Uthando olunamandla luyabutshabalalisa ubomi bakho "Uthando yinkululeko hayi intolongo"
Namhlanje sifuna ukuthetha nawe malunga'uthando negunya ukuthatha impembelelo kumazwi kaKhadinali Matteo Zuppi. Uthando olunegunya luyatshabalalisa kuba lubeka imida kwaye lulawula omnye, luthintela lowo umthandayo ekubeni nenkululeko kunye nokuzimela. Uthando yinkululeko, loo mvakalelo idibanisa amaqabane kodwa inika indawo yokubonakalisa kwaye idale unxibelelwano olunzulu. Uthando aluyontolongo yomona okanye yokulawula, apho umntu esaba nokuphefumla.
Kwiintsuku ezimbalwa emva kokufa Giulia, sizifumana sithetha ngazo kwakhona ubufazi kunye nothando olungenanto yakwenza neli gama lithetha ukuthini. Ufuna Possedere umntu akamthandi. Yonke into eyenza enye umntu ongonwabanga, akunanto yakwenza nothando.
Imiphumo yothando lokulawula
Uthando olunamandla lunokuba lukhulu ziyingozi kwaye ziyonakalisa kubudlelwane. Xa umntu enezinto, ufuna ngamandla ulawulo iqabane, le ukunciphisa inkululeko yakhe kuzo zonke iinkalo zobomi bakhe. Olu hlobo lokuziphatha ludala rhoqo uxinzelelo kunye nexhala. Umntu onesidima unokuba nomona nezinto ezincinci, ezifana nabahlobo beqabane lakho, imisebenzi yakhe yemihla ngemihla okanye amalungu osapho. Ngenxa yoko, rhoqo ukubeka iliso kwi iintshukumo yeqabane, ngubani okwangoku Uyafutha ngokweemvakalelo.
Questa ubume obungenampilo Imvakalelo inokukhokelela ekubeni a ukubekwa wedwa koluntu, ekubeni umntu ophetheyo ehlukanisa iqabane kwihlabathi lakhe, ukuze yonke into ibe phantsi kolawulo. Oku kubekwa wedwa kunokukhokelela ekulahlekeni kobudlelwane obubalulekileyo kunye a ukuziva ulilolo ngabo bangamaxhoba ako konke oku.
Esinye isiphumo sobu budlelwane bungenampilo yiisimo sengqondo sokukhohlisa ukuba umntu ophetheyo aphumeze ngakumlingane, ephembelela izigqibo kunye nezenzo zakhe. Oku kujongela phantsi kwaye kutshabalalise ubuquisazisi kunye nokuzithemba welinye iqela, onokuziva engento yanto.
Inyaniso ebuhlungu kukuba ngelishwa konke oku kuphelela izimo zengqondo ndlongo, ezinemiphumo ebuhlungu kumntu obandezelekileyo nezithi ngokufuthi, ziphele thatha ubomi kwabo banesiphoso kuphela sokuthanda umntu ongalunganga ngendlela elungileyo.