Umthandazo ongummangaliso wokukhathazeka
Ngaba udinga ummangaliso wokukunceda woyise uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo? Imithandazo enamandla esebenza ukuphilisa kumkhwa wokukhathazeka kunye noxinzelelo oluyondlayo yimithandazo yokholo. Ukuba uthandaza ukholwa ukuba uThixo kunye neengelosi zakhe banokwenza imimangaliso kwaye babameme ukuba bayenze ebomini bakho, unokuphilisa.
Umzekelo wendlela yokuthandaza ukoyisa ixhala
“Thixo othandekayo, ndiziva ndixhalabile malunga nento eyenzekayo ebomini bam- nento endiyoyikayo inokwenzeka kum kwixesha elizayo-kangangokuba ndichitha ixesha elininzi namandla ndizikhathaza. Umzimba wam uphethwe zi [khankanya iimpawu ezinjengokungalali, intloko ebuhlungu, isisu esibuhlungu, ukuphefumla kancinci, ukubetha kwentliziyo okukhawulezayo, njl. Umoya wam une [ukukhankanya iimpawu ezinje ngokudimazeka, uloyiko, ukuthandabuza nokuphelelwa lithemba) andisafuni kuphila ngoluhlobo. Nceda uthumele ummangaliso endiwufunayo ukuze ndifumane uxolo emzimbeni, engqondweni nasemoyeni ondinike wona!
Utata wam owazi zonke izinto ezisezulwini, ndicela undinike ubulumko bokuzibona izinto ezibaxhalabisayo ngendlela efanelekileyo ukuze bangandoyisi. Rhoqo undikhumbuza ngenyaniso ukuba umkhulu kakhulu kunayo nayiphi na imeko endikhathazayo, ngoko ke ndinokunika naziphi na iimeko ebomini bam kunokuba ndizikhathaze ngayo. Nceda undinike ukholo endiludingayo ukuze ndiyikholelwe kwaye ndiyakuthembela ngayo nantoni na endikhathazayo.
Ukusukela namhlanje ukuya phambili, ndincede ndikhule umkhwa wokuguqula iingxaki zam zibe yimithandazo. Nanini na xa kukho into ethi qatha engqondweni yam, cela uMlondolozi wam ukuba andilumkise ngesidingo sokuthandazela loo ngcinga kunokuba ndikhathazeke. Okukhona ndiziqhelanisa nokuthandaza endaweni yokuba ndikhathazeke, kokukhona ndiya kuba noxolo ofuna ukundinika lona. Ndikhethe ukuyeka ukucinga okona kubi ngekamva lam kwaye ndiqale ukulindela okona kulungileyo kum, kuba usebenza ebomini bam ngothando lwakho olukhulu namandla akho.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba uza kundinceda ndisingathe nayiphi na imeko endikhathazayo. Ndincede ndikwazi ukwahlula phakathi kwento endinokuyilawula kunye naleyo ndingenakho ukuyenza- kwaye undincede ndithathe amanyathelo aluncedo kwinto endinokuyenza, kwaye uzithembe ukuphatha into endingenako Ngelixa uSt. Francis waseAssisi athandaze edume, "ndenze isixhobo soxolo lwakho" kubudlelwane bam nabanye abantu kuyo yonke imeko endidibana nayo.
Ndincede ndilungelelanise izinto endizilindeleyo ukuze ndingazicinezeli ngokungeyomfuneko ngokuzixakekisa ngezinto ongafuni ndizikhathaze ngazo - njengokuzama ukugqibelela, ukubonisa abanye ngomfanekiso ongabonakalisi ukuba ndingubani, okanye ndikhangela ntoni. ukwenza abanye babe yile nto ndingathanda ukuba bayenze okanye benze le nto ndingathanda ukuba bayenze. Njengokuba ndiyeka ulindelo olungeyonyani kwaye ndamkele indlela obuyiyo ubomi bam, uyakundinika inkululeko endiyifunayo yokuphumla ndikuthembe ngeendlela ezinzulu.
Thixo ndicela undincede ndifumane isisombululo kuyo yonke ingxaki yokwenyani endidibana nayo ndiyeke ukuzixakekisa ngo "What if? iingxaki ezingenakuze zenzeke kwikamva lam. Nceda undinike umbono wekamva loxolo lethemba kunye novuyo ondicwangcisele lona. Ndijonge phambili kwikamva, kuba livela kuwe, Bawo onothando. Enkosi! Amen. "