Cinga namhlanje kulo naluphi na ulwalamano onalo olufuna ukunyangwa noxolelwaniso
Ukuba ke umzalwana wakho uthe wakona, yiya umohlwaye inguwe naye ninedwa; Ukuba uyakuphulaphula, uphumelele umzalwana wakho. "UMateyu 18:15
Esi sicatshulwa singasentla sinika inyathelo lokuqala kwamanqanaba amathathu uYesu awanikezelayo ukuxolelanisa nomntu owonileyo. Iindima ezenziwa nguYesu zezi zilandelayo: 1) Thetha ngasese kuloo mntu. 2) Zisa ezimbini okanye ezintathu ngaphezulu ukunceda kule meko. 3) Yizise eCaweni. Ukuba emva kokuzama omathathu la manyathelo awukwazi ukuxolelanisa, u Yesu uthi, "... mphathe njengowezizwe okanye umqokeleli werhafu."
Inqaku lokuqala nelona libalulekileyo ekufuneka likhankanyiwe kule nkqubo yoxolelwaniso kukuba masithule ngesono somnye, phakathi kwabo nathi, de sizame ngokunyanisekileyo ukuxolelana. Kunzima ukuyenza le! Amaxesha amaninzi, xa umntu esona, isilingo sokuqala esinaso kukuya phambili sixelele abanye ngako. Oku kunokwenziwa ngenxa yeentlungu, umsindo, umnqweno wokuziphindezela, okanye izinto ezinje. Ke isifundo sokuqala ekufuneka sisifundile kukuba izono umntu azenza kuthi azizizo iinkcukacha esinelungelo lokuzixela kwabanye, ubuncinci ekuqaleni.
Amanyathelo alandelayo abalulekileyo anikezelwa nguYesu abandakanya abanye kunye neCawa. Kodwa hayi ukuze sibonise umsindo wethu, ukuhleba okanye ukugxeka okanye ukubazisa ihlazo eluntwini. Endaweni yokuba amanyathelo okubandakanya abanye enziwe ngendlela enceda omnye ukuba aguquke, ukuze umntu owonileyo abone ubunzulu besono. Oku kufuna ukuba sithobeke. Ifuna ukuzama ngokuzithoba ukubanceda bangaboni nje iimpazamo zabo kodwa batshintshe nabo.
Inyathelo lokugqibela, ukuba abatshintshi, kukubaphatha njengentlanga okanye umqokeleli werhafu. Kodwa oku kufuneka kuqondwe ngokuchanekileyo. Siphatha njani umntu weentlanga okanye umqokeleli werhafu? Sibaphatha ngomnqweno wokuqhubeka nokuguquka kwabo. Sibaphatha ngentlonipho eqhubekayo, ngelixa sivuma ukuba asikho "kwiphepha elinye".
Cinga namhlanje kulo naluphi na ulwalamano onalo olufuna ukunyangwa noxolelwaniso. Zama ukulandela le nkqubo ithobekileyo enikezwe yiNkosi yethu kwaye uhlale unethemba lokuba ubabalo lukaThixo luza koyisa.
Nkosi, ndinike intliziyo ethobekileyo nenenceba, ukuze ndixolelane nabo bonileyo kum. Ndiyabaxolela, Nkosi yam, njengokuba nawe undixolele. Ndinike ubabalo lokufuna uxolelwaniso ngokwentando yakho egqibeleleyo. UYesu ndiyakholelwa kuwe.