Ungawagcina kanjani amandla akho aphezulu xa iziganeko kunye nezinto ezenziwayo zichinyiwe



Kutheni le nto ukungenzi nto kusenza sidinwe kangaka?

Xa ndandisengumntwana, ihlobo lalithetha inkululeko epheleleyo. Oko kwakuthetha ukutshona kwelanga emva kwexesha njengoko sasidlala isandlot baseball kwisihlwele esihlokomayo saseMissouri cicadas, kungekho ziwotshi zealam kunye nemisebenzi eyakhiwe. Oko kwakuthetha iintsuku ezinde, ezingacacanga zokujonga umlambo osemva kwendlu yethu, ukuloba kunye nokumba i-shrimp kumhlaba oyisanti. Oko kwakuthetha ukuba emva kwemini kushushu kakhulu kunye nabahlobo abasungula imidlalo emitsha ngaphandle kwesithukuthezi kodwa bonwabele bengenzi lukhulu. Ezo hlotyana zegolide zazibonakala ngathi zihlala ngonaphakade.

Akubonakali kunjalo. Abantwana kwezi ntsuku banesikolo sasehlotyeni, iinkampu zemini kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zemisebenzi ehleliweyo ukugcina bexakekile. Anditsho ukuba kubi, kwahlukile. Nokuba kungcono okanye akunjalo, nangona kunjalo, akunamsebenzi kangako kweli hlobo. Yonke irhoxisiwe. Abantwana baya kufumana uhlobo lwehlobo endilwenzileyo, ndithande okanye ndingathandi.

Ukurhoxiswa kukwasichaphazela nabantu abadala. Iiholide ekudala zilindelwe azinakwenzeka kweli hlobo. Inani elininzi labantu alihambi ngokwasemzimbeni eofisini okwangoku kwaye bachitha ixesha elongezelelweyo bethatha isonka esenziwe ngentlama, ukwenza oonomatse, okanye ukuzama ngamandla ukugxila kwimisebenzi yasekhaya yesikolo ngaphandle kwesakhiwo seofisi. Ukudibana kwakhona kosapho kunye nokuxhonywa kunye nabahlobo kunokuba kunokwenzeka kwezinye iindawo, kodwa mhlawumbi hayi kwinqanaba esiqhele ukuliqhela. Yonke le yimeko emva kokuba sele unyamezele ukuhlala iinyanga ezimbalwa ekhaya kwaye ungenandawo yokuya kuyo.



Ndiqaphele into ehlekisayo. Inqanaba lomsebenzi wethu liphantsi kunakuqala, kodwa sidiniwe kakhulu. Sisenokudinwa nangakumbi kunalapho ubomi bethu babuzele yimisebenzi. Usenokuba uyiqaphele le nto ngaphambili; kwenzeka lonke ixesha sinosuku lokuphumla kungekho xanduva. Sizimisele ukwenza nto, siyalala, siyala ukunxiba, uku-odola ipitsa kunye nokubukela umboniso weTV nje ukuba sisuke esofeni, songa wonke amandla ethu. Umbono kukuba siya kuzihlaziya kwakhona iibhetri zethu, kodwa endaweni yoko, kwenzeka okwahlukileyo kwaye ukungasebenzi kunokubangela ukudinwa okunzulu.

Kutheni le nto engenzi nto isenza sidinwe?

Akukho nto siyenzayo siyenzayo.

Kubonakala ngathi kukho izizathu zomzimba zokudinwa. Imizimba yethu ibingahlalanga emngxunyeni omnyama imini yonke. Sidinga intshukumo kunye nelanga. Umsebenzi ophunguliweyo ucothisa imetabolism, usenza ukuba sizive sidangele. Ukunqongophala kokukhanya kwemini kwehlisa amanqanaba e-melatonin kunye ne-serotonin, zombini eziyimfuneko ukuze sihlale siphilile. Ngaphandle kwabo, sihlala sinexhala noxinzelelo.

Iyasenzakalisa ngokweemvakalelo.

Ukwenza ngokwasemphefumlweni nako akunzima kuthi. Siphumelela ngengqondo yenjongo. Sifuna ukufuneka, sizive sibalulekile, sazi ukuba sibalulekile. Njengotata, ndiziva ndinomdla kakhulu. Bayandidinga abantwana bam. Imfuno yabo inegalelo ekubeni ndiphambane kwaye indigcine ndikulindile, kodwa imisebenzi yokuba ngumzali abandibekele yona ayindidinisi. Ngokuchasene noko, ndonwabile yimvakalelo yenjongo abandinika yona. Ngokunjalo, andinakulinda ndiye emsebenzini yonke imihla. Ndiyazi ukuba umsebenzi wam ubalulekile kwaye into endiyenzayo ibalulekile. Nangona ndisebenza usuku olude kakhulu amaxesha ngamaxesha, ayindityhafisi. Yonke into kufuneka ilungelelane kwaye, ewe, ukuba sixhomekeke ngokwengqondo kwisidingo esifunekayo, oko akunampilo. Kodwa ngokubanzi, wonke umntu ufuna ukuvuka ekulungele ukufezekisa injongo. Xa sichitha usuku nosuku zilandelelana ngaphandle kokuphangela, ngaphandle kwemisebenzi, akukho nto yokwenza, ityhafisa amandla ethu.

Senziwe ukuba senze izinto ezintle.

Ukwenza nto ngokuchasene nobuntu bethu. Eyona ntsingiselo iphambili yobukho bomntu kukucinga. Sinobuchule obukhethekileyo bokucinga nzulu malunga nento esiyenzayo, kutheni siyenza, singobani kwaye siyaphi. Ngokwesiqhelo, xa sinosuku oluxakekileyo, kubandakanya ixesha elide lesikrini kunye nomabonwakude, ezivenkileni, okanye ezinye izinto ezingakhathaliyo. Yindlela elula nefanelekileyo yokuchitha usuku kodwa ekugqibeleni ayonelisi.

Ubomi bokucamngca bunokubonakala bungefani. Ukucamngca kuthe cwaka kwaye akukhawuleziswa, kodwa enyanisweni kuyasebenza ngokwenene, ngumsebenzi onzima. Akululanga ukuzolisa iingcinga zethu kwaye sijonge imbovane iphethe igqabi kwisebe. Akululanga ukubhala ijenali, umamele umculo uvale amehlo, okanye uhambe ungakhange ujonge umnxeba kube kanye. Ukuzazisa kunzima. Kuthatha ixesha kunye nomsebenzi, kodwa kwahluke kakhulu ekuchitheni usuku esofeni. Ukucamngca yindlela esiwondla ngayo umphefumlo wethu. Nangona ilucelomngeni, ibonelela ngesibonelelo sobomi yiyo loo nto umntu ochitha ixesha ekucamngceni enamandla.

Kukho ubuthathaka, ulungelelwano kunye nemvisiswano xa sonwabile kodwa asiphumi esikhumbeni sethu ngokudinwa, siyasebenza kodwa asidinwa. Sebenza iintsuku ezintandathu, uphumle ngomhla wesixhenxe. Sikhona ngeli xesha lokuphumla, kuba ngokuchasene nembono ethandwayo, ukuphumla lishishini elinobuzaza. Asifuni kuliphosa ithuba. Ukuba siyenza ngokuchanekileyo, siya kuba sempilweni, sonwabe kwaye sizele ngamandla