Iimpawu kunye nemiyalezo evela kwizilwanyana kubomi basemva kokufa
Ngaba izilwanyana kubomi basemva kokufa, njengezilwanyana zasekhaya, zithumela imiqondiso kunye nemiyalezo kubantu abavela ezulwini? Ngamanye amaxesha bayakwenza, kodwa unxibelelwano lwezilwanyana emva kokufa kwahlukile kwindlela imiphefumlo yabantu enxibelelana ngayo emva kokufa kwabo. Ukuba isilwanyana osithandayo besifile kwaye ufuna umqondiso kuso, nantsi indlela onokuziva ngayo xa uThixo esenza ukuba isilwanyana sakho sinxibelelane nawe.
Isipho kodwa hayi isiqinisekiso
Njengokuba unqwenela ukuva isilwanyana osithandayo esifileyo, awungekhe ukwenze kwenzeke ukuba ayikokuthanda kukaThixo.Ukuzama ukunyanzela unxibelelwano kubomi basemva kokufa - okanye ukusebenza ngaphandle kobudlelwane bokuthembela noThixo - kuyingozi kwaye kungavula. Iindawo zonxibelelwano kwiingelosi eziwileyo ezineenjongo ezimbi ezinokuthatha ithuba lentlungu yakho ukukukhohlisa.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokuqala kukuthandaza; ucela uThixo ukuba athumele umyalezo wakho kwisilwanyana esifileyo esibonisa umnqweno wakho wokufumana uhlobo oluthile lomqondiso okanye ukufumana uhlobo oluthile lomyalezo osuka kweso silwanyana. Veza uthando lwakho ngentliziyo iphela xa uthandaza, njengoko uthando lungcangcazelisa amandla ombane anokuthumela imiqondiso evela emphefumlweni wakho ukuya kumphefumlo wesilwanyana ngapha kwemilinganiselo phakathi koMhlaba nesibhakabhaka.
Nje ukuba uthandaze, vula ingqondo yakho kunye nentliziyo yakho ukuba ufumane naluphi na unxibelelwano olunokuza. Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ubeke ithemba lakho kuThixo ukuze alungelelanise nonxibelelwano ngamaxesha afanelekileyo nangeendlela ezifanelekileyo. Yiba seluxolweni ukuba uThixo, okuthandayo, uya kukwenza ukuba kuyintando yakhe.
UMargrit Coates, kwincwadi yakhe Ukunxibelelana nezilwanyana: indlela yokungena ngaphakathi, ngokubhala ubhala:
“Abathunywa bezilwanyana bahamba besiya kubungakanani bexesha kunye nendawo ukuze babe nathi. Asinakulawula kule nkqubo kwaye asinakuyenza ukuba yenzeke, kodwa xa intlanganiso iqhubeka, simenyiwe ukuba sonwabele umzuzwana ngamnye wayo. "
Khuthazeka ukuba kukho ithuba elifanelekileyo lokuba uve into kwisilwanyana osithandayo. Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Zonke Iziloba Ziya Ezulwini: Ubomi Bokomoya Bezilwanyana Esizithandayo, uSylvia Browne ubhala:
“Njengabo sibathandayo abasibukeleyo basityelele amaxesha ngamaxesha, kunjalo ke nezilwanyana zethu ezithandekayo. Ndifumene amabali amaninzi avela ebantwini malunga nezilwanyana ezibuyeleyo ndityelele. "
Iindlela zokwamkela unxibelelwano
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokungena kulo naluphi na uphawu kunye nomyalezo ovela ezulwini kukukhulisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo noThixo kunye nabathunywa bakhe, iingelosi, ngokuthandaza rhoqo nangokucamngca. Njengoko usenza unxibelelwano lokomoya, amandla akho okuqonda imiyalezo yasezulwini ayakhula. Izinto zokunxibelelana noNxibelelwano kunye nezilwanyana zibhala:
"Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingcinga kunokunceda ukuphucula ulwazi lwethu olunomdla ukuze sikwazi ukuxoxa ngcono kunye nokunxibelelana ngcono nezilwanyana kubomi basemva kokufa."
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba iimvakalelo ezinamandla ezimbi-ezinje ngezo ziveliswe ziintlungu ezingasonjululwanga-zenza amandla amabi aphazamisa imiqondiso okanye imiyalezo evela ezulwini. Ke, ukuba ujongene nomsindo, unxunguphalo, okanye ezinye iimvakalelo ezingalunganga, cela uThixo akuncede uqhubeke nentlungu yakho ngaphambi kokuba uzame ukuziva isilwanyana. Ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo inokukunceda nawe, ikunike imibono emitsha yokujongana nentlungu yakho kwaye uza ngoxolo kunye nokufa kwesilwanyana (okanye ezinye izilwanyana) oziphosileyo.
Coates ucebisa nokuthumela umyalezo kwisilwanyana esibhakabhakeni simazise ukuba uyasokola kodwa uzama ngokunyanisekileyo ukuphilisa iintlungu zakho:
Iintlungu ezingasonjululwanga kunye noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo ezinamandla zinokubangela umqobo ekuqondeni kakuhle. […] Thetha ngokuvakalayo kwizilwanyana malunga nento ekukhathazayo; iimvakalelo zebhotile zikhokelela kwilifu lamandla aphazamisayo. [...] Yazisa izilwanyana ukuba usebenza ngentlungu yakho usiya kwinjongo yokwoneliseka. "
Iindidi zemiqondiso kunye nemiyalezo ethunyelwe zizilwanyana
Emva kokuthandaza, nikela ingqalelo kuncedo lukaThixo lokuva isilwanyana ezulwini.
Iimpawu okanye imiyalezo enokuthunyelwa zizilwanyana ebantwini ivela ngaphesheya:
Imiyalezo ye-telepathic yeengcinga ezilula okanye iimvakalelo.
Iziqholo ezikukhumbuza ngesilwanyana.
Ukuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni (njengokuva isilwanyana sitsibela ebhedini okanye kwisofa).
Izandi (njengokuva ilizwi lesilwanyana ukukhonkotha, ukucheba, njl njl).
Imiyalezo yephupha (apho isilwanyana sidla ngokubonakala khona).
Izinto ezinxulumene nobomi basemhlabeni bokuhamba kwesilwanyana (njengekhola yesilo-qabane esibonakalisa ngokungazenzisiyo kwindawo ethile uyakuyiqaphela).
Imiyalezo ebhaliweyo (njengokufunda igama lesilwanyana kanye emva kokucinga ngesi silwanyana).
Ukubonakala kwimibono (ezi ezinqabileyo kuba zifuna amandla amakhulu okomoya, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ziyenzeka).
UBrowne ubhala kuzo zonke izilwanyana zasekhaya waya ezulwini:
"Ndifuna abantu bazi ukuba izilwanyana zabo zihlala kwaye zinxibelelana nabo kweli hlabathi nakwelinye icala - hayi nje ukungcungcutheka kodwa incoko yokwenyani. Uya kumangaliswa bubuninzi bocingo obufumanayo kwizilwanyana ozithandayo ukuba uyayicoca ingqondo yakho kwaye umamele. "
Kuba unxibelelwano kubomi basemva kokufa lubakho ngamandla angcangcazelisayo kwaye izilwanyana zingcangcazela kumaza asezantsi kunabantu, akukho lula kwimiphefumlo yezilwanyana ukuthumela imiqondiso kunye nemiyalezo kubungakanani bayo njengoko kunjalo ngemiphefumlo yabantu. Ke ngoko, unxibelelwano oluvela kwizilwanyana ezulwini luthanda ukuba lula kunonxibelelwano oluthunyelwa ngabantu ezulwini.
Ngokwesiqhelo, izilwanyana zinamandla okomoya awaneleyo okuthumela imiyalezo emifutshane yeemvakalelo kuwo onke amanqanaba asuka ezulwini aye emhlabeni, ubhala uBarry Eaton kwincwadi yakhe ethi No Goodbyes: Life-Changing Insights on the Other Side. Nawuphi na umyalezo wesikhokelo (othambekele ekunikezeleni ngeenkcukacha ezininzi kwaye ke kufuna amandla angakumbi ukunxibelelana) ezithunyelwa zizilwanyana zihlala zivela ngeengelosi okanye imiphefumlo yabantu ezulwini (izikhokelo zomoya) ezinceda izilwanyana ukuhambisa loo miyalezo. Ubhala athi, "Izinto eziphakamileyo emoyeni ziyakwazi ukuthwala amandla azo ngohlobo lwesilwanyana."
Ukuba le nto yenzeka, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubone oko kubizwa ngokuba yi-totem: umoya ofana nenja, ikati, intaka, ihashe okanye esinye isilwanyana esithandekayo, kodwa eneneni yingelosi okanye isikhokelo sokomoya esibonakalisa amandla ku ifom yesilwanyana ikhuphe umyalezo egameni lesilwanyana.
Ngokukodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane ukhuthazo lokomoya lwesilwanyana ezulwini ngamaxesha apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane uncedo lwengelosi- xa ukwenye ingozi. UBrowne ubhala Kuzo Zonke Izilwanyana Eziya Ezulwini ukuba izilwanyana ezifileyo abantu abaye balala nabo ngamanye amaxesha "beza kusikhusela kwiimeko ezinobungozi."
Amabhondi oThando
Kuba intsingiselo kaThixo luthando, uthando yeyona nto inamandla okomoya ekhoyo. Ukuba ubusithanda isilwanyana ngelixa sisaphila eMhlabeni kwaye eso silwanyana siyanithanda, nonke niya kudibana ezulwini kuba amandla ombane othando owabelanayo aya kubopha ngonaphakade. Ubophelelo lothando lwonyusa nethuba lokuba ube nakho ukuva imiqondiso okanye imiyalezo evela kwizilwanyana zasekhaya zangaphambili okanye kwezinye izilwanyana ezazibalulekile kuwe.
Izilwanyana zasekhaya kunye nabantu ababelane ngeebhondi zothando eMhlabeni ziya kuhlala zinxibelelana ngamandla alolo thando. Coates ubhala ekunxibelelaneni nezilwanyana:
Uthando lunamandla amakhulu, olwenza uthungelwano lwalo lonxibelelwano… Xa sithanda isilwanyana, kwenziwa isithembiso kuthi kwaye yile: umphefumlo wam uyakuhlala uqhagamshelene nomphefumlo wakho. Ndihlala ndinawe. "
Enye yezona ndlela zixhaphakileyo ukunxibelelana kwezilwanyana nabantu kukuthumela amandla abo okomoya ukuba babe kunye nomntu ababemthanda eMhlabeni. Injongo kukuthuthuzela umntu abamthandayo osentlungwini. Xa oku kusenzeka, abantu baya kuwazi amandla ezilwanyana kuba baya kuziva ubukho obukhumbuza eso silwanyana. I-Eaton kwi-No Goodbyes ibhala:
“Imimoya yezilwanyana ihlala ibuya ichithe ixesha elininzi nabahlobo bayo bangaphambili, ngakumbi abantu abangamalolo nabangamalolo. Babelana ngamandla abo nabahlobo babo abangabantu kwaye, kunye nezikhokelo zomntu kunye nabancedisi bomoya [njengeengelosi kunye neengcwele], banendima yabo eyodwa ekuyidlangeni. "
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufumana okanye awufumani uphawu okanye umyalezo wesilwanyana osithandayo ezulwini, unokuqiniseka ukuba nabani na odibene nawe ngothando uya kuhlala exhumene nawe. Uthando sose lufe.