Cinga malunga nomntu onokufuna ukubuyisana naye namhlanje
Ukuba umzalwana wakho uthe wakona, yiya umohlulele kuye ninodwa. Ukuba uyakuphulaphula, uphumelele umzalwana wakho. Ke ukuba uthe akeva buya nawe abe mnye nokuba babini, ukuze yonke into iqondwe ngamangqina amabini, nokuba ngamathathu. Ukuba akawaphulaphuli, yixelele iBandla. Ukuba uyala ukumamela iCawe, mphathe ngendlela obuya kumphatha ngayo umntu weentlanga okanye umqokeleli werhafu ”. UMateyu 18: 15-17
Nantsi indlela ecacileyo yokusombulula iingxaki esizinikwe nguYesu Okokuqala, inyani yokuba u Yesu unikeza indlela esisiseko yokusombulula iingxaki ityhila ukuba ubomi buza kusibonisa iingxaki zokusombulula. Oku akumele kusimangalise okanye kusothuse. Bubomi nje.
Rhoqo, xa umntu esona kuthi okanye ehlala ngendlela enesidlangalaleni, singena ekugwetyweni nasekugwetyweni. Ngenxa yoko, sinokuzicima ngokulula. Ukuba oku kwenziwe, luphawu lokusilela kwenceba nokuthobeka kuthi. Inceba nokuthobeka kuya kusikhokelela ekulangazeleleni uxolelo noxolelwaniso. Inceba nokuthobeka kuya kusinceda sibone izono zabanye njengamathuba othando olukhulu kunokuba zizizathu zokugwetywa.
Uthetha njani nabantu abonileyo, ngakumbi xa isono sichasene nawe? UYesu uyibeka icace into yokuba ukuba wonile kuwe kufuneka wenze konke ukuzuza umoni. Kuya kufuneka uchithe amandla amaninzi ubathanda kwaye usenza konke okusemandleni ukubadibanisa kwaye ubabuyisele enyanisweni.
Kuya kufuneka uqale ngengxoxo yomntu nomnye. Ukusuka apho, thetha nabanye abantu abathembekileyo kwincoko. Injongo ephambili yinyaniso kwaye yenza konke okusemandleni ukuvumela inyaniso ibuyisele ubudlelwane bakho. Kuphela kusemva kokuzama yonke into oya kuthi emva koko usule uthuli ezinyaweni zakho kwaye ubaphathe njengaboni ukuba abaqinisekiswanga enyanisweni. Kodwa oku kukwayisenzo sothando njengoko kuyindlela yokubanceda babone iziphumo zesono sabo.
Cinga malunga nokuba ngubani onokufuna ukuxolelana naye namhlanje. Mhlawumbi awukabinayo incoko yobuqu yokuqala efunekayo njengenyathelo lokuqala. Mhlawumbi woyika ukuyiqala okanye sele ucimile. Thandazela ubabalo, inceba, uthando kunye nokuthobeka ukuze ukwazi ukufikelela kwabo bakukhathaza ngendlela uYesu afuna ngayo.
Nkosi, ndincede ndiyeke ikratshi elinokundithintela ekubeni nenceba nasekufuneni uxolelwaniso. Ndincede ndixolelane xa isono esichasene nam sincinci okanye sikhulu. Yanga imfesane yentliziyo yakho ingagcwalisa eyam ukuze uxolo lubuyiselwe. UYesu ndiyakholelwa kuwe.