Iindlela ezintathu zokunyusa ukuzinikela kwiNgelosi yakho ekuMgcini
Uninzi lwethu luyakholelwa kwiingelosi, kodwa kunqabile ukuba sithandaze kuzo. Siyabacingela bebhabha ngeenxa zonke, besikhusela okanye besikhokela. Kodwa bangumoya ococekileyo kwaye asinako ukunxibelelana nelo cala lendalo yabo. Ukuqonda ubudlelwane obukhethekileyo kunye nomgcini wakho oyingelosi kunokubonakala kuhlazisa, kodwa kukuzinikela esinokukwenza sonke ukomeleza ubomi bethu bangaphakathi kwaye sikhule singcwalisiwe. Kutheni kubalulekile ukuzinikela kwingelosi yethu? Ukuqala, izifundiswa zengelosi kunye noninzi lweerosorists ziyavuma ukuba abagcini bethu bakhethe thina. Babesazi ngaphambi kokuba sidalwe kwaye, ngenxa yothando nokuthobela uThixo, bathi ewe kwisithembiso sakhe sokusikhusela. Oku kuthetha ukuba banolwazi olupheleleyo lobume bethu, ngazo zonke izono esizenzileyo kunye nako konke okuhle esiza kukwenza ebomini. Mhlawumbi basazi ngcono kunokuba sizazi thina. Nazi iindlela ezithile zokunyusa ezakho ukuzinikela kwingelosi yakho ekugcinayo.
Thandaza kwingelosi yakho yonke imihla ukuba ikukhulise ebungcweleni
Cela ingelosi yakho ityhile esona siphoso sakho ukuze ukhule ebungcweleni. Kuba ingelosi yakho inolwazi olupheleleyo lwezinto zonke, yazi yonke into ngawe. Akuqhelekanga kuthi, amaxesha ngamaxesha, ukuba simangaliswe kukuba kutheni sinamathele kwindlela yokuziphatha embi okanye kutheni ubudlelwane obuthile bubonakala bunzima kuthi. Thandazela ukuba umgcini wakho akubonise ubuthathaka bakho nokuba buchaphazela njani kwaye buthintele ukukhula kwakho ngokomoya. Cela ingelosi yakho ikuncede xa ulahlekile: Unako, ukongeza ekuzinikeleni ku-Saint Anthony wasePadua, cela ingelosi yakho ekugcinayo ukuba ikuncede ufumane into xa ulahlekile, okanye ikuncede xa uziva ulahlekile ngokomoya. Ndayazi ndisemncinci ukuba ingelosi yam eyayindigcinile yayiyinyani kwaye indikhusele engozini. Xa ndandisekholejini kwaye ndaya kwikonsathi kunye nabanye abafundi kwiqela lam lolutsha, ndathandaza kuye okokuqala. Bonke babekhwele ukuze bahlale kude kube sebusuku kodwa kuye kwafuneka ndigoduke njengoko usuku olulandelayo luqala kwangethuba. Ingxaki yayikukuba, njengoko ndandihambahamba kwindawo yokupaka ngokuhlwa, ndaye ndalahleka ngakumbi kwaye ndaqala ukothuka. Bemisephi imoto yam phofu? Ndandiqinisekile ukuba ndihamba ngezangqa, kwaye yandoyikisa ngezizathu ezininzi. Bendingafuni ukuphuma ebumnyameni ndedwa ebusuku kakhulu ixesha elide. Ndicenge ingelosi yam ukuba indincede ndifumane isithuthi sam. Kwangoko, ndeva itephu kwilambu lesitalato emva kwam. Ndithe xa ndijika ndabona imoto yam ime ngxi. Abanye banokuthi yinto nje eyenzekileyo, kodwa ndiyakholelwa ukuba ingelosi yam yandinceda ngala mhla.
Cela ingelosi yakho ithobeke yonke imihla: ingelosi yakho iya kukunika ukuthotywa kwangaphakathi ukuba uyambuza. Ekuqaleni kubonakala ngathi akukho ngqiqweni ukucela ukuthotywa, kodwa umgcini wakho uyazi ukuba eyona ndlela ikhuselekileyo nekhuselekileyo eya ezulwini kukuthobeka. Akukho ngcwele idumisa uThixo naphakade engazange ihlaziswe kuqala. Zonke iingelosi zigqibelele kuko konke ukulunga, kodwa eyona nto iphambili ekukhonzeni uThixo kukuthobela ukuthanda kwakhe. Oku kuhlala kunjalo. Bathembekile ngaphandle koloyiko okanye ukuthandabuza. Yonke into encinci yekratshi igcinelwe iingelosi ezingendawo. Ke ngoko, cela ingelosi yakho ikuncede ukhule ekuthobekeni kwaye yonke imihla uyakufumanisa iindlela ezimangalisayo apho i-ego yakho yenzakaliswe okanye ikratshi litshatyalalisiwe. Ke, mbulele ngaloo nto nangazo zonke iindlela akuthanda ngazo.