Sukuhlehlisa umthandazo wakho: amanyathelo amahlanu okuqala okanye wokuqalisa ngokutsha
Akukho mntu unobomi bomthandazo ogqibeleleyo. Kodwa ukuqala okanye ukuqala kwakhona ubomi bakho bomthandazo kuyanqweneleka xa ujonga indlela uThixo alangazelela ngayo ukwabelana ngobuhlobo obunothando nawe. Njengoninzi lwemisebenzi emitsha, njengenkqubo yokuzilolonga, kuluncedo kakhulu ukugcina umthandazo ulula kwaye usebenza. Kuyanceda ukuseta iinjongo ezithile zomthandazo zokudibana noThixo onokufikelela kuzo.
Amanyathelo amahlanu okuqala-okanye ukuqala kwakhona-emthandazweni:
Thatha isigqibo sokuba uza kuthandaza phi kwaye nini. Ngelixa kunokwenzeka ukuba uthandaze naphina kwaye nangaliphi na ixesha, kungcono ukucwangcisa ixesha kunye nendawo yokuthandaza. Qala ngemizuzu emihlanu okanye elishumi noThixo - kwaye nguThixo yedwa - njengelona xesha lakho lokuthandaza. Khetha indawo ethe cwaka apho unokuba wedwa kwaye akunakulindeleka ukuba uphazanyiswe. Cinga ngelixesha lomthandazo njengesona sidlo siphambili oza kuba naso noThixo.Kakade ke, unokutya okuninzi okuzenzekelayo okanye amashwamshwam imini yonke okanye iveki, kodwa okona kutya kwakho kuthandazwayo kugcinwayo.
Cinga ngomthandazo okhululekile kodwa ophaphileyo. Kanye njengokuba unikela ingqalelo kwindlela omi ngayo ngexesha lodliwanondlebe lomsebenzi okanye xa ufaka isicelo semali mboleko ebhankini, ngamanye amaxesha siyalibala ukwenza njalo xa sithandaza. Vumela umzimba wakho ube ngumhlobo wakho emthandazweni. Zama enye yezi: Hlala umqolo wakho uthe tye kwaye iinyawo zakho zithi tyaba phantsi. Beka isandla sakho esivulekileyo emathangeni akho okanye usonge izandla zakho ngokukhululekileyo ethangeni lakho. Okanye ungazama ukulala ebhedini okanye uguqe phantsi.
Chitha ixesha ulibazisa kwaye uzolile xa ulungiselela ukuthandaza. Vumela ingqondo yakho icace kuyo yonke imisebenzi kwishedyuli yakho. Akukho lula ukuyenza, kodwa ngokuziqhelanisa uya kuphucula. Enye indlela yokwenza oku kukuthatha imiphefumlo eli-10 okanye nangaphezulu ethomalalisayo kunye nokucoca. Injongo yakho ayikokungacingi, kodwa ukunciphisa iziphazamiso kwiingcinga ezininzi.
Thandaza umthandazo ngabom. Xelela uThixo ukuba uzimisele ukuchitha imizuzu emihlanu okanye elishumi kubuhlobo obuzinikeleyo. Ukuthanda uThixo, le mizuzu mihlanu izayo yeyakho. Ndifuna ukuba nawe okwangoku andinakuphumla kwaye ndiphazamiseka lula. Ndincede ndithandaze. Ngokuhamba kwexesha uyakubanomnqweno wokwandisa ixesha lakho lomthandazo, kwaye uyakufumanisa ukuba njengokuba ubeka phambili ebomini bakho, uyakwenza ixesha lokuthandaza ixesha elide.
Thandaza nangayiphi na indlela oyifunayo. Ungawuphinda-phinda umthandazo wakho kaninzi kwaye wonwabele ixesha lakho loxolo noThixo, okanye uthandaze malunga nomxholo wosuku lwakho kunye nezicwangciso onazo ngomso. Unokubonisa umbulelo, ucele uxolo, okanye ufune uncedo lukaThixo ngengxaki enzima okanye ubudlelwane. Unokukhetha umthandazo owazi ngentloko, njengoMthandazo weNkosi okanye indumiso yama-XNUMX. Unokuba uthandazela omnye umntu okanye uhlala noThixo ekuthandeni cwaka. Thembela ukuba uMoya kaThixo unawe kwaye akuncede uthandaze ngeendlela ezisebenzela wena noBawo. Qiniseka ukuba uthatha ixesha lokumamela icala likaThixo lengxoxo.