Ukufumana nokwazi injongo yakho yobomi
Ukuba ukufumana injongo yobomi bakho kubonakala kuyinto enqabileyo, ungoyiki! Awukho wedwa. Kule ndlela yokuthandaza nguKaren Wolff weChristian-Books-for-Women.com, uyakufumana ukuqinisekiswa kunye nenkxaso ebonakalayo yokufumana kunye nokufunda malunga nenjongo yakho yobomi.
Yintoni injongo yobomi bakho?
Ngelixa kuyinyani ukuba abanye abantu babonakala befumana injongo yobomi babo ilula kunabanye, kuyinyani ukuba uThixo unalo icebo lomntu ngamnye, nokuba kuthabatha ixesha ukubona ukuba yintoni.
Abantu abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukufumana injongo yobomi bakho kuthetha ukwenza into oyithandayo. Yindawo evakalelwa ngokwemvelo kuwe kwaye izinto zibonakala ziwela endaweni. Ungathini ukuba izinto bezingacacanga kuwe? Ungathini ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba zithini izipho zakho? Ungathini ukuba awuzange ufumanise iitalente ezithile ezikwenza ucinge ukuba inokuba lolwakho ubizo lokwenyani ebomini? Okanye uza kwenza ntoni ukuba usebenza kwenye indawo kwaye uyenza kakuhle kodwa ungaziva wanelisekile? Ngaba kuphelele apho wena?
Musa ukuphaphazela. Awukho wedwa. Baninzi abantu kwisikhephe esinye. Jonga abafundi. Ngoku, kukho iqela elahlukileyo. Ngaphambi kokuba uYesu afike, babengabalobi beentlanzi, abaqokeleli berhafu, abalimi, njl. Inokuba babelungile kule nto bayenzayo kuba bondla iintsapho zabo kwaye baziphilisa.
Kodwa ke badibana noYesu kwaye ubizo lwabo lokwenyani lwangena ngokukhawuleza. Into ababengayazi abafundi kukuba uThixo wayefuna ukuba bonwabe, nangaphezu kwabo. Ukulandela isicwangciso sikaThixo ngobomi babo kubenze bonwaba ngaphakathi, apho kubaluleke kakhulu. Yeyiphi imbono, huh?
Ngaba ucinga ukuba kunokuba yinyani nakuwe? Ngaba uThixo ufuna ukuba wonwabe ngokwenyani kwaye uzalisekiswe nangaphezu kwakho?
Inyathelo lakho elilandelayo
Isinyathelo esilandelayo ekufumaneni injongo yobomi bakho kwiNcwadi ngokwayo. Into ekufuneka uyenzile kukuyifunda. Ibhayibhile ithi uYesu waxelela abafundi bakhe ukuba mabathandane njengoko wabathandayo. Kwaye wayengahlekisi. Ukuba ulunge ngokwenyani kule nxalenye yenkqubo kufana nokwakha isiseko sendlu yakho.
Awungekhe uphuphe ngokuqhubela phambili ngaphandle kwesiseko esiqinileyo. Ukufumanisa injongo kaThixo ngobomi bakho kuyafana. Isiseko senkqubo sithetha ukuba ulunge ngokwenyani ngokuba ngumKristu. Ewe, oku kuthetha ukuba nobubele ebantwini nokuba uziva ungathandi, uxolela abantu kwaye ewe ewe, ukuthanda abantu abangathandekiyo behlabathi.
Ke, zonke ezi zinto zinento yokwenza nento endifanele ukuba yiyo xa ndimdala? Yonke into. Xa ulungile ekubeni ngumKristu, uya kuba nakho ukuphulaphula uThixo. Uyakwazi ukukusebenzisa. Unokusebenza nawe. Kwaye kungale nkqubo apho uyakufumanisa eyona njongo yakho ebomini.
Kodwa kuthekani ngam nobomi bam?
Ke, ukuba ulungile ngokwenene ukuba ngumKristu, okanye ubuncinci ucinga ukuba unguye, kwaye awukafumani njongo yokwenyani okwangoku, emva koko?
Ukuba ulunge ngokwenene ukuba ngumKristu kuthetha ukuyeka ukucinga ngawe ngalo lonke ixesha. Susa ingqalelo yakho kwaye ujonge iindlela zokuba yintsikelelo komnye umntu.
Akukho ndlela ingcono yokufumana uncedo kunye nesikhokelo ebomini bakho kunokujonga komnye umntu. Kubonakala kuphambene ngokupheleleyo noko ukuxelelwa lihlabathi. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ukuba awuzikhangeli, ngubani oya kuthi? Ewe, inganguThixo lowo.
Xa ujolisa kwishishini lomnye umntu, uThixo uyakugxila kwelakho. Kuthetha ukutyala imbewu kumhlaba omkhulu kwaye ulinde nje ukuba uThixo azise isivuno ebomini bakho. Okwangoku…
Phuma uzame
Ukusebenza noThixo ukuze ufumane injongo yobomi bakho kuthetha ukusebenza njengeqela. Xa uthatha inyathelo, uThixo uthabatha inyathelo.
Kulungele ukuzama ezinye izinto onomdla kuzo. Uya kwazi ngokukhawuleza ukuba ufumene into elungileyo. Iingcango ziya kuvulwa okanye zibethwe. Nokuba yeyiphi indlela, uya kuyazi ukuba uphi.
Linda. Ukufuna ukwazi yonke into ngokufanelekileyo kule yesibini kuqhelekile kwezi ntsuku. Ukufunda ukuthemba ukuba uThixo uya kukubonisa xa sele ekulungele kuthatha umonde ngoku. UThixo akazukubonisa zonke iziqwenga zephazili ngexesha elinye. Ukuba ebenzile, ubuya kujongeka ngathi "yinyamakazi kwizibane zangaphambili", kuba ungoyiswa kakhulu yiyo yonke into. Ungayichazanga eyokuba, uya kulingeka kakhulu ukuba uze nesicwangciso sokulondoloza "kwimeko apho" izinto zingasebenzi.
Sukuchitha ixesha lakho kwizinto owaziyo ukuba aziveli kuThixo.Zuza izikimu ezikhawulezayo zokuTyeba azisoze zisebenze. Ukufumana umyeni okanye umfazi ongumKristu ngekhe kwenzeke ukuba ujolise kwimisebenzi nakwimisitho engabandakanyi amaKristu. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwizinto owaziyo ukuba azilunganga- ewe, uzolula nje iimpendulo zakho.
Sukuvumela abantu abakungqongileyo bakuxelele ngezinto. Kungenxa yokuba kuvakala njengengcamango elungileyo kwimbono yehlabathi akuthethi ukuba licebo likaThixo ngawe. Ukulandela ukhokelo lukaThixo ngamanye amaxesha kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uthi hayi kumalungu osapho amaninzi okanye abahlobo abaneenjongo ezintle. Kuxhomekeke kwisigqibo sokulandela, nokuba sikhokelela phi.
Okokugqibela, ungaze unikezele. Usenokungayazi injongo yakho namhlanje okanye ngomso, kodwa ukuba nje ulungile ngokwenene ukuba ungumKristu, kwaye intliziyo yakho ivulekile, iyakufumana uThixo kwaye uya kuzifumana.