Ubudlelwane obude, indlela yokubaphatha?
Baninzi abantu abahlala apho namhlanje ubudlelwane a distanza kunye neqabane lakho. Ngeli xesha ke kunzima kakhulu ukuzilawula, ngelishwa ubhubhane unayo iphindaphindwe imigama nokuzehlukanisa ngenxa izithintelo yokufuduka. Ukuphila ubudlelwane obukude kunzima, kodwa akunakwenzeka.
Kuyacaca ukuba ubudlelwane bemigama emide kunzima ukukhulisa kuba ayisoloko ipinki kunye neentyatyambo kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufanele kubekelwe bucala. Olu hlobo lobudlelwane lufuna inkuthazo kubuchule besibini bokusebenza kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Omnye wemigaqo esisiseko apho ubudlelwane bemigama emide busekwe khona fiducia. Ukungabikho koku, sizifumana sinomona, sikrokrela rhoqo. Kukho i ikhalori, ukubonakaliswa kothando. Ukuba awuthethi kwanokwanga kwithenda, zincinci kakhulu iintsalela zobudlelwane.
Elinye icandelo ngumbono wenye umbono oqhelekileyo, enyanisweni, emva kwethutyana, ubudlelwane buhlala buziqinisa ngombono wokwakha into kunye. Okwangoku kufuneka uqonde ukuba ngaba amaqabane amabini abona imbono efanayo ngokuhlala ngokwahlukana. Kwaye kukho ubunzima eyonyusa ukuqonda. Imele isiqhamo sokuqonda esikhule ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ubunzima bondliwa ziimpawu ezintle njengokunyaniseka, ukuzithemba, ukusondelelana.
Ubudlelwane obude: ukuzifumana uthandaza
Vumela uThixo angene kubudlelwane bakho kuba usisiseko sokwakha ubuhlobo bakho. Yenza idinga Engabonakaliyo yonke imihla kwi preghiera. Nokuba niyabonana okanye anibonani, nokuba nikufutshane okanye nikude, nindawonye kwisandla sikaThixo, intliziyo kaKristu yeyona ndlela imfutshane ukusuka entliziyweni enye ukuya phezulu. U-LUMthendeleko yindawo apho uluntu olutshatileyo luhlaziywa khona, lucocwe kwaye lomelezwe. UThixo wethu nguThixo olungileyo obesoloko esazi, okwaziyo ukulunga kwethu. Uthetha neentliziyo zethu, masimamele. Kodwa uthetha nangesakramente nangelizwi likaThixo.Uhambo lwethu silusekela kwilizwi.
Imvakalelo ngamaxesha anzima bazakuqala bethandaza kwaye uloyiko luthathe indawo. Kuphela iparola kaThixo uya kuhlala emile ukuze asikhokele njengendlu yesibane ebusuku. Masikhumbule ukuba uthando yakhiwe kwisiseko esomeleleyo iya komeleza kwaye ilungiselele bobabini kwimiceli mngeni engaphezulu.