UVicka waseMedjugorje: Kutheni sithandaza ngokuphazamisayo?
UVicka waseMedjugorje: Kutheni sithandaza ngokuphazamisayo?
Udliwano-ndlebe luka-Alberto Bonifacio - Itoliki udade uJosipa 5.8.1987
Q. Inenekazi Lethu licebisa ntoni ukuze kulungelwe imiphefumlo yonke?
R. Kufuneka, ngokwenene siguquke, siqalise ukuthandaza; kwaye thina, siqala ukuthandaza, siya kufumanisa ukuba yintoni ayifunayo kuthi, apho aya kusisa khona. Ngaphandle koku siqale sithandaze, sivule nje iintliziyo zethu, asizukuqonda nokuba ufuna ntoni kuthi.
Q. Inenekazi lethu lihlala lisithi thandaza kakuhle, uthandaze ngentliziyo, uthandaze kakhulu. Kodwa akasixeleli na amaqhinga okufunda ukuthandaza ngolu hlobo? Kutheni ndihlala ndiphazamiseka...
A. Oku kunokuba: Inenekazi lethu ngokuqinisekileyo lifuna ukuba sithandaze kakhulu, kodwa ngaphambi kokuba sithandaze kakhulu nangenyaniso ngentliziyo, kufuneka siqale kwaye uqale ngokugcina indawo yakho entliziyweni yakho nakumntu wakho. Nkosi, uzama ukuzikhulula kuyo yonke into ekukhathazayo ukuba ube nolu nxibelelwano kwaye uthandaze. Kwaye xa ukhululekile, unokuqalisa ukuthandaza ngokusuka entliziyweni kwaye uthi "Bawo wethu". Unokwenza imithandazo embalwa, kodwa yenze ngokusuka entliziyweni. Kwaye ke, kancinci kancinci, xa usenza le mithandazo, la mazwi akho uwathethayo abuye abe yinxalenye yobomi bakho, ngoko uya kuba novuyo lokuthandaza. Kwaye ke, emva koko, kuya kuba kuninzi (oko kukuthi: uya kukwazi ukuthandaza kakhulu).
D. Umthandazo kaninzi awungeni ebomini bethu, ngoko sibe namaxesha omthandazo axhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kwisenzo, asiyi kuguqulela ebomini: kukho lo kwahlukana. Kunokwenzeka njani ukuba sincede senze le nkumbulo? Kuba ukhetho lwethu ludla ngokungafaniyo nomthandazo owenziwe ngaphambilana.
A. Ewe, mhlawumbi kufuneka siqinisekise ukuba umthandazo ngokwenene uba luvuyo. Yaye kanye njengokuba umthandazo uluvuyo kuthi, umsebenzi unokuba luvuyo nakuthi. Umzekelo, uthi: "Ngoku ndiza kungxamela ukuthandaza kuba kuninzi ekufuneka kwenziwe", kungenxa yokuba uwuthanda kakhulu umsebenzi owenzayo kwaye ungathanda kancinci ukuba kunye neNkosi ukuthandaza. Uthetha ukuba kufuneka wenze umgudu kwaye wenze umthambo. Ukuba ukuthanda ngokwenene ukuba kunye neNkosi, ukuthanda kakhulu ukuthetha nayo, umthandazo ngokwenene uba luvuyo, apho indlela yakho yokuba, yokwenza, yokusebenza iya kuvela kwakhona.
Q. Sibaqinisekisa njani abo bathandabuzayo, abo bahlekisa ngawe?
R. Akusayi kubathethisa ngamazwi; kwaye ungakhe ulinge uqalise; kodwa ngobomi bakho, ngothando lwakho kunye nomthandazo wakho othe rhoqo ngenxa yabo, uya kubaqinisekisa ngobunyani bobomi njengoko usenza.
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