihlanu, iVerissimo. Kwakungemva kwemini, ngecala emva kwesihlanu, umninimzi wayethetha ngoMama Speranza. Emva koko babonise iiphuli ngamanzi.
Ke wawungazi kwanto malunga noMama weThemba likaYesu ...
Hayi, ndibize umyeni wam kwaye wathi kuye: "Maurizio, ndivile ngale ndawo kwaye, sinikwe imeko yonyana wethu, ndiziva ngathi kufanele siye apho". Undibuzile ukuba bendiyiqonda kakuhle ukuba ibiphi, ndathi hayi. Ke undixelele ukuba ndibize umama wakhe, kuba umyeni womyeni wam ngumbingeleli kwaye unokwazi apho ikhoyo le ndawo. Ndiye ndafowunela umalume ngqo, kodwa andimfumana. Ndaye ndabuza umkhwekazi wam ukuba ikhona into ayaziyo, kwaye wandixelela ngokuchanekileyo ukuba le ndawo ingcwele yayiseCollevalenza, kufutshane neTodi, e-Umbria. Emva koko ndambuza ukuba kutheni engazange athethe nto kuthi; kwaye waphendula wathi ufundile kuphela ngayo kusuku oludlulileyo, kuba umalume wakhe, uDon Giuseppe, wayelapho ngokwasemsebenzini. Umalume womyeni wam uyinxalenye yombutho wababingeleli baseMarian owasekwa nguDon Stefano Gobbi, owaqala ngokwenza imithambo yokomoya kanye ngonyaka eSan Marino. Ke, bakhule ngenani, baye bajonga indawo enkulu, kwaye bakhetha uColvalenza. Kwakuloo nyaka yayilixesha lokuqala ukuba baye, kwaye ke, umalume womyeni wam wayelumkisile ukuba wayeza kuba kule ndawo ingcwele.
Ngaba sele unamava okholo phambi kwesi sehlo?
Besisoloko sizama ukuhlala ukholo, kodwa ibali lam eliqinisekileyo, kuba abazali bam babengengomaKatolika. Ndadibana nokholo emva kwexesha kwaye emva kweminyaka embalwa ukuba ndiqale olu hambo lokuguquka, uFrancesco Maria wazalwa.
Makhe sibuyele kunyana wakho. Ke wayefuna ukuya kuMama Speranza ...
Ndifuna kakhulu ukuya apho. Yayiyimeko ekhethekileyo: Andazi ukuba kutheni, kodwa ndaziva ndifanele ukuyenza. Inkwenkwe ibinonyaka omnye ngoJulayi 24, yonke le nto yenzekile nge-25 kaJuni kunye ne-28, ngeentsuku nje zomsebenzi we-medjugorie. Ngomhla wamashumi amabini anesibhozo saqala ukwenza ukuba uFrancesco asele amanzi kamama uSparanza.
Kwenzeka ntoni kanye kanye?
Ukubuya kwethu eCollevalenza, uMalum 'uGiuseppe uye weza neebhotile zala manzi, enye enesiqingatha sebhotile, wasixelela ukuba oonongendi bacebisile ukuba bathandaze luthando lweNovena. Phambi kokuba sinike uFrancesco amanzi okusela sasiphinda phinda le novena eyayibhalwe ngumama uSpartanza.Sonke saqala ukuthandazela ukuphiliswa kukaFrancesco, kuba kaloku yayizintsuku ezintathu ukuba azile ukutya. Akazange atye nto kwaye imeko yayisiba mandundu.
Ngaba usesibhedlele?
Hayi besisekhaya. Oogqirha basixelele ukuba ngoku sasifikelele kwinqanaba apho ukuphuculwa bekungekhe kwenzeke. Sibe nexhala kuba le meko inokubangela ingozi; ke ngoko saqala ukumnika amanzi uFrancesco ngethemba lokumbona etyatyamba kwakhona. Ngapha koko, yayiyiveki apho saye savumela iNkosi ukuba yenze ukuthanda Kwayo. Into esinokuyenza ngokomntu, sazixelela, siyenzile. Ngaba ikho enye into enokwenziwa? Sibuze iNkosi ukuba isikhanyisele ... Besidiniwe nyani, kuba besingalalanga unyaka.
Ngaba kukho into eyenzekileyo kuloo veki?
Ngenye imini ndijikeleze ilizwe kunye noFrancesco; saya epakini, nabanye abantwana imidlalo ... Ndithe xa ndisondela epakini, ndithathwe ngumfanekiso womntu owayehleli ebhentshini kwaye wahlala ecaleni kwakhe. Saqala ukuncokola. Ndayikhupha loo ntetho kwaye, xa kufuneka ndiyibalisile, ndihlala ndiyifunda, ukuze ndingabhideki ... (Nksk Elena, okwangoku, ndikhupha amaphepha athile aqala ukufunda kuwo): ngoLwesithathu, nge-30 kaJuni ndigqibe kwelokuba ndihambe noFrancesco ndiye hambani nihambe ngepaki yelali besihlala kuyo bendihlala ebhentshini. Ecaleni kwam kuhlala indoda enesidanga esiphakathi, enobuntu obuhle, ebalaseleyo. Eyona nto indichukumise kakhulu ngalomntu ngamehlo akhe, umbala ongachazekiyo, ukukhanya okuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, okwandenza ndacinga ngamanzi. Sitshintshiselana ngezinto zokuqala ezimnandi: unenkwenkwe entle kangakanani emdala? Ngasihlandlo sithile wandibuza ukuba angamthatha na uFrancesco Maria ezingalweni zakhe. Wavuma, nangona kude kube lelo xesha andizange ndibavumele abo bantu basemzini ukuba bandithembe. Xa wayithatha, wayijonga ngesisa esikhulu wathi: "Francesco, ungumntwana olunge ngokwenene". Apho ke ndaye ndabuza ukuba ulazi njani igama lakhe kwaye ndatsho ukuba inokuba ebeve naye esitsho kum. Uqhubeke wathi: “Kodwa lo mntwana uphathiswe iNenekazi lethu, akunjalo ?; Ndaphendula ndaphendula "ewe kunjalo", ndambuza ukuba wazi njani ezi zinto nokuba siyazana. Uye wandijonga wancuma engaphendulanga, wongeza ke esithi: "kutheni unexhala?". Ndaphendula ngelithi andinaxhala. Ukundibona kwakhona, waguqukela kum wandinika "unexhala, ndixelele kutheni ..." Ndamxelela zonke izinto endinazo ngoFrancesco. "Ngaba umntwana uyayifumana into?" Ndaphendula ngelithi akukho nto ayithathayo. "Kodwa sowukhe waya kuMama Speranza, akunjalo? Ndamxelela ke, ukuba ngekhe siye apho. "Kodwa ewe, uye eCollevalenza." "Hayi, jonga, ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba asikaze siye kuMama Speranza". Kwaye yatsho kum ngokuqinileyo nangokuzimisela: "Francesco ewe". Ndaphinda ndathi hayi; wandijonga, waphinda wathi: "Ewe, Francesco ewe". Emva koko okwesibini wandibuza: "Kodwa ngaba uFrancesco uthatha into?". Ndaphendula ndaphendula ngelithi hayi, kodwa ekubuyeni kwam emva koko ndavuma kwangoko: "Ewe, jonga, useza amanzi kaMama Speranza." Ndamcela ukuba andixelele igama lakhe, ukuba ungubani, ukuba angazazi njani zonke ezi zinto ngathi, kodwa impendulo yakhe yile: “Kutheni undibuza imibuzo emininzi kangaka? Sukucinga ukuba ndingubani, ayinamsebenzi. Kwaye emva koko wongeza: "Akukho sidingo sokukhathazeka kwakhona, kuba uFrancesco ufumene umama wakhe". Ndamjonga ngokothuka ndaye ndaphendula: "Uxolo, jonga umama wakhe ndim ..." waphinda wathi: "Ewe, kodwa omnye umama". Ndothuka ndabhideka, khange ndiqonde nto. Ndamxelela ngentlonelo ukuba mandihambe kwaye wathi: "Yibani nomthendeleko omkhulu ngeCawa, uya? "Ewe ndiphendulile, ngenene ngeCawa sinomcimbi omncinci wokuzalwa kukaFrancesco." “Hayi, uqhubeke, ube nepati enkulu. Ayisiyomhla wokuzalwa, kodwa ngenxa yokuba uFrancesco uyanyangeka ". Ndacinga "uphilisiwe?" Ndaphazamiseka kakhulu, iingcinga zazingene engqondweni. Ndaphinda ndambuza, "Nceda ungubani? Wandijonga ngononophelo, kodwa eneneni, wathi, "Ndibuze nje ukuba ndingubani." Ndinyanzele: "kodwa uphilile njani?". Kwaye wathi: "Ewe, uphilisiwe, ungakhathazeki. UFrancis uphilisiwe ". Okwalo mzuzu bendiqonda ukuba kukhona into engaqhelekanga eyenzekayo kum, iingcinga bezizininzi, nemvakalelo nazo. Kodwa bendisoyika, ndamjonga kwaye, ndizithethelela, ndathi: "Jonga, ngoku kufanelekile ukuba ndihambe". Ndamthatha uFrancesco, ndamfaka kwi-stroller; Ndambona etyibilisela inkwenkwe kuye, endinika ikhonkco engalweni kwaye endicenga: "Nceda, yiya kuMama Speranza". Ndaphendula: "Ngokuqinisekileyo siza kuya". Watsho esondela kuFrancesco, ngesandla sakhe samenza ukuba athandane nenkwenkwe wayiphendula ngesandla sakhe esincinci. Uye waphakama wandijonga ngqo emehlweni wathi kum futhi: "Ndiyakucebisa, kamsinya nje ngethemba mama". Ndivalelisa ndagoduka, ngenene ndabaleka. Ndaguquka ndamjonga.
Ibali elithile ...
Yile nto yenzekayo kule paki xa ndadibana naloo mntu ...
Ngeli xesha uFrancesco wayesele esela amanzi aseColvavaza.
Ewe, yayiqale ngoMvulo kusasa. Ndijikeleze ibhloko ndilila, kuba kuyo yonke loo mntu ebendixelele eyona nto yandicaphukisa kukuba uFrancesco umfumene umama wakhe. Ndathi mna: "Ngaba oko kuthetha ukuba uFrancesco kufuneka afe? Okanye ngubani umama lo? ". Ndijikeleze ibhloko ndicinga ukuba inokuba ibikukudinwa, yintlungu kunyana wam, ukuba ndiyahamba, ukuba bendicinga yonke into ... ndibuyele epakini; kwakukhona abantu, kodwa loo mntu wayengasekho. Ndaye ndema ukuze ndithethe nabantu ababekhona ndibabuza ukuba bayamazi na, ukuba babekhe bambona na. Kwaye indoda enobubele yaphendula: "Ewe simbonile ethetha naloo mntu, kodwa akangomntu wasekhaya, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ngekhe samazi umntu omhle kangaka".
Wayeneminyaka emingaphi?
Andazi. Wayengemncinci, kodwa andimxeleli ubudala bakhe. Khange ndiqwalasele imeko yomzimba. Ndingatsho ukuba ndichukunyiswe ngokwenene ngamehlo akhe. Bendingakwazi ukumjonga ixesha elide, ngoba bendinombono wokuba angabona ngaphakathi kum. Ndatsho ngaphakathi kum: "Mamma mia, bungakanani ubunzulu". Ndigoduke ndafowunela umyeni wam, eligqirha. Wayese studio kwaye wathi kum: “Ngoku ndinabaguli, ndinike ixesha lokuba ndigqibe kwaye ndiza kugoduka ngoko nangoko. Okwangoku, fowunela umama ukuba eze ngaphambi kokuba ndifike. Nditsalele umninazala umnxeba ndimxelela ukuba kwenzeke ntoni. Wayenombono wokuba bendiyekile, ukuba ngenxa yentlungu, ukudinwa, bendiphangele. Ndathi kuye: "UFrancesco uyanyangeka, kodwa ndifuna ukuqonda ukuba ngubani lo mama." Uphendule wathi: "Mhlawumbi ndingawuphendula lo mbuzo." Ndikhawuleze ndambuza ukuba uthetha ukuthini. Uye wandixelela oku kulandelayo ...
Sixelele ...
Ngexa ndandiseCollevalenza, umalume uGiuseppe wayethandazele uFrancesco Maria. NgoMgqibelo, wayelungiselela ukugoduka, kodwa, sele efikile phambi kwesango lendlu yondwendwe, waziva kufanelekile ukuba abuyele kwingcwaba likaMama Speranza. Wabuya ke waya endaweni yengcwele, waya engcwabeni waza wathandaza wathi: “Nceda umthathe njengonyana, umamkele. Ukuba kukuthanda kweNkosi ukuba ishiye, sincede sidlule kulo mzuzu. Ukuba endaweni yoko ungangenelela, sinike oku. Umamazala waqukumbela ngelithi mhlawumbi le yenzekileyo yayiyimpendulo yoko kwathethwa sisonke nangumalume ngokuthandaza.
Ngeli xesha kwakufuneka ubhiyozele usuku lokuzalwa lukaFrancesco Maria?
Ewe, ngeCawa silungiselele itheko lethu elincinci, kunye nabahlobo bethu, ootatomkhulu noomalume, oomalume kunye bonke beza. Kwakukho yonke into uFrancesco awayengenakutya, kodwa asifumananga mandla okumnika into ebesazi ukuba inokumenzakalisa. Asikwazanga kuyenza ... Kwiinyanga nje ezimbini ngaphambi koko kwenzekile ukuba wafumana iqwengana emhlabeni, wayeyifumene emlonyeni kwaye kwimizuzu engamashumi amabini emva kokuba eyekile. Ke ukucinga nje ngokumondla ngento ebekwetafileni bekungekho ngqiqweni. Umalume ke uye wasibeka ecaleni wasixelela ukuba lifikile ixesha lokuba abonise ukholo lwethu. Usixelele ukuba iNkosi iyayenza indima yakhe, kodwa nathi kufuneka senze eyeyethu. Khange sibenalo nexesha lokuthi "kulungile", ukuba umkhwezala wamthatha umntwana wamsondeza kwikhekhe. UFrancesco wabeka izandla zakhe ezincinci kuyo wazisa emlonyeni ...
Kwaye wena? Nzeni?
Intliziyo zethu bezibonakala ngathi ziyajijikana. Kodwa ngexesha elithile, sithe ngokwethu: "Iya kuba yile nto iya kuba yiyo". UFrancesco wayitya ipizzas, i-piezels, iipayi ... Kwaye njengoko wayesitya wayephilile! Wayengaphenduli. Besithembe izinto ebezixelelwe yiNkosi ngalomntu. Xa umcimbi udlulile, sabeka uFrancesco ukuba alale kwaye yena walala ubusuku bonke okokuqala ngqa unyaka. Xa wayeqala ukuvuka wasicela ubisi, kuba wayelambile ... Ukusukela ngala mhla, uFrancesco waqala ukusela ilitha yobisi ngemini enesiqingatha sekilo yeyogathi. Ngalo mhla saqonda ukuba kukho into eyenzekileyo. Ukusukela ngoko bekulungile. Kwiveki elandelayo yokuzalwa kwakhe waqala ngokuhamba.
Ngaba ulwenzile uphando kwangoko?
Kwiiveki ezimbini emva komsitho kaFrancesco wayesele esenza uvavanyo. Xa ugqirha wandibona, waqiniseka ukuba uFrancesco akasekho, kuba imeko yayimbi. Uye weza kum wandanga wandi hugger, esithi uyazisola. Oko bendithe, "Hayi, jonga, izinto azihambanga ngendlela ebesicinga ngayo." Xa wabona uFrancesco efika, wathi yayingummangaliso ngokwenene. Ukusukela ngoko unyana wam ebesoloko ephilile, ngoku uneminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu.
Ngaba ekugqibeleni uye kuMama uSpartanza?
Nge-3 ka-Agasti siye eCollevalenza, ukubulela umama uSparanza, ngaphandle kokuthetha ngomntu. Nangona kunjalo, umalume wethu, uDon Giuseppe, wafowunela le ngcwele esithi siyifumene le nceba yokuphiliswa nguFrancis. Kwaye ukusuka apho inkqubo yaqala yokwamkelwa kommangaliso ngaphakathi unobangela wokubethwa kukaMama Speranza. Ekuqaleni besinokuthandabuza, kodwa emva konyaka sinike ukubakho kwethu.
Ixesha elingaphezulu siye sicinga ukuba i-bond kunye nomama Speranza sele yomeleze ...
Bubomi bethu ... umxokelelwano kunye nothando olunenceba sele bubomi bethu. Ekuqaleni besingazi nto ngoMama Speranza okanye ngoomoya awayekhuthaza ngayo. Kodwa xa sasiqala ukuyiqonda, saqonda ukuba, ngaphaya kokuphiliswa nguFrancis kwaye ngenxa yoko umbulelo esinawo ngokubhekisele kuMama uSpartanza, ubomi bethu bubonisa ukuba buyintoni ubuntu bokomoya boNyando olunenceba, olwethu ngenene umsebenzi. Emva kokuphola kukaFrancis, sazibuza ukuba yintoni esinokuyenza ukuphendula kolu lubabalo. Siyicele iNkosi ukuba isenze ukuba siqonde ukuba yintoni na esinokuthi siyiyo. Ngeli xesha saqala ukuba nomdla kwaye sijula ​​neengxaki zokugcinwa kosapho. Kwaye emva kwenkqubo yokulungiselela sanikezela ukufumaneka kwethu ukuba samkele abantwana bokuqala. Kwiminyaka emine edluleyo sadibana nombutho ophefumlelweyo wenkonzo yamaKatolika "Amici dei bambini". Ujongana nokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu kwilizwe liphela, kodwa kangangesithuba seminyaka elishumi sele evulekile ekugcinweni kosapho. Ke ngoko siqwalasele kunye imbono yokuvula ikhaya losapho apho banike khona abantwana abaninzi ukuba bamkeleke kusapho, eyethu, kwixesha lokwahlulwa kweyona yunithi yosapho. Sivule usapho lwethu iinyanga ezintathu: "Ithemba losapho ekhaya".