Ngaba thina okanye uThixo kufuneka sikhethe iqabane lethu?
UThixo wenza uAdam ukuze angabi nangxaki. Akukho maninzi eBhayibhileni, nokuba, kuba amaqabane abo ayekhethwe ngooyise. Kodwa siphila kule nkulungwane yama-21 izinto zitshintshile. Abantwana badibana kumatheko anxilayo ubusuku bonke, bavuke, balwe, babe nabantwana, balwe, baqhubeke kakuhle kwaye baphile kwiindawo ezimnyama zokuhamba kumgangatho wesithathu.
Kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ngokuqinisekileyo ufuna okungcono, kungoko ndiqala ukucebisa ukuba ndiye kumatheko apho unokufumana khona awona manqaku afanelekileyo, ngethemba labo bakholelwa kuThixo.Ezi zinokuba ziinkampu, isikolo okanye imidaniso yesikolo, iipikniki ezinkulu, iiklabhu zesikolo, iinkonzo zecawe (ngokukodwa kwiicawe ezingezizo ezakho ukuba unayo) njalo njalo.
Enye indlela elungileyo yokufumana umntu oza kuthandana naye kwaye mhlawumbi iqabane lakho kukuzinikela ngexesha lakho kwizizathu ezifanelekileyo esele zinabantu abalingana nawe abanceda abanye. Kwenye indawo embindini wayo yonke intombazana efuna ukuchitha ikamva layo kunye noMnumzana oLungileyo kunye nomntu anokuvunywa nguThixo.
Thatha ixesha lokuncokola kwaye umamele amantombazana. Buza imibuzo eza kubakhuthaza ukuba bathethe bodwa, amathemba abo, amaphupha abo. Kwaye ungavolontiya ukuthetha ngesiqu sakho de babuze. Kuya kufuneka ubenze oyena mntu ubalulekileyo kwincoko.
Xa uthandaza kuThixo, thetha naye malunga namabhinqa amancinci owaziyo, ze ke ngokuthobeka ucele uncedo lakhe ekuthatheni isigqibo sokuba leliphi (ukuba likho) elinokuba liqabane elinokwenzeka.
Nantoni na oyenzayo, sukuhlala evarandeni ulindele ukuba uThixo akuthumelele iqabane. Uya kulinda ixesha elide kwaye ekuphela kwento eya kuyithumela yimvula nekhephu.
Umgaqo obalulekileyo wokuthandana unokufumaneka kwi-1Samuel 16: 7 apho uThixo alumkisa umprofeti uSamuel ukuba angagwebi umntu ngokubonakala okanye inkangeleko yakhe yangaphandle, kodwa kunokuba kunjalo ngohlobo lwabo. Eyona ntombazana intle kakhulu kwindibano ayinakulunga njengeqabane elifana noJane olula ongafane abuzwe ixesha lokudibana.
Ekugqibeleni, xa wena noThixo nithatha isigqibo sokuba ngubani oza kuba liqabane lobomi bakho, mphathe ngendlela uJohnny Lingo aphatha ngayo umtshakazi wakhe. Kwilizwe elisisiqithi apho babethengiwe abafazi, ixabiso eliqhelekileyo lokubuza yayiziinkomo ezine; zintlanu okanye zithandathu ukuba umfazi wayeba mhle kakhulu. Kodwa uJohnny Lingo uhlawule iimazi ezisibhozo zebhokhwe emncinci, ethandabuzayo, eneentloni ehamba namagxa akhe egobile kwaye intloko yakhe iphantsi. Wonke umntu elalini wamangaliswa.
Kwiinyanga ezininzi emva komtshato, iqabane likaJohnny laliguqukile laba libhinqa elihle, lilungile kwaye lizithembile. UJohnny ucacisile: “Eyona nto ibalulekileyo yindlela acinga ngayo umntu wasetyhini. Ndafuna umfazi weenkomo ezisibhozo, ndathi ndakumbhatalela, ndamphatha ngaloo ndlela, wafumanisa ukuba uxabiseke ngaphezu kwawo nawuphi na umfazi kwezi ziqithi.