Umthandazo wokholo lomntwana wakho
Umthandazo wokholo lomntwana wakho - yinkxalabo yabazali bonke. Uqhubeka njani umntwana wam ukuthembela kuThixo xa inkcubeko yanamhlanje imfundisa ukubuza inkolo yakhe? Ndakuxoxa oku nonyana wam. Umbono wakhe omtsha undinike ithemba elitsha.
“Bonani uthando olungaka asenzele lona uYise, olu lokuba sibizwe ngokuba singabantwana bakaThixo. Kwaye yile nto siyiyo! Isizathu sokuba umhlaba ungasazi thina kukuba naye khange umazi. (1 Yohane 3: 1)
Incoko yethu evulekileyo ityhile izinto ezintathu ezinokwenziwa ngabazali ukunceda abantwana bethu ukuba bahlale bethembekile kwihlabathi eliya lingathembeki. Makhe sifunde kunye indlela yokunceda abantwana bethu ukuba bahlale bezinzile kwinkolo engagungqiyo, nokuba kuphakathi kwempambano.
Ayisiyonto yokulawula oko bakubonayo, imalunga nokulawula oko bakubonayo kuwe. Abantwana bethu basenokungasoloko bemamela koko sikuthethayo, kodwa baya kuthatha zonke iinkcukacha zezenzo zethu. Ngaba sibonisa isimilo esifana nesikaKristu ekhaya? Ngaba sibaphatha abanye ngothando olungenammiselo kunye nobubele? Ngaba sithembele ngeLizwi likaThixo ngamaxesha eengxaki?
UThixo usilungiselele ukuba ukukhanya kwakhe kukhanye. Abantwana bethu baya kufunda ngakumbi malunga nokuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba ngumlandeli kaKristu ngokugcina umzekelo wethu. Mamela, naxa usoyika into abanokuyithetha.
Umthandazo wokholo lomntwana wakho: Ndifuna abantwana bam bazive bekhululekile xa besiza kum beneengcinga zabo ezinzulu kunye noloyiko olukhulu, kodwa andisoloko ndiziphatha ngoluhlobo. Kuya kufuneka ndenze imeko yokuthembana, indawo ekhuselekileyo yokwabelana ngemithwalo.
Xa sibafundisa ukuba Thetha ngoThixo ekhaya, uxolo lwaKhe oluthuthuzelayo luya kuhlala kunye nabo njengoko beqhubeka nobomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Sithandazela ukuba ikhaya lethu libe yindawo yokudumisa uThixo kwaye lifumane uxolo lwaKhe. Yonke imihla, simema uMoya oyiNgcwele ukuba ahlale apho. Ubukho bakhe buya kubanika indawo ekhuselekileyo yokuthetha kunye namandla kuthi ukuba simamele.
thandaza kunye nam: Tata othandekayo, enkosi ngabantwana bethu. Enkosi ngokusithanda nangaphezu kwethu nangokubabiza ebumnyameni bangene ekukhanyeni kwakho okungummangaliso. (1 Petros 2: 9) Babona ihlabathi elibhidekileyo. Beva imiyalezo egweba iinkolelo zabo. Nangona kunjalo iLizwi lakho linamandla ngaphezu kwako konke ukungakhathali okuza ngendlela yabo. Bancede bagcine ukholo lwabo kuWe, Nkosi. Sinike ubulumko bokubakhokela njengoko bekhula babe ngamadoda nabafazi abanamandla obadale ukuba babe ngabo. Egameni likaYesu, Amen.