Iimpawu kunye nemiyalezo evela kwizilwanyana kubomi basemva kokufa
Ngaba izilwanyana kubomi basemva kokufa, njengezilwanyana zasekhaya, zithumela abantu imiqondiso nemiyalezo evela ezulwini? Ngamanye amaxesha benza, kodwa unxibelelwano lwezilwanyana emva kokufa kwahlukile kwindlela imiphefumlo yabantu enxibelelana ngayo emva kokufa.
Ukuba isilwanyana osithandayo sifile kwaye ungathanda umqondiso kuye, nantsi indlela onokuthi uyibone ngayo ukuba uThixo wenza ukuba iqabane lakho lesilwanyana linxibelelane nawe.
Isipho kodwa hayi isiqinisekiso
Kanye njengoko ufuna ukuva isilwanyana esimthandayo eswelekileyo, awungekhe usenze ukuba ayintando kaThixo.
Zama ukunyanzela unxibelelwano kubomi basemva kokufa
- okanye ukusebenza ngaphandle kobudlelwane bokuthembela noThixo - kuyingozi kwaye kunokuvula iindawo zonxibelelwano kwiingelosi eziwileyo ezineenjongo ezimbi ezinokuthi zisebenzise ithuba lentlungu yakho ukukukhohlisa.
Indlela efanelekileyo yokuqala kukuthandaza; ukucela uThixo ukuba athumele umyalezo ovela kuwe kwisilwanyana esifileyo esibonisa umnqweno wakho wokufumana uhlobo oluthile lomqondiso okanye ukufumana uhlobo oluthile lomyalezo osuka kweso silwanyana.
Veza uthando lwakho ngentliziyo iphela xa uthandaza, njengoko uthando lushukumisa amandla anamandla kagesi anokuthumela imiqondiso evela emphefumlweni wakho ukuya kumphefumlo wesilwanyana ngapha kwemilinganiselo phakathi koMhlaba nesibhakabhaka.
Nje ukuba uthandaze, vula ingqondo yakho kunye nentliziyo yakho ukuze ufumane lonke unxibelelwano olunokuthi lufike.
Kodwa qiniseka ukuba ubeke ithemba lakho kuThixo ukuze alungelelanise nonxibelelwano ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunye nangeendlela ezifanelekileyo. Yiba seluxolweni ukuba uThixo okuthandayo, uya kukwenza ukuba kuyintando yakhe.
UMargrit Coates, kwincwadi yakhe Ukunxibelelana nezilwanyana: Indlela yokuzicwangcisa Ukubhala ngokufanelekileyo:
“Abathunywa bezilwanyana bahamba besiya kubungakanani bexesha kunye nendawo ukuze babe nathi.
Asinakulawula le nkqubo kwaye asinakuyenza ukuba yenzeke, kodwa xa intlanganiso iqhubeka, simenyiwe ukuba sonwabele umzuzwana ngamnye wayo. "
Khuthazeka ukuba kukho ithuba elifanelekileyo lokuba uza kuva into kwisilwanyana sakho esilahlekileyo.
Kwincwadi yakhe ethi Zonke Iziloba Ziya Ezulwini: Ubomi Bokomoya Bezilwanyana Esizithandayo, uSylvia Browne ubhala:
“Njengabantu esibathandayo abasigqithileyo basijonga kwaye basityelele amaxesha ngamaxesha, zenjenjalo nezilwanyana esizithandayo.
Ndifumene amabali amaninzi avela ebantwini malunga nezilwanyana ezifileyo ababuyele kuzo. "
Iindlela zokwamkela unxibelelwano
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokutsibela kuyo nayiphi na isibonakaliso kunye nomyalezo owenza indlela yakho ivela ezulwini kukukhulisa ubudlelwane obusondeleyo noThixo kunye nabathunywa bakhe, iingelosi, ngokuthandaza rhoqo nangokucamngca.
Njengoko usenza unxibelelwano lokomoya, uya kukwazi ukubona imiyalezo yasezulwini. Izinto zokunxibelelana nokunxibelelana nezilwanyana ubhala:
"Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingcinga kunokunceda ukuphucula ulwazi lwethu olunomdla ukuze sikwazi ukunxibelelana nokunxibelelana ngcono nezilwanyana kubomi basemva kokufa."
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba iimvakalelo ezinamandla-ezinje ngezo ziveliswe ziintlungu ezingasonjululwanga-zenza amandla amabi aphazamisa imiqondiso okanye imiyalezo evela ezulwini.
Ke, ukuba ujongene nomsindo, ixhala, okanye ezinye iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo, cela uThixo akuncede usombulule iintlungu zakho ngaphambi kokuzama ukuva kweso silwanyana.
Iingelosi zakho ezikujongayo zinokukunceda zikunike izimvo ezintsha zokuqhubekeka iintlungu zakho kwaye uze eluxolweni ngokufa kwesilwanyana (okanye esinye isilwanyana) osiphosileyo.
UCoates ucebisa ukuthumela umyalezo ngesilwanyana ezulwini, simazise ukuba uyasokola kodwa ukuba bazama ngokunyanisekileyo ukunyanga iintlungu zakho:
“Intlungu engasonjululwanga noxinzelelo lweemvakalelo ezinamandla kunokudala isithintelo kulwazi olunomdla. [...]
Thetha ngokuvakalayo kwizilwanyana malunga nento ekukhathazayo; Iimvakalelo zebhotile zikhupha ilifu lamandla aphazamisayo. […] Yazisa izilwanyana ukuba usebenza ngentlungu yakho usiya kwinjongo yokwaneliseka “.
Iindidi zemiqondiso kunye nemiyalezo ethunyelwe zizilwanyana
Emva kokuthandaza, nikela ingqalelo kuncedo lukaThixo ngokuva ngesilwanyana ezulwini.
Iimpawu okanye imiyalezo enokuthunyelwa zizilwanyana ebantwini ivela ngaphesheya:
Imiyalezo ye-telepathic yeengcinga ezilula okanye iimvakalelo.
Iziqholo ezikukhumbuza ngesilwanyana.
Ukuchukumisa ngokwasemzimbeni (njengokuva isilwanyana sitsibela ebhedini okanye kwisofa).
Izandi (njengokuva ilizwi lesilwanyana ukukhonkotha, ukucheba, njl njl).
Imiyalezo yephupha (apho isilwanyana sidla ngokubonakala khona).
Izinto ezinxulumene nobomi basemhlabeni besilwanyana (njengekhola yesilwanyana ngokungabonakaliyo kwindawo ethile oya kuthi uyiqaphele).
Imiyalezo ebhaliweyo (njengokufunda igama lesilwanyana kanye emva kokucinga ngesi silwanyana).
Iapparitions embonweni (ezi zinqabile kuba zifuna amandla okomoya amaninzi, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha ziyenzeka).
UBrowne ubhala kuzo zonke izilwanyana zasekhaya uya ezulwini:
“Ndifuna abantu bazi ukuba izilwanyana zabo zihlala kwaye zinxibelelana nabo kweli hlabathi kwanakwelinye icala
- ayisiyongxaki nje kodwa incoko yokwenyani. Uya kumangaliswa bubuninzi bocingo obufumanayo kwizilwanyana ozithandayo ukuba ucoce ingqondo yakho kwaye umamele. "
Kungenxa yokuba unxibelelwano emva kobomi lwenzeka ngokwenziwa kwamandla kwaye izilwanyana ziyaqhaqeka rhoqo
iphantsi kunaleyo yabantu, akukho lula ukuba imiphefumlo yezilwanyana ithumele imiqondiso kunye nemiyalezo ngokwamanqanaba njengoko kunjalo kwimiphefumlo yabantu.
Ke ngoko unxibelelwano oluvela kwizilwanyana ezisezulwini luthande ukuba lula kunonxibelelwano oluhanjiswa ngabantu ezulwini.
Ngokwesiqhelo, izilwanyana zinamandla okomoya awaneleyo okuthumela imiyalezo emifutshane yeemvakalelo
kuyo yonke imilinganiselo ukusuka ezulwini ukuya emhlabeni, ubhala u-Barry Eaton kwincwadi yakhe ethi Akukho Goodbyes: Ukutshintsha kobomi obuvela kwelinye icala.
Nawuphi na umyalezo wesikhokelo (odla ngokuhambisa iinkcukacha ezininzi kwaye ke kufuneka amandla amaninzi ukunxibelelana) kunokuba
izilwanyana ezizithumelayo zihlala zivela kwiingelosi okanye kwimiphefumlo yabantu ezulwini (izikhokelo zokomoya) ezinceda izilwanyana ukuhambisa loo miyalezo.
Ubhala athi, "Izinto eziphakamileyo emoyeni ziyakwazi ukuthwala amandla azo ngohlobo lwesilwanyana."
Ukuba le nto yenzekayo, umntu unokubona into ebizwa ngokuba yi-totem- umoya ofana nenja,
ikati, intaka, ihashe okanye esinye isilwanyana esithandekayo, kodwa eneneni yingelosi okanye isikhokelo somoya esibonisa amandla ngendlela yesilwanyana ukuhambisa umyalezo egameni lesilwanyana.
Ngokukodwa kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane ukhuthazo lokomoya lwesilwanyana sasezulwini ngamanye amaxesha apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane uncedo lwengelosi- xa ukwenye ingozi.
UBrowne ubhala kuzo zonke izilwanyana zasekhaya eziya ezulwini ukuba izilwanyana ezifileyo ziye zaba nobudlelwane ngamanye amaxesha "zize zisikhusele kwiimeko eziyingozi".
Iibhondi zothando
Kuba intsingiselo kaThixo luthando, uthando yeyona nto inamandla okomoya ekhoyo. Ukuba ubuthandile
isilwanyana ngelixa sasiphila eMhlabeni kwaye eso silwanyana sasinithanda, niyakudibana kwakhona ezulwini kuba amandla ombane othando owabelanayo aya kukudibanisa ngonaphakade.
Ibhondi yothando ikwonyusa ithuba lokukwazi ukuva imiqondiso okanye imiyalezo evela kwizilwanyana zasekhaya zangaphambili okanye kwezinye izilwanyana ezazibalulekile kuwe.
Izilwanyana kunye nabantu abaye babelana ngeebhondi zothando eMhlabeni ziya kuhlala zinxibelelana ngamandla alolo thando. Coates ubhala ekunxibelelaneni nezilwanyana:
Uthando lunamandla amakhulu, lwenza uthungelwano lwalo lonxibelelwano… Xa sithanda isilwanyana senziwa isithembiso kwaye yile: umphefumlo wam uyakuhlala ubotshelelwe emphefumlweni wakho. Ndihlala ndinawe. "
Enye yezona ndlela zixhaphakileyo zokuba izilwanyana zihambe zinxibelelana nabantu kukuthumela amandla abo okomoya ukuba babe kunye nomntu abamthandayo eMhlabeni.
Injongo kukuthuthuzela umntu abamthandayo osentlungwini. Xa oku kusenzeka, abantu baya kuwazi amandla esilwanyana kuba baya kuziva ubukho obabakhumbuza eso silwanyana. I-Eaton kwi-No Goodbyes ibhala:
“Imimoya yezilwanyana ihlala ibuya ize kuchitha ixesha elininzi kunye nabahlobo bayo bangaphambili, ngakumbi abo bangamalolo kwaye bengamalolo.
Babelana ngamandla abo nabahlobo babo abangabantu, kwaye kunye nezikhokelo zomntu kunye nemimoya yokunceda [ezinjengeengelosi kunye neengcwele], banendima yabo eyodwa ekuphiliseni. "
Nokuba ufumana uphawu okanye umyalezo kwisilwanyana osithandayo ezulwini, unokuqiniseka ukuba nabani na odibene nawe ngothando uya kuhlala exhumene nawe. Uthando sose lufe.