Cinga namhlanje ngemfihlakalo yabantu obizwe ukuba ubathande
“Anizange nifunde ukuba kwasekuqaleni uMdali wabadala bayindoda nenkazana waza wathi: Ngenxa yesi sizathu indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina ize inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye? Ngako oko abasebabini, kodwa banyama-nye. UMateyu 19: 4-6a
Yintoni umtshato? Amadoda nabasetyhini abaselula baziva betsala omnye komnye. Yindalo yomntu ukufumana oku. Ewe, ngamanye amaxesha olu "loyilo" luba mbumbulu luze lujike lube yinkanuko, kodwa kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba olu loyilo lwendalo lolo ... ndalo "Kwasekuqalekeni uMdali wabadala bayindoda nenkazana ..." Ke ngoko, kwasekuqalekeni, uThixo wayethetha ubunye obungcwele bomtshato.
Umtshato uyimfihlakalo ngokwenene. Ewe, amadoda angacinga ukuba abafazi bawo "bayimfihlakalo" kwaye abafazi banokucinga ngokufanayo nangabayeni babo, kodwa enyanisweni umntu ngamnye uyimfihlakalo engcwele kwaye umanyano lwabantu ababini emtshatweni luyimfihlakalo enkulu ngakumbi.
Njengemfihlakalo, iqabane kunye nomtshato ngokwawo kufuneka ugqitywe ngokungafihlisi nangokuthobeka othi, "Ndifuna ukukwazi ngakumbi yonke imihla." Abalingane abaya emtshatweni wabo ngokuhanahanisa baya kuhlala bejongelana kwelinye kwaye baya kuhlala besilela ukuhlonipha imfihlelo engcwele yenye.
Wonke umntu omaziyo, ngakumbi iqabane lakho, liyimfihlelo entle nezukileyo yendalo kaThixo ongabizelwanga ukuba uyisombulule kodwa ubizelwe ukuhlangana nayo kwinqanaba elinzulu yonke imihla. Kufuneka kusoloko kukho intobeko evumela amaqabane ukuba avule yonke imihla ngendlela entsha, ukuze baqhubeke befumana ubunzulu obungaphezulu bobuhle kwenye. Yiyo le ntobeko kunye nentlonipho omnye komnye emtshatweni evumela ukuba abalingane bazalisekise injongo yabo efanayo yokuba banye. Cinga ngako, "abasebabini, kodwa banyama-nye". Bambalwa kakhulu abaqonda ngokwenyani ukuba oku kuthetha ntoni kwaye bambalwa amava afumana ubunzulu obumangalisayo bolubizo luzukileyo noluphakamileyo lomtshato.
Cinga namhlanje ngemfihlakalo yabantu obizelwe ukubathanda, ngakumbi ukuba utshatile. Ukubiza omnye "ngemfihlakalo" kungakhokelela kuncumo njengoko usazi ukuba awukwazi ukuyiqonda. Kodwa ukwamkela ngokuthobekileyo intsingiselo entle "yemfihlakalo" kuya kukukhokelela ekuboneni ukwahluka kwabanye kwaye kuya kukunceda ukuba wamkele ubizo lomanyano lwabantu, ngakumbi emtshatweni.
Nkosi ndincede ndibubone ubuhle kunye nemfihlakalo engcwele yabantu obazisileyo ebomini bam. Ndincede ndibathande ngothando oluthobekileyo. Ndinga ndingalwenza nzulu uthando lwam kwiqabane lam mihla le. Yesu ndiyakholelwa kuwe.