Cinga namhlanje ukubagweba kangaphi abanye
“Musani ukugweba, nani aniyi kugwetywa. Yeka ukugweba, nawe awuyi kugwetywa. "ULuka 6:37
Wakhe wadibana nomntu okokuqala kwaye ungakhange uthethe nalo mntu ngequbuliso wafikelela kwisigqibo sento oyicingayo ngaye? Mhlawumbi kungenxa yokuba babebonakala ngathi bakude kancinci, okanye babeswele intetho, okanye babonakala bephazamisekile. Ukuba sinyanisekile kwiziqu zethu, kufuneka sivume ukuba kulula kakhulu ukubagweba kwangoko abanye. Kulula ukucinga kwangoko ukuba ngenxa yokuba kubonakala ngathi kukude okanye kukude, okanye ukusilela ukubonakalisa ubushushu, okanye ukuphazamiseka, kufuneka babenengxaki.
Yintoni enzima ukuyenza kukumisa ngokupheleleyo ukugweba abanye. Kunzima ukubanika isibonelelo sokuthandabuza ngokukhawuleza kwaye bacinge okona kulungileyo.
Kwelinye icala, sinokudibana nabantu abalingisi ababalaseleyo. Zigudile kwaye zinembeko; basijonga emehlweni bancuma, basixhawula kwaye basiphatha ngobubele. Ungahamba ucinga, "Wow, loo mntu unakho konke kunye!"
Ingxaki kuzo zombini ezi ndlela kukuba ayisiyiyo indawo yethu yokwenza isigwebo sokulungileyo okanye esibi kwasekuqaleni. Mhlawumbi abo benza umbono olungileyo balungile "bezopolitiko" kwaye bayayazi indlela yokuvula umtsalane. Kodwa umtsalane unokukhohlisa.
Isitshixo apha, kumazwi kaYesu, kukuba kufuneka sizame ukungagwebi ngandlela zonke. Asiyondawo yethu le. UThixo ngumgwebi wokulungileyo nokubi. Ewe kufuneka sijonge kwizenzo ezilungileyo kwaye sibe nombulelo xa sizibona kwaye sikwanikeze isiqinisekiso ngokulunga esikubonayo. Kwaye, ewe, kufuneka siqaphele ukungaziphathi kakuhle, sinike ukulungiswa njengoko kufuneka, kwaye sikwenze ngothando. Kodwa ukugweba izenzo kwahluke kakhulu ekugwebeni umntu. Akufuneki sigwebe umntu, kwaye asifuni ukugwetywa okanye ukugwetywa ngabanye. Asifuni ukuba abanye bacinge ukuba bayazazi iintliziyo zethu kunye neenjongo zethu.
Mhlawumbi isifundo esibalulekileyo esinokusifumana kule ngxelo kaYesu kukuba ihlabathi lifuna abantu abaninzi abangagwebi nabangagwebi. Sifuna abantu abaninzi abanokuba ngabahlobo bokwenene kwaye bathande ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kwaye uThixo ufuna ukuba ube ngomnye wabo bantu.
Cinga namhlanje ngokubagweba kangaphi abanye abantu kwaye ubonakalise ukuba ulunge kangakanani na ekunikezeleni ngohlobo lobuhlobo olufunwa ngabanye. Ekugqibeleni, ukuba unika olu hlobo lobuhlobo, uya kusikelelwa nabanye abanikezela ngolu hlobo lobuhlobo kwangoko! Ngaloo nto niyakusikelelwa nobabini!
Nkosi, ndinike intliziyo engagwebi. Ndincede ndithande umntu ngamnye endidibana naye ngothando olungcwele kunye nokwamkelwa. Ndincede ndibe nothando endilifunayo ukuze ndilungise ukungalunganga kwabo ngobubele nangokuqina, kodwa ndibuye ndibone ngaphaya komphezulu kwaye ndibone umntu omdalileyo. Emva koko, ndinike uthando lokwenyani kunye nobuhlobo kwabanye ukuze ndibathembe kwaye ndonwabele uthando onqwenela ukuba ndibenalo. UYesu ndiyakholelwa kuwe.