Isikhokelo sebhayibhile sokuthandazela umtshato wakho
Umtshato liziko elimiselwe nguThixo; eyabekwa ekuqaleni kwendalo (Gen. 2: 22-24) xa uThixo wadala umncedisi ka-Adam ukuba abe ngumfazi wakhe (uEva). Emtshatweni, aba babini kufuneka babe banye kwaye indoda nomfazi kufuneka bakhule kunye kubudlelwane babo neNkosi. Asishiywanga sodwa emtshatweni; Kufuneka sihlale sijonge kuThixo, simnqule uThixo kunye namaqabane ethu, kwaye sibonakalise uthando lukaThixo omnye komnye. Xa sithatha izifungo zomtshato, sizibeka phambi koThixo.Yiyo le nto iTestamente eNdala neNtsha zicacile ukuba uqhawulo-mtshato alusoze luthathwe lula, kwaye ngelixa zikhona iimeko apho uqhawulo-mtshato luphantsi. Ivumelekile ngokweBhayibhile, akukho ndawo iyalelwa kuyo.
Umncedisi weStreetwalk.com uSharon Jaynes wabhala,
"Izibhambathiso zomtshato ayisosibhengezo sothando lwangoku kodwa isithembiso esibophelelayo sothando lwangomso, ngaphandle kokutshintsha kweemeko okanye ukutshintsha kweemvakalelo."
Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sithandaze emtshatweni wethu ngokutshintsha kweemeko, ukuzibophelela kwethu ekuthandeni amaqabane ethu ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunye nelibi njengoko uThixo esithanda. Kufuneka sithandaze emtshatweni wethu xa izinto zihamba kakuhle, xa amaxesha enzima, xa siziva sinesizungu, xa sisenza iinjongo kwaye sonwabile ngekamva, kwaye xa siziva singenamdla. Ngokusisiseko, kuzo zonke izinto ezichaphazela umtshato wethu (kunye nobomi bethu) kufuneka sithandaze. Kwaye xa sithandaza, siqala ukukhulula olunye uxinzelelo esilubeke phezu kwethu kunye neqabane lethu; U-Thixo usibizile ukuba siphose iinkxalabo zethu kuye, simxelele amathemba ethu. Uthembekile kwaye usondele kwaye akangeze asilahle okanye asityhafe. Umthandazo ubuyisela iingqondo neentliziyo zethu kuKristu.
[Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uzifumana ukwimeko ebandakanya ukungathembeki okungafunekiyo, ukuphathwa gadalala, okanye ukungakhathalelwa, le yinto ekufuneka uyiqwalasele nomfundisi wakho, umcebisi wakho, kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo kuKristu. Kwabanye, imvume yokuqhawula umtshato esebhayibhelini iyafuneka kwiimeko ezinjalo nakwezinye, kunokuba khona amathemba oxolelaniso kunye novuselelo. Kodwa ngaphezulu kwako konke, funa uThixo emthandazweni ngesi sigqibo; Ayizukulahlekisa.]
Izizathu ezi-5 zokuba sithandaze
Umthandazo usenza ukuba sithobele.
Umthandazo uzisa uxolo ezintliziyweni nasezingqondweni zethu.
Umthandazo uyasihlazisa.
Umthandazo wenza ukholo lwethu lukhule.
Umthandazo wenza ulwalamano lwethu noThixo lukhule.
Apha ngezantsi, uyakufumana imithandazo yomtshato owomeleleyo, imithandazo yokubuyiselwa, imithandazo yomyeni wakho, kunye nemithandazo yomfazi wakho, phakathi kwabanye.
Imithandazo emi-5 elula yomtshato owomeleleyo
1. Umthandazo wobunye emtshatweni
Bawo waseZulwini, siza phambi kwakho ukukubulela ngako konke okwenzileyo kwaye uqhubeka ukukwenza ebomini bethu nasemtshatweni wethu. Namhlanje siza phambi kwakho, Thixo, sicela umanyano olomeleleyo lomanyano kumnqophiso wethu womtshato. Bawo, sicela ukuba usinike ithuba lokuba sibumbane phambi kwakho, singavumeli nantoni na ime phakathi kwethu. Sincede, Bawo, sichonge kwaye sisebenze kuko konke ongakuthandiyo ukuze siqhubeke nokufikelela amanqanaba aphezulu obunye emtshatweni wethu - ngokomoya, ngokwasemzimbeni nasengqondweni. Siyavuya kwaye sonwabile ukubona isandla sakho sisebenza njengoko sisenza konke okusemandleni ethu ukufuna ubuso bakho yonke imihla. Siyakuthanda kwaye siyabulela ngazo zonke ezi zinto. Egameni likaYesu siyathandaza. Amen! "Yenza yonke imizamo yokuzigcina umanyene noMoya, ukubopha kunye noxolo." (Kwabase-Efese 4: 3 NLT)
2. Umthandazo wobudlelwane emtshatweni
Bawo waseZulwini, siyakucela namhlanje ukuba womeleze amaqhina obudlelwane benyama nokomoya emtshatweni wethu. Sinombulelo ngokuba ubize ubuhlobo kunye nawe kunye nolwalamano kunye nomyeni nenkosikazi kuqala. Nceda usibonise nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha esithe sayenza ethintela ukuba singene kubudlelwane obusenyongweni kunye nawe kunye nabanye. Xa ukuthembana kuphelile, kunganzima ukubuyela ngokwakho, nangona kunjalo, siyazi ukuba nantoni na inokwenzeka kuwe, Thixo, Philisa iintliziyo zethu, Bawo, kumanxeba adlulileyo kwaye usincede sithembele kuwe nakwabanye kwakhona. . Siyabulela ngoku ngoku ngokusondeza emtshatweni wethu njengoko sizama ukukuhlonipha wena kunye nomnye ngomnqophiso wethu womtshato. Egameni likaYesu siyathandaza. Amen! “Ngenxa yesi sizathu indoda iya kumshiya uyise nonina, inamathele emfazini wayo, baze abo babini babe nyama-nye. "(Efese 5:31)
3. Umthandazo wokunyaniseka emtshatweni
Thixo Bawo, namhlanje siza phambi kwakho ukukucela ukuba usincede senze yonke into ngokunyaniseka okupheleleyo emtshatweni wethu. Ngcwalise ngenyaniso yakho - ilizwi lakho liyinyaniso (Yohane 17:17). Sincede singaze sixokisane. Sincede sicoceke ukuba senza impazamo okanye senza impazamo enokuthi ichaphazele umtshato wethu-nokuba siziva kakubi okanye sihlazekile. Sinike amandla okucaca ngokupheleleyo phakathi kwethu, nokuba siziva njani. Siyabulela ngokuqonda kokwazi kwakho kunye nokuzimisela ukubiza igama likaYesu.Ukuba kukho nantoni na ebesinganyanisanga ngayo ngaphambili, nceda usincede sabelane ngayo nabanye kwaye usinike ubulumko. ukusebenza kuyo. Siyabulela ngokusinceda sinyaniseke njengoko sikhetha ukuthobela umoya wakho. Egameni likaYesu siyathandaza. Amen. “Musani ukuxokisana, nizihlubile nje umntu omdala, kunye nezenzo zakhe, nambatha lowo umtsha, uhlaziya amandla alo ngokwazi ngokomfanekiselo woMdali wawo.” (KwabaseKolose 3: 9-10 NIV)
4. Umthandazo wokuxolelwa emtshatweni
Bawo waseZulwini, njengoko siqhubeka sizama ukwakha umtshato owomeleleyo, usinceda sixolelane ngezinto ezinokusenzakalisa okanye ezisikhubekisayo. Sincede sihambe ngokuxolela kwaye ungaze uyilibale into yokuba usixolele. Sincede sibonise inceba yakho nobabalo kumaqabane ethu ngalo lonke ixesha beyifuna kwaye bangazisi iintlungu ezidlulileyo okanye ukusilela. Masibe ngumzekelo wokuxolela hayi kumaqabane ethu kuphela kodwa nakwabo basingqongileyo ukuze siqhubeke nokubonisa uthando lwakho kuye wonke umntu esidibana naye. Sincede nathi sixolele nathi ukuba silwa nokugwetywa. Enkosi ngamazwi akho enyaniso enika ubomi ukuba sinokuhlawulelwa ngegazi leMvana. Egameni likaYesu siyathandaza. Amen! "Ukuba siyazivuma izono zethu, uthembekile, ulilungisa; uya kusixolela izono zethu, asihlambulule kuko konke ukungalungisi." (1 Yohane 1: 9 NIV)
5. Thandazela impilo kunye neqabane lakho
Bawo Thixo, siyabulela ngempilo yobuthixo emzimbeni wethu, kubomi basemoyeni nasemtshatweni. Sithandazela ukuba usazise malunga nantoni na esiyenzayo engahambelani ngqo nobomi obuphilileyo; umzimba, umoya, umphefumlo. Sinike amandla okukuhlonipha ngemizimba yethu njengoko iyitempile yeNkosi. Sinike ubulumko bokuqhubeka nokwakha ubomi obuphilileyo bokomoya kunye nomtshato kunye nawe embindini. Sincede sihlale sikhumbula ukuzincama kwakho owasinika isithembiso sonyango kunye noxolo. Ufanele ukudunyiswa! Egameni likaYesu siyathandaza. Amen! “Ungxwelerhwe ngenxa yezikreqo zethu, watyunyuzwa ngenxa yezenzo zethu ezigwenxa; siyaphiliswa ngemivumbo yayo. (UIsaya 53: 4)