Ngaba ukuxhalaba sisono?

Into ekukhathazayo kukuba ayidingi ncedo lokungena kwiingcinga zethu. Akukho mntu kufuneka asifundise ukuba sikwenza njani. Naxa ubomi busemgangathweni, sinokusifumana isizathu sokukhathazeka. Kuza kwendalo kuthi njengomoya wethu olandelayo. Kodwa ithini iBhayibhile ngamaxhala? Ngaba ngokwenene kulihlazo? AmaKristu afanele azisingathe njani izinto ezoyikisayo eziphakamayo ezingqondweni zethu? Ngaba ukuxhalaba yinxalenye eqhelekileyo yobomi okanye sisono uThixo asifunayo?

Ixhala linendlela yokuzihlaziya

Ndikhumbula indlela owangenaxhala ngayo kolona suku luphakathi ebomini bam. Mna nomyeni wam sahlala iintsuku ezimbalwa ngexesha leveki yethu yenyani enye saya eJamaica. Sasisemncinci, eluthandweni nasezulwini. Kwakufezekile.

Sasimana ukuma echibini okwethutyana, emva koko siphose iitawuli zethu ngasemva kwethu kwaye sizulazule kwindawo yokutya kunye negrill apho singa-odola nantoni na iintliziyo zethu zifuna isidlo sasemini. Kwaye yintoni enye ebefanele ukuyenza emva kwesidlo sethu ngaphandle kokuya elwandle? Sahamba umendo oshushu onxweme olugudle isanti olugqunywe ziingcongolo, apho abasebenzi abanobubele balinda khona ukuze banelise yonke into esiyifunayo. Ngubani onokufumana isizathu sokubhadula kwiparadesi entle kangaka? Umyeni wam, ngubani lowo.

Ndiyakhumbula ndijonge kancinci ngala mini. Wayekude kwaye enqanyuliwe, ndiye ndambuza ukuba ikhona into engahambi kakuhle. Uthe kuba khange sikwazi ukufika kubazali bakhe kwangolo suku, wayenomsindo ocaphukisayo wokuba kwenzeke into embi kwaye wayengayazi. Khange alonwabele izulu elisijikelezileyo kuba intloko nentliziyo yakhe bezisongelwe kokungaziwayo.

Sithathe umzuzwana sayongena kwi-clubhouse kwaye sadubula abazali bakhe nge-imeyile ukumenza angoyiki. Kwaye ngaloo ngokuhlwa baphendulile, yonke into yayihamba kakuhle. Babephulukene nomnxeba. Ngaphakathi kwezulu, ixhala linendlela yokusa ezingqondweni zethu nasezintliziyweni zethu.

Ithini iBhayibhile ngexhala?

Inkxalabo yayiyeyona nto ibalulekileyo kwisihloko kwiTestamente eNdala neNtsha njengoko kunjalo nanamhlanje. Ukukhathazeka kwangaphakathi akuyona into entsha kwaye uxinzelelo aluyonto eyahlukileyo kwinkcubeko yanamhlanje. Ndiyathemba ukuba kuyomeleza ukwazi ukuba iBhayibhile inezinto ezininzi ezinokuzithetha ngexhala. Ukuba ubuva ubunzima oboyikisayo boyika kunye namathandabuzo, ngokuqinisekileyo awuwedwa kwaye awunakufikelela kuThixo.

Imizekeliso 12:25 isixelela inyani ukuba uninzi lwethu luye lwaphila: "Ixhala liyayithoba intliziyo." Amagama athi "bunzima" kule vesi akathethi nje ukusindwa, kodwa asindwe de anyanzelwe ukuba alale phantsi, angakwazi nokushukuma. Mhlawumbi nawe ukhe woyika kwaye ukhathazekile.

Ibhayibhile ikwasinika ithemba lendlela asebenza ngayo uThixo kwabo banenkathalo. INdumiso 94: 19 ithi, "Xa ixhala lentliziyo yam likhulu, intuthuzelo yakho iyawenza umphefumlo wam ube nemihlali." UThixo uzisa inkuthazo ethembisayo kwabo bathe gqolo ukukhathazeka kwaye iintliziyo zabo zenziwa zavuya kwakhona.

UYesu wathetha nangexhala entshumayelweni yasentabeni kuMateyu 6: 31-32, “Musani ke ukuxhala nisithi, 'Siza kudla ntoni na?' okanye "Siza kusela ntoni?" okanye "Siza kunxiba ntoni?" Kungenxa yokuba iiNtlanga zizikhangela zonke ezi zinto kwaye uYihlo oseZulwini uyazi ukuba uyazidinga zonke. "

U-Yesu uthi ungakhathazeki kwaye ke usinika isizathu esivakalayo sokukhathazeka kancinci: uYihlo osemazantsi uyazi into oyifunayo kwaye ukuba uyazazi iimfuno zakho, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kukukhathalela njengoko ekhathalela yonke indalo.

KwabaseFilipi 4: 6 ikwasinika indlela yokujongana nokukhathazeka xa kuvela. "Musani ukuxhalela nantoni na, kodwa kuyo yonke into nithandaza kuThixo ngomthandazo nesikhungo nombulelo."

IBhayibhile ikwenza kucace ukuba ukukhathazeka kuya kwenzeka, kodwa sinokukhetha indlela esimele sisabele ngayo. Singalungisa isiphithiphithi sangaphakathi esiziswa kukukhathazeka kwaye sikhethe ukuqhutywa kukubonakalisa iimfuno zethu kuThixo.

Kwaye ke ivesi elandelayo, kwabaseFilipi 4: 7 basixelela ukuba kuzakwenzeka ntoni emva kokuba senze izicelo zethu kuThixo. "Kwaye uxolo lukaThixo, olugqithisele kuko konke ukuqonda, luya kuzigcina iintliziyo neengqondo zenu kuKrestu Yesu."

Kubonakala ngathi ibhayibhile iyavuma ukuba ukukhathazeka yingxaki enzima, ngelixa kwangaxeshanye kusixelela ukuba singakhathazeki. Ngaba iBhayibhile iyasiyala ukuba singoyiki okanye sixhalabe? Kuthekani ukuba siziva sixhalabile? Ngaba saphula umthetho osuka eBhayibhileni? Ngaba oko kuthetha ukuba kulihlazo ukukhathazeka?

Ngaba kulihlazo ukukhathazeka?

Impendulo nguewe nohayi. Inkxalabo ikhona kwisikali. Kwelinye icala leleli, ngaba zimfutshane iingcinga "Ndilibele ukukhupha inkunkuma?" Kwaye "ndiza kusinda njani kusasa ukuba asinakho ikofu?" Amaxhala amancinci, amaxhala amancinci - andiboni sono apha. Kodwa kwelinye icala lesikali sibona iinkxalabo ezinkulu ezivela kumjikelo wokucinga onzulu kunye nobunzulu.

Kweli cala unokufumana uloyiko rhoqo lokuba ingozi ihlala ihleli kufutshane nekona. Unokufumana uloyiko lokutya lwazo zonke izinto ezingaziwayo ngekamva okanye nokucinga okungaphaya kokuhlala usoloko uphupha ngeendlela ubudlelwane bakho obunokuphela buyekiswa kwaye buchaswa.

Kwenye indawo kwileli, uloyiko kunye noxinzelelo lusuka komncinci uye kwisono. Luphi kanye kanye olo phawu? Ndiyakholelwa kulapho uloyiko luhamba khona njengeziko lentliziyo nengqondo yakho.

Ngokunyaniseka, kunzima nokuba ndibhale eso sivakalisi kuba ndiyazi ukuba ngokwam, iingxaki zam ziba yinto yam yemihla ngemihla, ngeyure, nditsho ndigxininise kwimihla ethile. Ndizamile ukufumana indlela ejikeleze inkxalabo, ndizame ukuyithethelela ngayo yonke indlela enokwenzeka. Kodwa andikwazi. Kuyinyani ukuba ixhala linokuba sisono ngokulula.

Sazi njani ukuba kulihlazo ukukhathazeka?

Ndiyaqonda ukuba ukubiza ezona mvakalelo zixhaphakileyo abantu abaziva njengezono zithwala ubunzima obukhulu. Ke, masiyiqhekeze kancinci. Sazi njani ukuba ukukhathazeka sisono? Kufuneka siqale sichaze ukuba yintoni eyenza into ibe nesono. Kwimibhalo yesiHebhere nesiGrike santlandlolo, igama elithi isono alizange lisetyenziswe ngokuthe ngqo. Endaweni yoko, kukho amagama angamashumi amahlanu achaza imiba emininzi yeenguqulelo zeBhayibhile zanamhlanje ezibiza isono.

IThe Gospel Dictionary of Biblical Theology yenza umsebenzi omangalisayo wokushwankathela onke amagama okuqala esono kule nkcazo: “IBhayibhile isichaza ngokubanzi isono. Kukuncitshiswa komthetho, ukungathobeli, ukuthanda uThixo, inkolelo, ukungathembeki, ubumnyama ngokuchasene nokukhanya, uwexuko ngokuchasene neenyawo ezizinzileyo, ubuthathaka hayi amandla. Ubulungisa, ukholo oluyintloko ”.

Ukuba sibambe inkxalabo yethu kolu khanyo kwaye siqale ukuzivavanya, kuyacaca ukuba uloyiko lunokuba nesono. Ngaba uyayibona?

Bazakucinga ntoni xa ndingayi nabo kumovie? Kuthe nje ze. Ndomelele, ndiza kuphila.

Inkxalabo enokusithintela ekuthobeleni ngokulandela uThixo nelizwi lakhe sisono.

Ndiyazi ukuba uThixo uthi uyakuqhubeka nokusebenza ebomini bam ade awugqibe umsebenzi olungileyo awawuqalayo (KwabaseFiliphi 1: 6) kodwa ndenze iimpazamo ezininzi. Angathini ukuyicombulula lento?

Inkxalabo esikhokelela ekubeni singakholelwa kuThixo kwaye ilizwi lakhe sisono.

Akukho themba le meko imbi ebomini bam. Ndizamile yonke into ingxaki zam zisahleli. Andiqondi ukuba izinto zinokutshintsha.

Ixhala elikhokelela ekungathembeni kuThixo sisono.

Amaxhala yinto exhaphakileyo ezingqondweni zethu kangangokuba kunokuba nzima ukwazi ukuba abakho nini na kwaye basuka nini ekucingeni okungenacala ukuya esonweni. Vumela le nkcazo ingasentla yesono ibe luluhlu lwakho lokukhangela. Yeyiphi inkxalabo esele iphambili kwingqondo yakho? Ngaba ibangela ukungathembi, ukungakholelwa, ukungathobeli, ukuphela, ukungabi nabulungisa, okanye ukuswela ukholo kuwe? Ukuba kunjalo, amathuba okuba inkxalabo yakho ibe sisono kwaye ifuna ukudibana ubuso ngobuso noMsindisi. Siza kuthetha ngayo ngomzuzwana, kodwa kukho ithemba elikhulu xa uloyiko lwakho luhlangana nokujonga kukaYesu!

Inkxalabo vs. ixhala

Ngamanye amaxesha ukuxhalaba kuba ngaphezu kweengcinga kunye neemvakalelo. Inokuqala ukulawula zonke iinkalo zobomi emzimbeni, engqondweni nangokweemvakalelo. Xa uxinzelelo luba yinto engapheliyo kwaye luyilawula lunokuhlelwa njengexhala. Abanye abantu baneengxaki zokuxhalaba abafuna unyango ngabaqeqeshi bezonyango abaqeqeshiweyo. Kwaba bantu, ukuziva ukuba ukukhathazeka sisono ngekhe kungancedi kwaphela. Indlela eya ekukhululekeni koxinzelelo xa ufunyaniswe unengxaki yoxinzelelo inokubandakanya amayeza, unyango, iindlela zokulwa, kunye nezinye iindlela zonyango ezimiselwe ngugqirha.

Nangona kunjalo, inyaniso yebhayibhile ikwadlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuncedeni umntu ukuba oyise ingxaki yoxinzelelo. Sisiqwenga sephazili esiya kunceda ukuzisa ukucaca, ucwangco kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke imfesane kumphefumlo owenzakeleyo osokolayo yonke imihla kukukhathazeka.

Ukuyeka njani ukuba nexhala malunga nesono?

Ukukhulula ingqondo nentliziyo yakho kwixhala lesono ngekhe kwenzeke ngokukhawuleza. Ukushiya uloyiko kulongamo lukaThixo asiyonto yanto. Incoko eqhubekayo noThixo ngomthandazo nangelizwi lakhe. Kwaye incoko iqala ngokuzimisela ukuvuma ukuba kwezinye iindawo, uvumele uloyiko lwakho lwangaphambili, lwangoku, okanye lwexesha elizayo ukuba loyise ukuthembeka nokuthobela uThixo.

INdumiso 139: 23-24 ithi: “Ndifune, Thixo, uyazi intliziyo yam; ndicikide, uzazi iingcinga-ngcinga zam. Yalatha nantoni na ekucaphukisayo kwaye undikhokele kwindlela yobomi obungunaphakade. Ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayiqala njani indlela eya enkululekweni kwixhala, qala ngokuthandaza la magama. Cela uThixo ukuba akhangele kuyo yonke i-nook kunye ne-cranny yentliziyo yakho kwaye umnike imvume yokuzisa iingcinga ezinemvukelo zokukhathazeka kwindlela yakhe yobomi.

Kwaye qhubeka uthetha. Sukurhuqa uloyiko lwakho phantsi kwetyali kwilinge lokuzifihla. Endaweni yokuba ubatsalele ekukhanyeni kwaye wenze kanye le nto amaFilipi 4: 6 ekuxelela yona, yenza izicelo zakho zaziwe nguThixo ukuze uxolo (hayi ubulumko bakho) lukhusele intliziyo nengqondo yakho. Kubekho amaxesha amaninzi apho amaxhala entliziyo yam emaninzi kangangokuba ekuphela kwendlela endazi ngayo ukufumana isiqabu kukudwelisa nganye nganye kwaye ndithandaze uluhlu ngalunye.

Kwaye mandikushiye wedwa ngale ngcinga yokugqibela: UYesu unemfesane enkulu ngoxinzelelo lwakho, ixhala lakho kunye noloyiko lwakho. Akanaso isikali ezandleni zakhe esinobunzima kwelinye icala amaxesha omthembileyo kwaye kwelinye icala amaxesha okhethe ukumthemba. Wayesazi ukuba uza kukhathazeka. Wayeyazi ukuba uyakwenza ukuba umone. Wasithathela kuye isono kwaba kanye. Ukukhathazeka kunokuqhubeka kodwa umbingelelo wakhe wawugubungela konke (Hebhere 9:26).

Ke ngoko, sinokufikelela kulo lonke uncedo esiludingayo kuzo zonke iinkxalabo ezivela. UThixo uya kuqhubeka nale ncoko nathi malunga neenkxalabo zethu kude kube ngumhla wokufa kwethu. Ndiza kuxolela ngalo lonke ixesha! Ukukhathazeka kunokuqhubeka, kodwa uxolelo lukaThixo lukhona ngakumbi.