Umthandazo wabazali wokufundisa abantwana abakwishumi elivisayo

Umthandazo womzali malunga nomntwana wakhe okwishumi elivisayo unokuba neempawu ezininzi. Ulutsha lujongana nemiqobo emininzi kunye nezilingo imihla ngemihla. Bafunda ngakumbi ngehlabathi labantu abadala kwaye bathabatha amanyathelo amaninzi ukuhlala apho. Uninzi lwabazali luyazibuza ukuba inkwenkwe encinci ibabambe ezingalweni izolo inokuba sele iyintoni na ngoku sele iyindoda okanye umfazi. UThixo unika abazali uxanduva lokukhulisa amadoda kunye nabafazi abaza kumzukisa ebomini babo. Nanku umthandazo womzali onokuthi xa ujongene nemibuzo malunga nokuba ungumzali olungileyo wenza umntwana wakho ngokwaneleyo okanye ukuba ubanqwenelela okuhle kodwa.

Umzekelo womthandazo wokuba abazali bathandaze
Nkosi enkosi ngazo zonke iintsikelelo ondinike zona. Ngaphezu kwako konke, ndiyabulela ngalo mntwana umhle ngokundifundisa okungakumbi ngawe kunayo nayiphi na into oyenzileyo ebomini bam. Ndiwabonile akhula kuwe ukusukela ngala mhla wawusikelela ngawo ubomi bam kunye nawo. Ndikubone emehlweni abo, kwizenzo zabo nakumazwi abawathethayo. Ngoku ndiyaqonda ngcono uthando lwakho kuthi ngamnye wethu, olo uthando olungenasiphelo lukuzisela uvuyo olukhulu xa sikunika imbeko kunye nentlungu enkulu xa siphoxekile. Ngoku ndifumana idini lokunyaniseka lo Nyana wakho osweleke emnqamlezweni wezono zethu.

Ke namhlanje, Nkosi, ndikuphakamisela kuwe nyana wam ngenxa yeentsikelelo zakho kunye nenkokhelo. Uyazi ukuba ulutsha akusoloko kulula. Kukho amaxesha apho bandicel'umngeni wokuba ngumntu omdala abacinga ukuba kunjalo, kodwa ndiyazi ukuba aliloxesha. Akhona ngamanye amaxesha xa ndikufumanisa kunzima ukubanika inkululeko yokuba baphile, ndikhule kwaye ndifunde kuba konke endikukhumbulayo kukuba ibiyizolo kuphela apho ndibeka khona uncedo lwebhendi kwimingxunya kunye nokuxhoma kunye nokuncancisa kwakwanele ukwenza Ubusuku.

Mnumzana, zininzi kakhulu iindlela zehlabathi ezandothusa njengoko zingena zodwa. Kukho ububi obucacileyo abenziwe abanye abantu. Isoyikiso sokulimala ngokwasemzimbeni kwabo sibabona kwiindaba rhoqo ebusuku. Ndicela ukuba ubakhusele koko, kodwa ndiyakucela ukuba ubakhusele kumonakaliso weemvakalelo ozibonakalisa kule minyaka yeemvakalelo ezinkulu. Ndiyazi ukuba kukho ubudlelwane phakathi kwabahlobo kunye nokudibana okuza kuhamba nokuhamba, kwaye ndicela ukhusele iintliziyo zabo kwizinto ezizakubenza bakrakra. Ndicela ukuba ubancede bathathe izigqibo ezilungileyo kwaye bakhumbule izinto endizame ukubafundisa zona mihla le ngendlela abanokukuhlonipha ngayo.

Ndiyacela, Nkosi, ukuba ukhokele amanyathelo abo njengoko behamba bodwa. Ndicela ukuba babe namandla akho ngelixa oontanga bethu bezama ukubakhokelela kwiindlela zentshabalalo. Ndicela ukuba babe nelizwi lakho kokubini entlokweni nakwilizwi lakho njengoko bethetha ukuze bakwenzele imbeko kuyo yonke into abayenzayo nabayithethayo. Ndicela ukuba baziva bomelele ukholo lwabo njengoko abanye bezama ukubaxelela ukuba awunguye wokwenyani okanye awukufanelanga ukulandela. Nkosi, nceda bavumele bakubone njengeyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu ebomini babo kwaye ukuba, ngaphandle kobunzima, ukholo lwabo luya komelela.

Kwaye Nkosi, ndicela ukuba unyamezelo lube ngumzekelo olungileyo kunyana wam ngexesha baya kuthi bavavanye onke amalungu am. Nkosi ndincede ukuba ndingaphelelwa ngumonde, ndinike amandla okumelana nobabini xa ndifuna kwaye ndiyiyeke xa ilixesha. Khokela amazwi am nezenzo zam ukukhokela unyana wam indlela yakho. Makhe ndikunike ingcebiso elungileyo kwaye usete imigaqo elungileyo kunyana wam ukuze umncede abe ngumntu kaThixo omfunayo.

Ngegama lakho elingcwele, Amen.