Ungathandaza njani ngentliziyo? Impendulo nguTata Slavko Barbaric
UMaria uyazi ukuba le yinto ekufuneka siyifundile kwaye afuna ukusinceda ukuyenza. Ezi zinto zimbini uMariya wasixelela ukuba sizenze- ukwenza igumbi lokuthandaza kunye nelomntu buqu - yimibandela yomthandazo wentliziyo. Akukho mntu unokuthandaza ngentliziyo ukuba akugqitywanga ngomthandazo kwaye kuphela emva koko uqala komthandazo wentliziyo.
Mangaphi amaxesha eMedjugorje esiva ebuzwa ukuba kuthetha ntoni kwaye sithandaza njani ngentliziyo? Umntu kufuneka athandaze njani ukuba ngokwenene ngumthandazo onentliziyo?
Wonke umntu unokuqala kwangoko ukuthandaza ngentliziyo, kuba ukuthandaza ngentliziyo kuthetha ukuthandaza ngothando. Nangona kunjalo, ukuthandaza ngothando akuthethi ukuba wazi ukuthandaza kakuhle nokuba ukhumbule uninzi lomthandazo. Endaweni yoko, kuthetha ukuqala ukuthandaza xa uMariya ebuza kwaye ngendlela esenze ngayo ukusukela oko wayeqalela kuye.
Ke ukuba umntu uthi, "Andazi ukuba ndithandaze njani, kodwa ukuba undicela ukuba ndiwenze, ndiza kuqala njengoko ndiyazi ukuba ndenze njani", ngelo xesha umthandazo ngentliziyo uqalile. Ukuba, kwelinye icala, besicinga ngokuqala ukuthandaza kuphela xa sisazi nyani indlela yokuthandaza ngentliziyo, ngoko ke ngekhe sithandaze.
Umthandazo lulwimi kwaye cinga ngento eza kwenzeka ukuba sigqibe kwelokuba sithethe ulwimi kuphela xa silufunde kakuhle. Ngale ndlela, ngekhe sakwazi ukuthetha ulwimi oluthile, kuba nabani na oqala ukuthetha ulwimi lwasemzini uqalisa ngokuthetha izinto ezilula, ukuziqhelanisa, ukuphindaphinda izihlandlo ezininzi nokwenza iimpazamo kwaye ekugqibeleni afunde olo lwimi. . Kufuneka sibe nesibindi kwaye siqale nayiphi na indlela esinokuthi siyenze ngayo kwaye emva koko, ngomthandazo wemihla ngemihla, siya kuthi kwakhona sifunde ukuthandaza ngentliziyo.
Le yimeko yabo bonke abanye, uMaria athetha nathi kuwo wonke umyalezo. UMaria uthi ...
Ngale ndlela kuphela uya kuqonda ukuba ubomi bakho abunanto ngaphandle komthandazo
Rhoqo xa sinokungena ezintliziyweni zethu asiziboni kwaye sijonga izinto ezizalisa indawo yethu. Kwaye ihlala isuka apha apho uhambo lwabantu luqala khona. Xa intliziyo ingenanto, abaninzi baqala ukubhenela kokubi. Kukungabi nathemba komphefumlo osikhokelela kwiziyobisi okanye notywala. Kukungabi nathemba komphefumlo ovelisa indlela yokuziphatha enobundlobongela, iimvakalelo ezingalunganga kunye neempawu ezimbi. Ukuba, kwelinye icala, intliziyo ifumana ubungqina bokuguquka komnye, ke iyayiqonda into yokuba kukungafezeki komphefumlo okumshukumisele esonweni. Ngesi sizathu, kubalulekile ukuba sithathe isigqibo malunga nomthandazo kunye nokuba kuwo sifumana ubu bomi obugcweleyo kwaye oku kugcwala kusinika amandla okususa isono, imikhwa emibi kunye nokuqalisa ubomi obufanele ukuba baphile. Emva koko uMaria wakhomba ...
Uyakufumanisa intsingiselo yobomi bakho xa sele umfumene uThixo ngomthandazo
UThixo ungumthombo woBomi, Uthando, Uxolo kunye noYolo. UThixo ukukukhanya kwaye yindlela yethu. Ukuba sisondele kuThixo, ubomi bethu buza kuba nenjongo kwaye oku akukhathaleki ukuba sivakalelwa njani ngelo xesha, nokuba siphilile okanye siyagula, sisityebi okanye silihlwempu, kuba injongo yobomi iyaqhubeka nokuphila kwaye ilawula yonke imeko esidibana nayo ebomini. Ewe, le njongo inokufumaneka kuphela kuThixo kwaye ngenxa yale njongo siyifumana kuYe yonke into iya kufumana ixabiso. Nokuba sidibana okanye senze isono nokuba sisono esinzulu, ubabalo lukhulu kakhulu. Ukuba uqhele ukumka kuThixo, nangona kunjalo, uhlala ebumnyameni, kwaye ebumnyameni yonke into ilahleka ngombala, yonke into iyafana nenye, icinyiwe, yonke into iba yinto engaziwayo kwaye ke akukho ndlela ifumanekayo. Yiyo loo nto kubalulekile ukuba sime ecaleni koThixo. Ke, ekugqibeleni, uMariya usicenga esithi ...
Ke ngoko, bantwana abancinci, vula umnyango wentliziyo yakho kwaye uya kuqonda ukuba umthandazo ulonwabo olungapheliyo ongenakuphila ngalo
Siyazibuza ukuba: singazivula njani iintliziyo zethu kuThixo nokuba yintoni esenza zisondele. Kulungile ukuba siqonde ukuba yonke into eyenzekileyo kuthi, intle okanye imbi, iyakwazi ukusivala okanye ukusivulela kuThixo.Xa izinto zihamba kakuhle, sibeka umngcipheko ekuhambeni kude nakuThixo nabanye, oko kukuthi. vala iintliziyo zethu kuThixo nakwabanye.
Kwenzeka into efanayo xa sibandezeleka, kuba sizivalela okanye sigxeka uThixo okanye abanye ngenxa yeentlungu zethu, kwaye simvukele uThixo okanye abanye, nokuba kungenxa yentiyo, iintlungu okanye uxinzelelo. Yonke le nto inokusenza ukuba sibaleke ingozi yokuphulukana nentsingiselo yobomi Kodwa ngokubanzi, xa izinto zisihambela kakuhle, simlibala ngokulula uThixo kwaye xa zingahambi kakuhle siqala ukumfuna kwakhona.
Bangaphi abantu abaqala ukuthandaza kuphela xa kukho inkqonkqoza kwentliziyo yabo? Kwaye emva koko kufuneka sizibuze ukuba kutheni silindele ukuba buhlungu siphule umnyango wentliziyo yethu ukuba sithathe isigqibo sokuyivulela uThixo? Kodwa eli lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuba basixelele kwaye sikholwe ukuba ekugqibeleni yonke into iguqukela kolunga. Yiyo ke le nto kungalunganga ukucinga ukuba kungenxa yentando kaThixo ukuba sive ubunzima. Kuba xa sinokuthi kwelinye, uza kucinga ntoni ngoThixo wethu? Nguwuphi umfanekiso abaza kwenziwa nguThixo ukuba ucinga ukuba ufuna ukubandezeleka kwethu?
Xa sibandezeleka, xa izinto zihamba gwenxa, ngoko, akufuneki sithi yintando kaThixo, kodwa endaweni yoko kukuthanda kukaThixo ukuba, ngokubandezeleka kwethu, sikhulele eluthandweni lakhe, kuxolo naselukholweni. Ukuze siyiqonde bhetele, masicinge ngomntwana ova ubunzima aze axelele abahlobo bakhe ukuba abazali bakhe bafuna ukubandezeleka kwakhe.
Baza kucinga ntoni abo bahlobo baba bazali? Ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nto ilungileyo. Kwaye kulungile ke ukuba nathi, ekuthuleni kweentliziyo zethu, sibuyele emva nokuziphatha kwethu sikhangele ukuba yintoni evale iingcango zeentliziyo zethu kuThixo, okanye yintoni eye yasinceda ukuba sizivulele uvuyo olo athetha ngalo uMariya lulovuyo lwevangeli, ulonwabo awathetha ngalo uYesu kwiincwadi zeVangeli.
Luyolo olungabekeli ecaleni iintlungu, iingxaki, ubunzima, intshutshiso, kuba lulonwabo olugqithayo kubo bonke kwaye lukhokelela ekutyhilekeni kobomi banaphakade kunye noThixo, eluthandweni kunye novuyo olungonaphakade. Umntu othile wathi: "Umthandazo awuguquki umhlaba, kodwa uyamtshintsha umntu, lowo ke ongene aguqule umhlaba". Zithandwa zam, ndiyakumema ngoku ngegama likaMary, apha eMedjugorje, ukuba uthathe isigqibo somthandazo, uthathe isigqibo sokusondela kuThixo kwaye ufune kuye injongo yobomi bakho. Ukudibana kwethu noThixo kuyabutshintsha ubomi bethu kwaye ke siyakwazi ukuphucula ubudlelwane kusapho lwethu, eCaweni nasehlabathini liphela. Ngesi sibongozo ndikumema kwakhona ukuba uthandaze ...
Bantwana abathandekayo, namhlanje ndinimema nonke emthandazweni. Uyazi, bantwana abathandekayo, ukuba uThixo unika iziseko ezizodwa emthandazweni; ke ngoko funani nithandaze, ukuze niyazi yonke le nto ndininika yona apha. Ndiyakumema, bantwana abathandekayo, ukuba nithandaze ngentliziyo; Uyazi ukuba ngaphandle komthandazo awunakuyiqonda yonke into ayicebayo uThixo ngaye ngamnye kuthi: ke thandaza. Ndinqwenela ukuba umntu ngamnye azalisekise isicwangciso sikaThixo, ukuze konke akuphiwe nguThixo entliziyweni kukhule. (Umyalezo, Epreli 25, 1987)
Thixo, Bawo wethu, siyabulela kuwe ngokuba nguBawo wethu, ngokusibiza kuthi kwaye ufuna ukuba nathi. Siyanibulela kuba sinokudibana nani ngomthandazo. Sikhulule kuko konke okuhlutha iintliziyo zethu kunye nomnqweno wethu wokuba nawe. Sikhulule kwiqhayiya kunye nokuzingca, kwizinto ezinqabileyo kwaye sivuse umnqweno wethu onzulu wokudibana nawe. Usixolele ukuba sihlala siphambuka kuwe kwaye sikutyhola ngokubandezeleka kwethu kunye nesizungu. Siyanibulela kuba unqwenela ukuba sithandaze, egameni lakho, kwiintsapho zethu, eCaweni nakwilizwe liphela. Siyakucela, usinike ubabalo lokuba sizivulele isimemo somthandazo. Sikelela abo bathandazayo, ukuze badibane nawe emthandazweni, kwaye bafumane injongo yobomi. Ikwanika bonke abo bathandazayo ulonwabo olufumaneka emthandazweni. Sithandazela nabo bavale iintliziyo zabo kuwe, abaye bashiya kuwe ngenxa yokuba ngoku baphilile, kodwa sithandazela nabo bazivalele iintliziyo zabo kuwe ngenxa yokuba bebandezelekile. Vula iintliziyo zethu kuthando lwakho ukuze kweli lizwe, ngonyana wakho uYesu Krestu, sibe ngamangqina othando lwakho. Amen.
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