Ukuba uqhawule umtshato kwaye uphinde watshata, ngaba uhlala ukrexeza?
Uqhawulo mtshato lweBhayibhile kunye nokutshata kwakhona kuchaza iimeko apho isibini sinokuwuphelisa umtshato ngokuqhawula umtshato. Isifundo sicacisa ukuba yintoni uThixo ayithathela ingqalelo uqhawulo-mtshato oluseBhayibhileni. Uqhawulo mtshato webhayibhile unelungelo lokuphinda utshate nentsikelelo kaThixo. Ngamafutshane, uqhawulo-mtshato eBhayibhileni luqhawulo-mtshato olwenzeka ngenxa yokuba umlingane owonileyo enze isono sesondo nomntu ongeloqabane lakhe (isini, ubufanasini, isini esahlukileyo, okanye umbulo) okanye ngenxa yokuba iqabane elingenguye umKristu lifumene uqhawulo-mtshato. Nabani na oqhawula umtshato ngokweBhayibhile unelungelo lokuphinda atshate nentsikelelo kaThixo.Naluphi na olunye uqhawulo-mtshato okanye ukuphinda utshate awunazo iintsikelelo zikaThixo kwaye sisono.
Ungakrexeza njani
UMateyu 5: 32 ubhala ingxelo yokuqala ngoqhawulo-mtshato nokukrexeza awazenzayo uYesu kwiincwadi zevangeli.
. . . Ke mna ndithi kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe ngaphandle kokuziphatha kakubi, umenza ukuba akrexeze; nothe wazeka owaliweyo, uyakrexeza. (NASB) UMateyu 5:32
Eyona ndlela ilula yokuqonda intsingiselo yale ndawo kukususa ibinzana eliphambili "ngaphandle kwesizathu sokungabi nyulu". Nantsi le ndinyana inye kunye nesivakalisi esisusiweyo.
. . . Ndithi ke kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe. . . umenza ukuba akrexeze; nothe wazeka owaliweyo, uyakrexeza. (NASB) KuMateyu 5:32 kuhlelwe
Amagama esiGrike athi "uyakrexeza" kwaye "uyakrexeza" avela kwiingcambu amagama moicheuo kunye gameo. Igama lokuqala, elithi moicheuo, likwixesha lesixando sokwenziwa, okuthetha ukuba isenzo soqhawulo-mtshato senzekile kwaye u-Yesu uthatha ukuba umfazi uphinde watshata. Ngenxa yoko, umfazi wangaphambili kunye nendoda emtshatayo iyakrexeza. Olunye ulwazi lubonelelwe kuMateyu 19: 9; UMarko 10: 11-12 kunye noLuka 16:18. KuMarko 10: 11-12, uYesu usebenzisa umzekeliso womfazi oqhawula umtshato nendoda yakhe.
Ndithi ke kuni, Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, kungengaluhenyuzo, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza; UMateyu 19: 9 (NASB)
Wathi kubo: “Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza kulowa. Nokuba umfazi uthe wayala indoda yakhe, wendela kwenye, uyakrexeza. UMarko 10: 11-12 (NASB)
Othe wamala umfazi wakhe, wazeka omnye, uyakrexeza; nalowo uzeka owaliweyo uyakrexeza. ULuka 16:18 (NASB)
Ukwenza umntu akrexeze
Igama lesibini, i-gameo, likwixesha le-aorist elithetha ukuba lo mfazi wakrexeza ngaxa lithile xa wayetshata nenye indoda. Qaphela ukuba naliphi na iqabane eliqhawule umtshato elitshate kwakhona liyakrexeza kwaye lenze ukuba iqabane elitsha likrexeze, ngaphandle kokuba uqhawulo-mtshato "lwalungenazintloni." Ukungabi nazintloni kukwaguqulelwa njengokuziphatha kakubi okanye i-porneia.
Ezi zicatshulwa zityhila ukuba indoda okanye umfazi ongatshati kwakhona akanatyala lokukrexeza. Ukuba omnye wabantu abatshatileyo utshatile, bayakrexeza okanye bakrexeze ngokwabaseRoma 7: 3.
Ngoko ke, ukuba uthe waba kuyimbi indoda, yakubon 'ukuba indoda yakhe isadla ubomi, kothiwa ungumkrexezikazi. ke ukuba indoda yakhe ithe yafa, ukhululekile kuwo umthetho, ukuba angabi mkrexezikazi, ethe waba kuyimbi indoda. KwabaseRoma 7: 3 (NASB)
Kutheni kusithiwa ungumkrexezi okanye kuthiwa ngumkrexezikazi? Impendulo kukuba benze isono sokukrexeza.
Ndingenza ntoni? Ndikrexezile
Ukukrexeza kunokuxolelwa, kodwa ayitshintshi into yokuba yayisisono. Ibala ngamanye amaxesha linxulunyaniswa namagama "ukukrexeza", "ukukrexeza" kunye "nokukrexeza". Kodwa oku akuyiyo iBhayibhile. UThixo khange asicele ukuba sizibandakanye kwizono zethu emva kokuba sivumile izono zethu kuye saza samkela uxolelo lwaKhe. AmaRoma 3: 23 isikhumbuza ukuba wonke umntu wonile.
. . . kuba bonke bonile, basilela eluzukweni lukaThixo. . KwabaseRoma 3:23 (NASB)
Zonke izono kwaye abaninzi bakrexezile! Umpostile uPawulos wakhathaza, waphatha kakubi, kwaye wagrogrisa amaKristu amaninzi (IZenzo 8: 3; 9: 1, 4) Kweyoku-1 kuTimoti 1:15 UPawulos wazibiza ngokuba ungowokuqala (iiprotos) zaboni. Nangona kunjalo, kwabaseFilipi 3: 13 wathi akayikhathaleli eyadlulayo kwaye waya phambili ekukhonzeni uKristu.
Bazalwana, andizigqali njengosele eyibambile okwangoku; Inye into endiyenzayo: ndilibale ngasemva kwaye ndifikelele koko kungaphambili, ndizityhala ndiye emvuzweni wokufumana umvuzo wobizo lukaThixo phezulu kuKristu Yesu.Filipi 3: 13-14 (NASB)
Oku kuthetha ukuba xa sizivuma izono zethu (1 Yohane 1: 9), sixolelwe. Emva koko uPawulos usibongoza ukuba silibale kwaye siqhubeke sibulela uThixo ngokusixolela.
Ndikrexezile. Ngaba ndifanele ndiyirhoxise?
Ezinye izibini eziye zakrexeza ngokutshata xa bekungafanelekanga ukuba ziye zacinga ukuba kuya kufuneka ziwuqhawule umtshato ukuze zikwazi ukukrexeza. Impendulo nguhayi, kuba oko kungakhokelela kwesinye isono. Ukwenza esinye isono akusilungisi isono esedlule. Ukuba esi sibini sithembekile, kwaye sinyanisekile ngokusuka emazantsi eentliziyo zaso sisivumile isono sokukrexeza, sixolelwe. UThixo umlibele (Iindumiso 103: 12; uIsaya 38: 17; uYeremiya 31: 34; Mika 7: 19). Asimele silibale ukuba uThixo uluthiyile uqhawulo-mtshato (Malaki 2:14).
Abanye abantu abatshatileyo bayazibuza ukuba bayawuqhawula umtshato amaqabane abo kwaye babuyele kwiqabane labo langaphambili. Impendulo iphinda ithi "hayi" kuba uqhawulo-mtshato sisono, ngaphandle kokuba iqabane lakho ngoku liye labelana ngesondo nomnye umntu. Ngapha koko, ukutshata kwakhona kweqabane langaphambili akunakwenzeka ngenxa yeDuteronomi 24: 1-4.
Umntu uyasivuma isono sakhe kuThixo xa esichaza isono kwaye avume ukuba wonile. Ngolwazi oluthe kratya, funda inqaku elithi "Ungasixolela Njani Isono Sokukrexeza? Ngaba isono ngonaphakade? ”Ukuqonda ukuba ukrexezo luthatha ixesha elingakanani, funda:" Leliphi igama lesiGrike elithi 'uyakrexeza' kuMateyu 19: 9? "
Isiphelo:
Uqhawulo-mtshato lwalungekho kwicebo lantlandlolo likaThixo, uluvumela kuphela ngenxa yokuqaqadeka kweentliziyo zethu (Mateyu 19: 8-9). Iziphumo zesi sono zifana naso nasiphi na esinye isono; kusoloko kukho iziphumo ezingaphephekiyo. Kodwa ungalibali ukuba uThixo uyasixolela esi sono xa sivunywa. Waxolela uKumkani uDavide owabulala umyeni womfazi awakrexeza naye. Akukho sono uThixo angasixoleliyo, ngaphandle kwesono esingaxolelekiyo. UThixo akasixoleli isono xa ukuvuma kwethu kunganyanisekanga kwaye singaguquki ngokwenene. Inguquko ithetha ukuba sizimisele ukungaze siphinde isono.