Andikwazanga ukuba kuyo yonke indawo kwaye ndadala umama
Andikwazanga ukuba kuyo yonke indawo kwaye ndadala umama
(Ingxoxo noThixo)
Nyana wam endimthandayo ndinguThixo wakho uthando olungenasiphelo, uvuyo olukhulu noxolo lwanaphakade. Njengoko Bawo ndihlala ndisecaleni kwakho kwaye ndiyabuhoya ubomi bakho naphantsi kwemeko ezinzima, ezilingweni ndikunye nawe kwaye ndiyakukhuthaza ukuba wenze izigqibo ezilungileyo. Kodwa ngenxa yokulunga kwam okukhulu, ngenxa yothando lwam olukhulu, ngenxa yobukhulu benceba yam, ndibeke ecaleni kwakho umfazi okuthandayo njengam, ngaphandle kwemiqathango, ngaphandle kokuzenzisa, lowo wakuzala enyameni, ukukhulise ngomzimba: umama. Igama elithi umama alifuni izichazi kunye nendumiso, kodwa umama ulungile kwaye ungumama nje. Akukho zidalwa zingcono kumntu ngamnye emhlabeni kunomama wakhe. Nokuba ubomi bukubeka entanjeni, ukuba iimeko zinzima, ubunzima bukhula ebukhoneni bakho, uya kuhlala unoncumo olungakushiyiyo, mfazi oqhubeka nokondla ubukho bakho imihla ngemihla naxa ukhulile kwaye awuzodinga kodwa ingcinga yakhe, umthandazo wakhe, uyafika kum ndingenelele, andikwazi ukuma ngxi kwisibongozo sikamama ngonyana wakhe.
Imithandazo emininzi iyeza ezulwini, izithandisi ezininzi ziyacelwa kwitrone yam ezukileyo kodwa ndithandaza kwimithandazo yomama yonke. Iinyembezi zikaMama zinyanisekile, iintlungu zabo zinyulu, bayabathanda abantwana babo ukuba bangafi kwaye banxibe njengamakhandlela e-wax abantwana babo. Umama uhlukile, akukho babini okanye bangaphezulu kodwa umama ngmnye. Mna xa ndadala umama lixesha kuphela lokuba njengoThixo ndibenomona ukusukela ndadala isidalwa esithanda abantwana baso njengoko ndibathanda abo bangoThixo, ogqibeleleyo kwaye owahlukileyo. Ndibonile oomama besifa kwaye behlupheka ngenxa yabantwana babo, ndibabonile oomama bedela ubukho babo ngenxa yabantwana babo, ndibabonile oomama abazidlise ngenxa yabantwana babo, ndibabonile oomama abaye bachitha ubomi bezinyembezi ngenxa yabantwana babo. Mna ndinguThixo ndingakuqinisekisa ukuba izulu lizele ngoomama kodwa ke mininzi imiphefumlo ecekeceke. Umama uzinikezele kusapho kwaye ndibeke uthando lwenene lomntu kuyo. Umama uyinkosikazi yosapho, umama ugcina usapho kunye, umama usapho.
Sithandwa nyana wam ndinguThixo wakho ndinguThixo wakho ndinguBawo osezulwini ngoku ndingakuxelela ukuba ndikhona yonke indawo kodwa ukuba ubukho bam buyehla andinoloyiko kuba ecaleni kwakho ndibeke umama wam okukhusela kwaye uyakuthanda njengam .
Umsebenzi kamama awupheli kulomhlaba. Uninzi lwabantwana lusilela oomama abashiya lo mhlaba ngokungathi abasekho. Umsebenzi kamama uyaqhubeka eParadesi apho wonke umphefumlo kunye nothando ziyaqhubeka ukukhokela, ukukhuthaza nokuthandazela abantwana babo ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka. Inene ndiyakuxelela ukuba umama eParadesi usondele kum ke umthandazo wakhe uyanyanzelwa ngakumbi, uyaqhubeka kwaye uhlala uphendulwa.
Unoyolo umntu oqondayo ukubaluleka kukamama. Unoyolo umntu okhathalela umama wakhe, axolelwe izono zakhe aze afumane iintsikelelo zomelele kunye ezinkulu kuno mthandazo. Unoyolo umntu othe, nangona ungumoni, ezele yinkohliso, ejonga kunina. Amadoda amaninzi kweli lizwe asindisiwe kwaye afikelele ezulwini ngenxa yomthandazo onyanisekileyo ovela kumama.
Sithandwa sam nyana wam, ndiyakuxelela ukuba ndikuthandile kwimfezeko hayi nje ukuba ndidale ndakwenza indoda, kodwa ndikwamisa umama ecaleni kwakho. Ukuba awukwazi ukuqonda endikuxelela ukuba ugoduke ujonge emehlweni umama wakho kwaye uya kuluqonda lonke uthando lwam endikuvayo ngokwakha umfazi okuthanda kakhulu ngaphandle kwemeko.
Kuyinyani ukuba ndikho kuyo yonke indawo kwaye ndikhona yonke indawo, kodwa ukuba bekungenjalo, ndadala umama othabathele indawo uthando lwam kunye nokukhuselwa kwam kuwe. Mna, ndinguThixo, ndikuxelele, ndiyakuthanda. Ndiyakuthanda njengoko umama wakho ekuthanda, ke uya kuluqonda uthando lwam olukhulu kuwe ukuba unokuluqonda uthando lukamama onalo kuwe.
(Ibhalwe nguPaolo Tescione. Igama elithi umama alidingi izichazi ukuze uliqonde, vele uthi "umama").
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