Utata ongenamalungu, ukhulisa iintombi ezi-2 zodwa ngesibindi kunye nokholo oluninzi.
Ukuba ngumzali ngowona msebenzi unzima ehlabathini kodwa ukwangowona unomvuzo. Abantwana sisandiso sobomi bethu, ikratshi lethu, ummangaliso wethu. Kukangaphi sizibuza umbuzo ofanayo: Ndiya kuba ngumama olungileyo, ndiya kuba mhle ubawo?
Ukuba ngutata olungileyo kuthetha ukuba ngutata obathandayo nabakhathalele abantwana bakhe, ozinikele kwintlalontle yabo nakwimfundo yabo. Ukhona kubomi babantwana bakhe, ebaphulaphula, ebaxhasa kwaye ebakhokela xa kuyimfuneko.
Kwakhona, bafundise ukubaluleka kwentlonelo, ukunyaniseka, imbopheleleko nobubele. Utata olungileyo ukwangumzekelo omhle kubantwana bakhe, abakhuthazwa yimfezeko yakhe, amandla akhe angaphakathi kunye nokukwazi kwakhe ukujongana nemingeni yobomi ngenkalipho nangesidima.
Kwaye esi sisihloko kanye nebali esiza kukuxelela ngalo namhlanje. Ibali likatata owathi, phezu kwazo nje izithintelo nobunzima, wakhusela yaye wazithanda iintombi zakhe.
Oyena tata emhlabeni
Pharaguwayi. Pablo Acuna yindoda eneminyaka engama-60 ubudala. Ubomi kunye naye babukhohlakele. Uzalwe engenamalungu, eshiywe ngumfazi wakhe kwaye wanyanzelwa ukuba akhulise iintombi ezi-2 yedwa. Ngenene uyintombi encinci, elida, ukubalisa ibali lakhe ku Iphephandaba laseParaguay iCronica. Umama wabo wabalahla xa intombazana yayineenyanga ezi-4 kuphela ubudala kwaye bahlala noyise kunye nomakhulu kayise wabo ukususela ngoko. Nangona intsapho yabo ithobeke kakhulu, amantombazana ebesoloko engqongwe luthando nenkxaso.
KuElida namhlanje Iminyaka engama-26, uyise wayengoyena mzali ubalaseleyo emhlabeni, ngoko ekubeni ngoku umakhulu wakhe eneminyaka engama-90 ubuyile ukuze ahlale nabo. Ngesi senzo, intombazana ibifuna ukubulela umzali wayo ngokuyikhulisa kwaye ngoku lithuba layo lokumhoya kwaye abuyisele uthando olungaka.
UElida nosapho lwakhe bebesoloko behlala kwindawo enye ekhaya yokurenta, kodwa uPablo ebesoloko ephupha ukuba akwazi ukuyithenga. Umninimzi wamcela i-95 yezigidi yaye uPablo wagcina ngokuncama eziyi-87. Ngoku uElida ufuna ukumnceda azalisekise iphupha lakhe.